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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How many chances do you give a meet before you give up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they have a genuine reason for changing plans then I would give someone another chance..after all life happens and swinging isn't always the priority.

If they kept doing it or their reasons seemed doubtful then I would move on and forget about them .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

As long as they let me know before hand and I can make other arrangements I don't really care if they cancel.

If I like them enough I'll arrange to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they have a genuine reason for changing plans then I would give someone another chance..after all life happens and swinging isn't always the priority.

If they kept doing it or their reasons seemed doubtful then I would move on and forget about them ."
same here,we did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

If they cancel beforehand, one more chance

If they were a no show...no more chances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No show, no chance!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they have a genuine reason for changing plans then I would give someone another chance..after all life happens and swinging isn't always the priority.

If they kept doing it or their reasons seemed doubtful then I would move on and forget about them ."

I would give them three and on the fourth i would tell them to jog on babe

Dont waste your valuable time on people who dont respect your time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None if I was stood up, one if I found them totally shaggable and told me prior to the meet they couldnt make it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really depends on who it is, their reasons to dely a meet, cancel etc

i arranged to meet a guy 3 times once and every time i gave him the benifit of the doubt and re arranged

After the 3rd time he cancelled i told him not to ask again i think 3 chances is more than enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they cancel beforehand, one more chance

If they were a no show...no more chances"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"How many chances do you give a meet before you give up."

Really depends on the reason / circumstances.

Generally would say between one and three.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"How many chances do you give a meet before you give up."

One.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I decided 3 chances was enough even if they have given excuses, it gets a bit annoying to be honest plus I have found that some make an excuse and don't message again to meet, not sure if that means they think they won't get a chance to meet again or they changed their minds. Some have only had one chance and that was because they just taking the mick as they didn't turn up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3.2 exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I may consider giving a gent another chance if I believe the reason for pulling out of a meet is genuine.

However, there will not be a third chance.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

one chance only

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No show no chance unless they contact us beforehand with a plausible excuse - this is for fun and it's no fun making plans and having them scuppered by timewasters !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 strikes & their out

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