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Seems really hard to find localish couples who enjoy a range of naughty adventures. We've been looking so long for a pair who would all play together and sometimes individually with either of us and vice versa. Has anyone ever managed to find such playmates. |
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We have done this with couples we have become friends with when one or the other isn't able to join in for whatever reason.
Not something we started out looking for but meeting separately is something we have evolved into our dynamic |
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It's the type of thing we would look for but very hard to just find a local couple where they both play where we are as we keep coming across couples but turns out to just be the man who wants to play if we had a genuine local couple where we all played together then played separately with each other we would be up for it |
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"Seems really hard to find localish couples who enjoy a range of naughty adventures. We've been looking so long for a pair who would all play together and sometimes individually with either of us and vice versa. Has anyone ever managed to find such playmates. "
are we stretching the interpretation of couple? i get what your saying, hippy commune free love share and share alike(ish).... hmmm might be hard to achieve  |
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We have a regular couple we have been meeting since the nineties where we will quite often meet separately either as a two but more often as a threesome.
The hubby quite often has weekends away with the other wife as they have an interest that doesn't really appeal to me or the other guy so we usually have the weekend together. |
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We both have our own singles profiles and play seperately and visit clubs seperately and together 
Its much easier to get round work and childcare issues too lol |
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This is a really interesting thread for us, we are very new to meeting couples as only been to a club a few times and its something we discussed on what our boundaries are.
We are still on the fence but it will depends on the couple and building trust, we would really prefer a regular couple to play with and if that evolves, who knows? This has actually made us think! It is definitely not something we would jump into straight away though but I like o think we are open minded enough to at least discuss the subject. |
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"This is a really interesting thread for us, we are very new to meeting couples as only been to a club a few times and its something we discussed on what our boundaries are.
We are still on the fence but it will depends on the couple and building trust, we would really prefer a regular couple to play with and if that evolves, who knows? This has actually made us think! It is definitely not something we would jump into straight away though but I like o think we are open minded enough to at least discuss the subject. "
For us it just sort of happened, became friends with the couple and sometimes just easier to meet up separately, we all talked about it first so nothing hidden.
Can work very well if you're open and honest with each other
Limits or rules whatever you want to call them have evolved as we have enjoyed our journey with this fun hobby |
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For us it just sort of happened, became friends with the couple and sometimes just easier to meet up separately, we all talked about it first so nothing hidden.
Can work very well if you're open and honest with each other
Limits or rules whatever you want to call them have evolved as we have enjoyed our journey with this fun hobby "
That sounds very cool, organic and not forced at all |
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"are we stretching the interpretation of couple? i get what your saying, hippy commune free love share and share alike(ish).... hmmm might be hard to achieve "
I'm a time of awakening and understanding where sex, sexuality and relationships do not have to fit into the neat little 2D box as religion would like them to, are we really saying that a couple cannot be a couple if they engage in sex with others without each other from time to time? Relationships and love don't have to revolve around sex, and likewise sex can be enjoyed between two people without them being in love. Everyone is entitled to identify their relationship how they see and feel it to be, even a couple that are romantically monogamous but sexually non-monogamous. |
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For us it just sort of happened, became friends with the couple and sometimes just easier to meet up separately, we all talked about it first so nothing hidden.
Can work very well if you're open and honest with each other
Limits or rules whatever you want to call them have evolved as we have enjoyed our journey with this fun hobby
That sounds very cool, organic and not forced at all "
We are just very open and honest with each other, since we started this hobby we have become even more open and honest which we think is a bonus
It's all about wanting each other to have fun and enjoy everything either of us wants to explore |
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