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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over."
Ok you’re a hero.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It surprises me too, if there’s pics of bareback on profiles it really puts me off meeting.
But it’s each to there own "
Can I ask if you participate in oral sex without barrier protection? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don’t really always know who’s in the pics (although the Ts&Cs….etc) but if it’s a couple, and pics of themselves, then no one can criticise, they may still use condone with others but not photo them. Certainly, no one technically should show anyone in their profiles but themselves… |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
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"It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over."
Who do you think you are?.....guaranteeing that 99% of members don't test regularly?, and that ridiculous nonsense about them "ruining it for the rest of us"
Your rant is ridiculous, get a grip |
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Big no no from me ,only do bareback in films when there are 3 months of test resuts of proff and the studs are known in industry if not ,condoms it is ,i wont put my sexual health in danger for no one ,... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody is entitled to do as they wish. Anybody on here is an adult.
You don't know the circumstances of the people that are in the pictures and videos neither so it's probably best that you hold back on such a judgemental rant. |
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Still amazes me the amount of judgements about the way people wish to play on a swingers site. You cam see how they like to play from the pics. Dont like it? Move on. Why do you need to "publicly shame " their preferences because you dont like it?
Obviously when peoole lie is another mattet amd totally unacceptable. |
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I always laff at this kind of post so you dont do bairback but you will kiss another. You will suck dick or eat pussy with no condom on or barrier cream in place have any idia how many sti ect you can catch from kissing and unprotected oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still amazes me the amount of judgements about the way people wish to play on a swingers site. You cam see how they like to play from the pics. Dont like it? Move on. Why do you need to "publicly shame " their preferences because you dont like it?
Obviously when peoole lie is another mattet amd totally unacceptable. "
Quite simply the post has sycophantic origins. Look at me I am a good boy........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer people that do things I don't like, to do exactly what they want on their profiles, instead of hide it like alot of guys do, because they think it will widen their appeal... Just because you don't like something doesn't make it wrong, just wrong for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still amazes me the amount of judgements about the way people wish to play on a swingers site. You cam see how they like to play from the pics. Dont like it? Move on. Why do you need to "publicly shame " their preferences because you dont like it?
Obviously when peoole lie is another mattet amd totally unacceptable. "
Judgements are at times a reflection on your own behaviour, moral outrage on something they either do themselves or like the idea of. The thought of them liking it gives them a shameful feeling and they feel they have to protest.
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"Still amazes me the amount of judgements about the way people wish to play on a swingers site. You cam see how they like to play from the pics. Dont like it? Move on. Why do you need to "publicly shame " their preferences because you dont like it?
Obviously when peoole lie is another mattet amd totally unacceptable.
Quite simply the post has sycophantic origins. Look at me I am a good boy........"
Absolutely and was gonna add but thought id ranted enough lol
Its like with the " they runin it for the rest of us" brigade. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It surprises me too, if there’s pics of bareback on profiles it really puts me off meeting.
But it’s each to there own "
How do you know they're not photos of the only person the lady does bareback with? I have two people I'll bareback with because I know them extremely well and know who they've been with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It surprises me too, if there’s pics of bareback on profiles it really puts me off meeting.
But it’s each to there own
How do you know they're not photos of the only person the lady does bareback with? I have two people I'll bareback with because I know them extremely well and know who they've been with."
Are you with these two people all day as in 24/7.
It’s all about intelligent informed and individual preferences. Just be aware of the issues and take the appropriate measures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over."
You guarantee? 
Are you aware the people on here are grownups; they don’t need to make excuses to please you. If they choose to have bareback sex, then that’s up to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It surprises me too, if there’s pics of bareback on profiles it really puts me off meeting.
But it’s each to there own
How do you know they're not photos of the only person the lady does bareback with? I have two people I'll bareback with because I know them extremely well and know who they've been with.
Are you with these two people all day as in 24/7.
It’s all about intelligent informed and individual preferences. Just be aware of the issues and take the appropriate measures."
They don't need your advice or asked for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It surprises me too, if there’s pics of bareback on profiles it really puts me off meeting.
But it’s each to there own
How do you know they're not photos of the only person the lady does bareback with? I have two people I'll bareback with because I know them extremely well and know who they've been with.
Are you with these two people all day as in 24/7.
It’s all about intelligent informed and individual preferences. Just be aware of the issues and take the appropriate measures.
They don't need your advice or asked for it"
Who are they? |
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Swingers typically have much higher levels of STI testing than the general population. Each of us is responsible for our health and testing programme - details of local services are frequently discussed in the forum, including during lockdowns, when many facilities were suspended. If you are of the impression that we don't take health management seriously, I think it's reflective of your own lack of integration with the community.
Profile photos are not a time based album of sexual exploits with strangers. And swinging often is far from being about anonymous sex with strangers. Many of us have long-term partners - some relationships are poly - and it will be fairly standard to have bareback. Longer-term fb type engagements may have this quality of connection too.
I think generally people find judgemental mindsets, based on no personal connection to others to even know the realities, to be more more unpleasant than any supposed wrongdoing by consenting adults, based upon viewing some photos, that were taken at unknown dates, containing people who the viewer has absolutely no knowledge about whatsoever.
With thousands of people here, you have more than enough people to get to know, leaving most of them aside, as you're not matched. |
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"Still amazes me the amount of judgements about the way people wish to play on a swingers site. You cam see how they like to play from the pics. Dont like it? Move on. Why do you need to "publicly shame " their preferences because you dont like it?
Obviously when peoole lie is another mattet amd totally unacceptable.
Judgements are at times a reflection on your own behaviour, moral outrage on something they either do themselves or like the idea of. The thought of them liking it gives them a shameful feeling and they feel they have to protest.
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Very true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are we assuming people that play bareback don't test? That's pretty judgemental. "
Because it's easier to be angry about a pre-existing misconception than to learn the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still amazes me the amount of judgements about the way people wish to play on a swingers site. You cam see how they like to play from the pics. Dont like it? Move on. Why do you need to "publicly shame " their preferences because you dont like it?
Obviously when peoole lie is another mattet amd totally unacceptable.
Judgements are at times a reflection on your own behaviour, moral outrage on something they either do themselves or like the idea of. The thought of them liking it gives them a shameful feeling and they feel they have to protest.
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Nail on the head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never mate without a T-shirt on!
Can’t stand having a bareback I get freezing,,
especially this time of year "
But you're from Middlesbrough, it's tradition round your neck of the woods, especially in football stadiums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never mate without a T-shirt on!
Can’t stand having a bareback I get freezing,,
especially this time of year
But you're from Middlesbrough, it's tradition round your neck of the woods, especially in football stadiums "
I never really got into the football side of things.
Stealing cars was more my thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never mate without a T-shirt on!
Can’t stand having a bareback I get freezing,,
especially this time of year
But you're from Middlesbrough, it's tradition round your neck of the woods, especially in football stadiums
I never really got into the football side of things.
Stealing cars was more my thing"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It surprises me too, if there’s pics of bareback on profiles it really puts me off meeting.
But it’s each to there own
How do you know they're not photos of the only person the lady does bareback with? I have two people I'll bareback with because I know them extremely well and know who they've been with.
Are you with these two people all day as in 24/7.
It’s all about intelligent informed and individual preferences. Just be aware of the issues and take the appropriate measures."
No, I'm not with them 24/7, but have known them both a long time. One is my partner/Sir, the other is a really good friend of ours. There is trust with all of us, so it's not an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over."
How do you know that all the photo's and video's you are viewing are not their Husbands / Partners? |
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Just be careful OP not to jump to conclusions based on a photo. I had a lady make a comment about ‘bare’ photos on my profile and there isn’t a single one. Sometimes the condom isn’t obvious on a photo. I use Durex Real Feel which are very thin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never say never as they say
it's the heat of the moment where the woman gets carried away.
Years ago, a few years after we started inviting guys to fuck my wife - several times as the guys rubbed their cock on my wifes pussy, she used to thrust her pussy to drive in the cock no condoms etc. I had to stop them and get the guy to wear a condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The probable majority play bare hun. I respect everyone's choices, either way. But many of us do xx"
It's incredibly naïve to think that most people use condoms. They really don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never say never as they say
it's the heat of the moment where the woman gets carried away.
Years ago, a few years after we started inviting guys to fuck my wife - several times as the guys rubbed their cock on my wifes pussy, she used to thrust her pussy to drive in the cock no condoms etc. I had to stop them and get the guy to wear a condom"
I know the feeling
Set out to be safe but get carried away
Happened to me yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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another white knight post .....= total turn off
nobody ruins anything for anyone but themselves people need to stop using others excuse's for themselves getting no where |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"judging from the messages we get , bareback is becoming the norm. about 1 in 25 turn us down coz we bareback. thats couples too  "
I've had a lot of meets both off here and NSA fuck and gos off Tinder as well, 1 condom used in years of playing, and that's often without me asking about going bare. Yes its the norm I'd say xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never say never as they say
it's the heat of the moment where the woman gets carried away.
Years ago, a few years after we started inviting guys to fuck my wife - several times as the guys rubbed their cock on my wifes pussy, she used to thrust her pussy to drive in the cock no condoms etc. I had to stop them and get the guy to wear a condom
I know the feeling
Set out to be safe but get carried away
Happened to me yesterday"
you think you are prepared but never are. Now older, much more control |
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I find mainly couples are the ones mainly asking for bareback, it’s the fantasy for some .. watching their wife filled up by another guy then fucking her themselves afterwards..
Never been asked to go bare by a single female yet ..
It’s each to their own..
Let people play as they want..
I feel the OP started this thread to make himself out to be the perfect swinger, think it’s possibly backfired |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over."
maybe they are long term partners, we dont use protection between ourselves, but always with others, how do you know? ask |
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By *xelciscoMan
over a year ago
Reading/bracknell |
Best way is to communicate to set expectations.. I personally tell my partners about all my current and past STDs so they can choose
I always wear a mask when telling them though.
BTW California has outlawed non-consensual condom removal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not meet anyone off here yet lol but I personally think most women want you to cum in them . And most men are more than willing to do it !!! "
Tell us who and we will make sure to ovoid them,the woman and men |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"It amazes me the amount of pics / vids on here of people having bareback sex
Your utterly crazy!
Theres no excuse not to wrap uo cmln guys jeeeezus
And i guarantee 99% of people on here dont regualarly test or know their status and are ruining it for the rest of us
Sorry rant over."
Q1....u know 99% of the people on here?
A....u mean 0000.9% and that's being generous
Q2....True or false u claim to know they don't reg get tested?
A....False
Q3....why is it ruining it for the rest of us? When did u ask me my opinion and what did I say?
A....
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
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"Easiest way to spot a troll. Find a post/comment made by someone that is sure to incite divided opinions and notice that person doesn't comment again. "
Noticed that no more comments from OP |
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"Best way is to communicate to set expectations.. I personally tell my partners about all my current and past STDs so they can choose
I always wear a mask when telling them though.
BTW California has outlawed non-consensual condom removal."
Removing a condom without consent during sex in the UK is r*pe under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, s.1 if the initial consent was conditional on a condom being used. The maximum tariff for R*pe is life imprisonment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All are pics and vids are me and the Mrs fucking Bareback. We've had messages before saying it's disgusting people just assume its meets we have. Always use protection with meets but if we find the right guy for regular sex we'll play bare for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See if you don't use condoms you're a fool I've been involved with gang bangs and if you are to fuck bare you have to produce a negative test result from pee and blood within a few days of the event. Only ever with people I genuinely trust |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Not meet anyone off here yet lol but I personally think most women want you to cum in them . And most men are more than willing to do it !!! "
I think you are wrong there about women. Safe always |
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By *xelciscoMan
over a year ago
Reading/bracknell |
"Best way is to communicate to set expectations.. I personally tell my partners about all my current and past STDs so they can choose
I always wear a mask when telling them though.
BTW California has outlawed non-consensual condom removal.
Removing a condom without consent during sex in the UK is r*pe under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, s.1 if the initial consent was conditional on a condom being used. The maximum tariff for R*pe is life imprisonment. "
That is correct, thank you. Bump for general reminding... |
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"See if you don't use condoms you're a fool I've been involved with gang bangs and if you are to fuck bare you have to produce a negative test result from pee and blood within a few days of the event. Only ever with people I genuinely trust "
Just to correct you - Not using a condom is a personal choice and does not alter anyone's mental capacity so don't call them a "fool".
If you think the risks they run justifies your ascertion they are "fools" then those engaged in more risky passtimes, e.g. cycling, rugby, skydiving, motor racing, motorbike riding, horse riding, farming, building construction, etc etc etc are also "fools". |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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"Aren't barebackers scared to catch something painful and inconvenient? Or worse, something incurable?  "
Why u worried about what other people get up to? Does it affect u personally if people u don't know decide to do something u don't agree with? Is it yr business at the end of the day? Just like yr on a swingers site, is it anyone's business but yrs? Just don't understand yr concerned bout something yr not involved in. At end of day people make their own choices as long as it doesn't affect u there's no need to worry. |
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