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Should I lose the beard?
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.
Don't change to suit others on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.
Don't change to suit others on here. "
Thanks Mrs x |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.
Don't change to suit others on here. "
This. 
I’ve got one too. You take me as I am or not at all. |
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"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"
Don’t mean this to sound harsh but even if you shave it off, is it suddenly going to make those who don’t like beards automatically like you? Just do what you want - if you fancy a change to see how you get on, shave it off. Can always grow it back. |
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Keep the beard in fact more beard.
As a barber you can take that as a professional opinion. It’s like your doctor telling ya.
In the words of lord flash heart 
‘Like the beard gives em something to hold on to . Woooof!’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of ours, who we meet regularly, sent a little whatsapp video prior to our last meet. He wanted to share that he'd grown a beard and he really hoped it wasn't a problem 
So cute.
I'll say to you what I said to him - it's your face, your facial hair. You do what you like with it!
It's nice that you guys care enough to ask though xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A friend of ours, who we meet regularly, sent a little whatsapp video prior to our last meet. He wanted to share that he'd grown a beard and he really hoped it wasn't a problem
So cute.
I'll say to you what I said to him - it's your face, your facial hair. You do what you like with it!
It's nice that you guys care enough to ask though xx "
That’s very considerate - I’ll bear that in mind.
You two look like you have plenty of fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Mrs PD) personally don't like them but would never ask anyone to get rid of theirs."
this from both of us, cant stand them, especialy on ladies, but would never ask someone to get rid, we just wouldnt meet them |
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If you like the beard keep the beard, If you want a change get rid of it. It shouldn’t matter what other people think, it’s upto you.
Winter is coming so I’ll probably let mine grow a bit to keep me warm. My heads going to get cold but I can try and keep my face warm  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep the beard in fact more beard.
As a barber you can take that as a professional opinion. It’s like your doctor telling ya.
In the words of lord flash heart
‘Like the beard gives em something to hold on to . Woooof!’"
My hero! If it’s good enough for Rick, it sure works for me |
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I wouldn't change his I look for people on the net and neither should anybody else. However if you're just canvassing opinion in the same way I might ask my mates if they think shorter hair would suit me then I think you should keep it, it suits you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you like the beard, keep it! Why would you shave it off to, 1) Please someone you don't know at all, and 2) For the slight possibility that they will now consider having sex with you? Stay you and aim for your people! |
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I've had a first contact message from a couple telling me to lose the beard or they wouldn't meet me. Bad enough coming from someone I had already been chatting to but ridiculous as they assumed I was interested in meeting them and desperate enough to do as I was told.
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By *aui.Man
over a year ago
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I have a beard too. Sometimes it’s shorter, sometimes it’s longer but it’s always there. I also see plenty of profiles saying they don’t like men with beards. I just don’t message them. There are plenty who enjoy a good beard and they are more my type 
I have been told in the past ‘we’d meet you if you want to shave your beard off’ urm, no you’re alright. I’ll pass on that thanks |
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"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do! 
Mrs NC
Is that right? 
It is. Hubby doesn't have one so I obviously like men without beards too "
You have the best of both worlds x |
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"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!
Mrs NC
Is that right?
It is. Hubby doesn't have one so I obviously like men without beards too
You have the best of both worlds x"
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"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"
Keep it i love a nice groomed beard and so do a lot of other women x |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
Fuck no!
Although I have to say of the beard compliments I recieve they come from men probably twice as often as they come from women so it might be something men appreciate more than women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.
Don't change to suit others on here. "
Definitely this ^^
And it has nothing to do with my preference for guy's with beards.
But why on earth would you shave it off, in the hope that some random stranger on here might like it?
That's like me thinking, if I dye my hair blonde suddenly I'll be noticed more!?!? I'm very happy being a brunette thank you  |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
Someone who'd shaved his beard because his mrs told him to once said to me "A man who shaves his beard for a woman deserves neither" it made me chuckle and is very applicable here. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"
Maybe a lil trim if it's too bushy like Chubakka but wouldn't change myself just for a meet, they like you as u are in your pic or they don't. simple  |
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You chose to have a beard for a reason, so I certainly wouldn’t be getting rid of it just because a few profiles don’t like it! Chose what you want to do, not what you think others would prefer! Having said that if Mr suddenly shaved his off, I’d cry for at least a week haha Miss pc |
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"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"
Grow a set be yourself if it is not good enough for others fuck them.
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Obviously I am biased but it looks great to me. touch of Sir Francis Drake.
Loads of women like beards. Concentrate on them.
Beards could well tickle the fancy so what is to lose by keeping a well groomed one?
At the other extreme, the avuncular Father Christmas look sits well with many women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Obviously I am biased but it looks great to me. touch of Sir Francis Drake.
Loads of women like beards. Concentrate on them.
Beards could well tickle the fancy so what is to lose by keeping a well groomed one?
At the other extreme, the avuncular Father Christmas look sits well with many women."
Francis Drake? I'll take that!
Thanks all. Some lovely comments so far. Who knew it was such a rich topic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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surely its about what you want not what others want ?? i totally dislike facial hair but id never expect anyone to shave to meet (yep lots offer but i see that as desperation) and with the amont of post about beards on here it seen alot will get rid of just to have sex that to me is not you being your true self and desperation setting in ....guys if you what a like your beard the own it with pride plus there are a lot more that like them than those that dont
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with everyone that you shouldn't bother what any strangers online want. But, for what it's worth, this stranger online would say grow it more! I love beards and you suit it. |
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"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"
do you like your beard ? If you do then why lose it to suit others !?
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"Fuck no!
Although I have to say of the beard compliments I recieve they come from men probably twice as often as they come from women so it might be something men appreciate more than women. "
Amazing how many men compliment. I was shocked. Also the number who say they’re jealous and wish they could grow one similar. |
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Amazing how many men compliment. I was shocked. Also the number who say they’re jealous and wish they could grow one similar. "
I wish people would understand the simple difference between 'jealous' and 'envious'.
99% of the time people really mean 'envious',thankfully. Envy is a fairly normal activity.
Jealousy, on the other hand, is a totally different beast and not something anyone needs to get caught up with,EVER.It is nothing but destructive and ruins people's lives. I've been on the wrong end of it twice and that is more than enough. |
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