Wow. We've struggled finding a bull. Are we being too fussy. An older gentleman 35-50 with hair, beard and tattoos.
We've been let down twice. Got 2 hotels and both times blanked on the night. Its unbelievable.
Guys apply below. Send a face pic over and if the wife likes I'll send you her kik |
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over a year ago
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as a cuckold couple id suggest you stop looking for a bull and try and find an assertive guy who will take the lead to what ever fits what you are looking for this is what we did years ago and we found those guys that ''get it'' end up being bulls ..
now there are genuine bulls out there most dont state they are and most who DO state they are bulls are just winging it for a fuck..
so guess what we are really saying is most who shout it are not bulls even tho theres alot of bullshit .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey yes we are looking for exactly that. An assertive dominant guy. We put it all under that bull umbrella "
This is exactly the type of play I love and enjoy. Most of the action pics on my profile are taken by guys of me and their wife having fun 
I might be outside your preferred age range but otherwise I seem to fit the bill
Would love to hear from you - or anyone else that would like a nice guy to join them and look after the lady’s needs. X |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
OP I wouldn't day you're been too fussy as you like what you like but a bearded tattooed assertive / dominant guy is going to be harder to find but hopefully you'll find the right guy soon.
Amazing profile by the way.  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We feel your pain. Char likes exactly the same type of guy, we prefer a dominant guy that knows what he's doing and will give Char proper instructions. We're not a cuckold couple so don't need a "bull" as such, but we struggle just like you.
Hotel the other weekend, and let down by three out of three guys. We've now stopped arranging meets with non verified guys, unfortunately. |
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
East Midlands |
We prefer clubs, not just for this reason but good to meet people and chat first.
Only ever met in a hotel with someone we'd met at a club first as like you've found heard so many stories of no shows. |
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I would avoid unverified guys. If they appear too assertive and "bull like" they will often bail out because they cannot live up to their own hype.
The mrs should go for what she likes but you will limit the field by being too specific on looks etc.
There is nothing wrong with your desirability as a couple though; so its their problem not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine bulls out there most dont state they are and most who DO state they are bulls are just winging it for a fuck..
so guess what we are really saying is most who shout it are not bulls even tho theres alot of bullshit .."
Absolutely, there's disproportionately more bullshit than Bulls on this site lol x |
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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Wow. We've struggled finding a bull. Are we being too fussy. An older gentleman 35-50 with hair, beard and tattoos.
We've been let down twice. Got 2 hotels and both times blanked on the night. Its unbelievable.
Guys apply below. Send a face pic over and if the wife likes I'll send you her kik"
I know the pain. Would be also interesting to know what's the thinking behind doing that. There are tons of catfish I've come across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely comes with regularity and all three being comfortable in their space. Saw a couple for 4 years and it was not a cuck thing just wife loved me being a dominant instructive lover. Something different. Not always about sex either...sometimes just have coffee and a chat....very sexy indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As referenced above, might be better stating that you are looking for an alpha rather than a bull, sounds like you are into the mind play as well as physical play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is a shocking indictment on the fantasists that exist amongst the single guy profiles.
I fully understand that a lot of guys are like myself and balancing their cravings and desires with commitments. However simple levels of respect for those couples who talk and agree plans to meet should be sacrosanct once made.
Clubs are great for the choice and settings they enable but for others the simple hotel room meeting makes for a more relaxed and intimate meeting and the couple also gets a night away from normality too.
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The club suggestion is a very good idea. In a club environment you can evaluate all potential suitors and see if there's a connection, well you can find somewhere quiet!
It takes the pressure off all parties |
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"Gutted that it all got cancelled as means we won't have free time til after Xmas now "
Did you talk to the person beforehand. Before I meet couples/ladies - usually have call with them to check they are real. Also will check they have verifications - that at the very least shows someone has met them and vouched they are not a fantasist
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow. We've struggled finding a bull. Are we being too fussy. An older gentleman 35-50 with hair, beard and tattoos.
We've been let down twice. Got 2 hotels and both times blanked on the night. Its unbelievable.
Guys apply below. Send a face pic over and if the wife likes I'll send you her kik"
If only I had tattoos lol |
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thats the route weve been going down too , private meets are too unpredictable
"We prefer clubs, not just for this reason but good to meet people and chat first.
Only ever met in a hotel with someone we'd met at a club first as like you've found heard so many stories of no shows."
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"Wow. We've struggled finding a bull. Are we being too fussy. An older gentleman 35-50 with hair, beard and tattoos.
We've been let down twice. Got 2 hotels and both times blanked on the night. Its unbelievable.
Guys apply below. Send a face pic over and if the wife likes I'll send you her kik"
Its the hair thing thats letting me down |
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Regrettably there are probably more fantasists on here than genuine guys. Use the verifications to whittle out the none genuine guys and even contact the people that have verified them.
Socials are generally a good way of finding out who is genuine, at least if they don’t show you can have a drink and a night out instead.
Keep trying and hopefully you will find that genuine one that brings you what you are looking for.
Good luck. |
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