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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How safe is it?
I've read a lot of posts with the subject of people having sex with regular partners and having sex without condoms.
Can you be 100% certain that the partners are exclusive to each other, or are they meeting others and doing the same with those, without the other people involved not knowing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx
Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis. "
I'm happy to play bare, but I do get checked at least monthly xx |
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"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx
Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis.
I'm happy to play bare, but I do get checked at least monthly xx"
Exactly, as everyone who’s willing to play bare should. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own choices and persuasions, everyone has their own kind of fun.
Does it matter that the ones you play with could be playing with those that don't get tested?
A test will only let you know if you have or haven't caught something, not prevent it. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"How safe is it?
I've read a lot of posts with the subject of people having sex with regular partners and having sex without condoms.
Can you be 100% certain that the partners are exclusive to each other, or are they meeting others and doing the same with those, without the other people involved not knowing?"
In my experience they lie and say not having sex others then you find out having unprotected sex with st least 2 others who have no idea |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't understand people telling they play bare back with regulars and they test regularly. Doing test doesn't protect from catching a disease. "
If it's someone they trust and both parties agree they'll only play bareback with that person then it's not really any different from a couple, that said it isn't our bag, someone you're not in a relationship with owes you nothing and people lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx
Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis.
I'm happy to play bare, but I do get checked at least monthly xx"
Getting checked monthly doesn’t protect you from catching an incurable STD from someone you have unprotected sex with though. It stops you spreading it if you do catch something so it’s definitely good to get checked regularly but unless you only have unprotected sex with someone who’s been checked and given the all clear recently you’re putting yourself at risk no matter how regularly you get checked.
Do you ask when the person was last checked before having unprotected sex? |
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