After reading the comments on Facebook of the latest story about swingers on the sun page, it made us wonder if peoples views will ever change about what swingers do.
99% of the comments are negative. They say the female is a s*** or they can’t love each other . Or they say they are both cheaters or the woman must be forced into it so the man can shag about. Then there’s a few comments about they must all be riddled with stds and aids
Do you think more swingers should be open about their lives to show that most of us are in fact normal and in love with our partners. We are quite open about our relationship when out and about and happy to inform strangers in bars what we do if we are on the pull. And we get lots of positive responses as we aren’t what they expect swingers to look like. |
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over a year ago
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Most of them are just jealous because they are stuck in their boring little vanilla relationships. They are probably texting their bit on the side at the same time as writing their comment. 
We have done it all from GB's to parties and are closer than ever  |
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Keen to read this article!
We have a few select friends who we talk to and although they say it’s not for them they think it’s great that we have so much fun and can clearly see how happy we both are.
The best part is when we go to my parents house and my dad pipes up about how the people over the road used to have swingers parties and pampas grass on the lawns. Everyone on the street was at it in the 80 s 
We havnt told them we do it just makes us smile . |
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I think people should live how they choose but I don't think there's anything to be gained by being more open. I'm not bothered by what tabloid readers think of me and I don't other people should find swinging ok just because I do. |
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over a year ago
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It's the way society has moulded us to be so I understand why people feel that way. Couples who are open, honest and trust each other enough to be with others usually have the long lasting relationships, if that's not love I'm not sure what is. |
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