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Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si |
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over a year ago
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I am in the same boat having messaged a lot of couples. I have had some replies, but mostly from wannabes or single guys pretending to be a couple.
I think that couples can't have it easy on here, as they will be bombarded with messages, and they have to try and sort the good ones from the bad ones, and then the "honestly I'm bi but my profile says straight" would get annoying very quickly. |
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OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up
and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages
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"OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up
and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages
J x "
And this is the problem, its very hard to trust what people say on here |
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"OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up
and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages
J x
And this is the problem, its very hard to trust what people say on here"
I've had the same conversation with lots of couples on here and it is down to trust  |
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It might be that you're not what they are looking for? Just because a couple are bi doesn't necessary mean they want to meet single guys, some only meet other couples... They might be looking for a different body type/facial hair, any number of reasons. We get a lot of messages from single bi guys and do occasionally meet them if they're our type and we are in the mood. Keep trying, and good luck! xx |
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"It might be that you're not what they are looking for? Just because a couple are bi doesn't necessary mean they want to meet single guys, some only meet other couples... They might be looking for a different body type/facial hair, any number of reasons. We get a lot of messages from single bi guys and do occasionally meet them if they're our type and we are in the mood. Keep trying, and good luck! xx"
I will do thanks  |
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There has to be a chemistry between all who are involved and conversations instead of explicit messaging.
And if its a polite no,take it as a learning curve not as a insult.
It has to be fun and not mechanical or one-sided. |
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For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us |
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"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us "
but that's silly really cause what excuse is the guy gonna have if they meet? Like oh sorry I was just pretending to be bi I'll just bang your wife if that's ok.
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"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us "
We've pretty much given up with fab for this reason amongst others, only really use it to stay in touch with friends now. And I like to browse the forums.
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We are looking for an Orally bi guy, but probably are a bit too fussy with the type of guy we want generally. Orally bi is a tick in the box, but there are many other factors. Suggest not to be pushy (not saying you are) and just be polite. Also maybe try a club. |
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Exactly !
"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us but that's silly really cause what excuse is the guy gonna have if they meet? Like oh sorry I was just pretending to be bi I'll just bang your wife if that's ok."
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"I am in the same boat having messaged a lot of couples. I have had some replies, but mostly from wannabes or single guys pretending to be a couple.
I think that couples can't have it easy on here, as they will be bombarded with messages, and they have to try and sort the good ones from the bad ones, and then the "honestly I'm bi but my profile says straight" would get annoying very quickly."
Hot the nail on the head there, we get it all the time, even had a lad turn up after lots of chat saying he was Bi then when we got down to it he clearly wasn’t and was asked to leave. |
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"OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up
and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages
J x "
Yeah, we've had this happen. As the female half I can safely say it feels fucking horrible after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a real struggle but don't give up. There are plenty of real people, singles and couples on here. I agree the fakes are very annoying and we all get them. It just takes time and dedication to find the right match, but they are there. |
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"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us
We've pretty much given up with fab for this reason amongst others, only really use it to stay in touch with friends now. And I like to browse the forums.
Mr Hayes "
Shame we never met x |
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We had messages from straight couples few times where the male wanted to play bi obviously to get my wife in bed . When we asked about their wives, we was told " she is not into Asian men and she won't play or attend "
We was like WTF!
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I am a fully bi male willing to meet male half first and have done only to discover there was no female to meet in the first place he kept up the pretence until he got what he wanted which was my ass plenty frauds on here |
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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago
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I’ve met most bi couples at clubs or parties. Feels very horny when everyone is naked and touching each other. Very horny playing with a bi couple where the hubby hasn’t played with a guy before and you are the lucky one. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us "
My bf and I have separate profiles and when I point these "bi" guys to his profile saying...
"get dirty flirty with him, he loves that"...
they quickly bite the dust... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si "
As a lot of people have already said, there are so many profiles on here of people pretending to be something they're not.
Maybe going to a club when they hold a bi party will be a good way to meet lots of like minded people  |
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I fall into the boat that I am straight but when meeting a couple I have no issues with the husband playing with my cock and my ass. I am happy to even give their cock a stroke or kiss. Just never had a guys cock inside my ass |
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"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us
We've pretty much given up with fab for this reason amongst others, only really use it to stay in touch with friends now. And I like to browse the forums.
Mr Hayes "
Pretty much us too |
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By *anMigelMan
over a year ago
Sheffield/Alderley Edge |
I’ve had some and still have good times, with bi couples. There are a big number of fakes either side but if you sieve through it all, there’s genuine people who want to have fun. Read through their verifications, it gives you a clue. |
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"We had messages from straight couples few times where the male wanted to play bi obviously to get my wife in bed . When we asked about their wives, we was told " she is not into Asian men and she won't play or attend "
We was like WTF!
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A very common trap of the oversexed man with his own agenda - not good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si "
To be fair, you've been here three weeks..... We're in middlesbrough and are both openly bi.. |
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By *enny63Man
over a year ago
Stafford and Wolves |
"Well why dont they insist on the 2 males play first then they would know they are genuine "
This is exactly what me and a FB do. We make it clear that she gets off watching me paly with another guy before she joins in. Believe me, if they are genuine they don't regret it, because she is a wild beast if we get the right guy, but so many back out when you tell them that they must play man to man first. |
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By *anMigelMan
over a year ago
Sheffield/Alderley Edge |
"Well why dont they insist on the 2 males play first then they would know they are genuine
This is exactly what me and a FB do. We make it clear that she gets off watching me paly with another guy before she joins in. Believe me, if they are genuine they don't regret it, because she is a wild beast if we get the right guy, but so many back out when you tell them that they must play man to man first."
Totally agree on that one! |
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"Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si "
No visible pics; cannot accom (99% = married playing away, so not for us); safe-sex not ticked; threesomes not ticked; oral not ticked; searching 18-99 just a catch all.
So reading it, you want 1-on-1 bareback and no oral with people of any age without the wife finding out.
So we'd just delete message and move to the next. Yes, we could get into conversation and ask for clarification as I'm sure the assumptions are wrong, but its not worth bothering with when there are others there with pics and profiles that match more.
Having to ask questions is a lot of work and you tend to get answers they think you want (aka lies) - so we'd prefer to read profiles that match what we want from the outset.
Good luck 
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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago
Teddington |
"I find most bi couples are really blokes..
But they get more messages using a couples profile..
A true bi profile where bot are really into it is very rare"
We like to think we are unique rather than rare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve managed to meet two now but very rare and difficult to make happen, for various reasons.
I’m very comfortable being bi and enjoy playing with the guy as much as the lady.
Sometimes you’re just not what they are looking for but persevere
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"OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up
and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages
J x "
We can back this up, especially single guys sadly. |
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"Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si "
I've only recently discovered I'm probably bi. Always thought I was gay. I would love to have a bi mmf or a mff.
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