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over a year ago
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Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
It would be the decent thing to do to inform them prior to the meet that they won't be the only ones to play with you that day, especially that it would be bareback as well  |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case. |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
I’d like to know, particularly if she’s gone bareback with him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case. "
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't 
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx"
I mean, I’m not sure it’s about politeness. The idea of sloppy seconds isn’t the issue it’s more what guy number 1 might be carrying. It’s entirely up to you and what you feel is appropriate |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx"
It’s a good question and hopefully the guys will help you get a better understanding of how it might be best to play it.
May I just add how incredibly gorgeous you look on your profile pic 
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx
I mean, I’m not sure it’s about politeness. The idea of sloppy seconds isn’t the issue it’s more what guy number 1 might be carrying. It’s entirely up to you and what you feel is appropriate "
I always make it clear I'm a bareback girl. Never lie. If they ask about my recent history I'll tell them honestly. But I don't go into details normally unless asked xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Pretty sure she won't "keep it to herself" and the evidence will be leaking out at some point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx
It’s a good question and hopefully the guys will help you get a better understanding of how it might be best to play it.
May I just add how incredibly gorgeous you look on your profile pic
Xx"
Oh thank you darling, that's so kind
I've admired your pictures since I joined Fab! Xx |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx
I mean, I’m not sure it’s about politeness. The idea of sloppy seconds isn’t the issue it’s more what guy number 1 might be carrying. It’s entirely up to you and what you feel is appropriate
I always make it clear I'm a bareback girl. Never lie. If they ask about my recent history I'll tell them honestly. But I don't go into details normally unless asked xx"
Then I’m not sure you have too much to worry about. From a moral standpoint anyway. Like I said, I’d want to know but it wouldn’t detract me. If anything I’d be trying to prove a point!! |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx
It’s a good question and hopefully the guys will help you get a better understanding of how it might be best to play it.
May I just add how incredibly gorgeous you look on your profile pic
Xx
Oh thank you darling, that's so kind
I've admired your pictures since I joined Fab! Xx"
Awww thank you hun 
I’ve always admired yours from a far x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn’t bother me.
Your profile is very honest and you’ve been honest with me in the past!
If it was an issue, I’d ask first or, I’m sure you’d tell. But, it matters not. In fact, I’d happily watch you with another guy and then join you straight after or, vice versa  |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
How bout the reverse? Would u want to know if he'd fucked someone bareback earlier that day? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
How bout the reverse? Would u want to know if he'd fucked someone bareback earlier that day?"
No. But it wouldn't bother me at all if they had xx |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx"
Would it be a 1 on 1 meet or a group?
If its a group its usually all organised beforehand.
I've known it to happen 1 on 1 though too.
It would be a personal preference to all who are involved. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx
Would it be a 1 on 1 meet or a group?
If its a group its usually all organised beforehand.
I've known it to happen 1 on 1 though too.
It would be a personal preference to all who are involved. "
I've done both. But I was referring to more than one 1 on 1 meet in a day xx |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx
Would it be a 1 on 1 meet or a group?
If its a group its usually all organised beforehand.
I've known it to happen 1 on 1 though too.
It would be a personal preference to all who are involved.
I've done both. But I was referring to more than one 1 on 1 meet in a day xx"
Me myself, I would be ok with it. |
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By *nt1Man
over a year ago
Allington |
One of my friends came round for sex after she'd been out with her work mates. The sex was excellent as usual. A few days later i was asking her about where she had been as she had been wearing stockings which was unusual and eventually caved in and told me she'd been on a date and fucked the guy before coming to mine. My cock went rock hard.... i really wish she hadn't felt the need to fib. Id love to have known before we did it.
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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
How bout the reverse? Would u want to know if he'd fucked someone bareback earlier that day?"
Or fucked another woman bareback he's not washed his cock and you suck him off, nice  |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
The decent thing to do would be to mention it I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're making sure the blokes are clean, and cleaned up the cum
What a waste 
Not at the gym, so no need for the extra protein "
I was thinking that it makes good lube |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Tell me   |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx"
It wouldn't make any difference to me. I wouldn't be offended if I wasn't the first to come in a girl and she didn't tell me. |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
The decent thing to do would be to mention it I think"
Why? The meeting is for a fuck not a full detailed description/history of her sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Tell me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found it to b a turn on,knowing that I had,but then I always used to get them checked first,b4 going bareback.
Get them checked ? "
I would like to know, but then again I don’t think I’d dp bareback unless I knew them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would not bother me seen your profile you admit to being BB so am I tested clean so no problem I like cum so give you a good licking before fucking you if given the chance that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It personally wouldn't bother me. Obviously I'd like to know if I was going to go down on you. But I have gone second before and it was absolutely fine, just more slippery lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Tell me!
Even hornier |
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By *iffyjeffMan
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Definitely say hence I'd want to taste |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
I would like you to tell (in great detail) me while you are sitting on my face |
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Absolutely love sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths etc…
And I love adding my load to it.
Love seeing cum leaking out and cumstained knickers and love the feeling of fucking a freshly used and filled cunt |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case.
Yes. I normally would say if they want to do oral, but otherwise I usually don't
Was wondering if that was the right thing or not, if it's the polite thing to do I'll start, but I don't know the male perspective xx"
Yea if oral was potentially going to be performed I'd rather be told before hand!!
Otherwise I guess if it was a come in and bent over straight situation...i guess it could be hot knowing youve already been filled xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Goes to show from previous comments the level of respect ye have for yourselves and others
No wonder there’s so many people carrying infections and being caught by innocent unsuspecting folk .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
You should do as you please the guys would, if a guy was on his third woman of the day (ha ha as if) he wouldn't tell the fourth about the previous three
As for the guys flexing their morals as if you would say no, condoms prevent nothing they are a option that is slightly less risky than not wearing one, even i have had condoms bust when you get carried away and i'm not a big guy.
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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"Goes to show from previous comments the level of respect ye have for yourselves and others
No wonder there’s so many people carrying infections and being caught by innocent unsuspecting folk .
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That's quite a moralistic view. Ironic those "innocent unsuspecting folk" are part of a swinging scene. Surely they are not that naive |
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By *rdnhornyMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
I would want to know as it would be a huge turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Am i right in guessing you like to be filled before having a stranger give you some more? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be honest everyone saying "oh no, I wouldn't" yeah you would if a sexy woman like Jessica was bent over waiting you would be in there right away as she is just amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While it certainly wouldn’t be for me the gist seems to be to tell the truth which personally I think is the only way especially on sites like this.
Some would be turned on, some wouldn’t be interested but surely they have a right to know and you wouldn’t want to be with someone who wouldn’t want to be with you if they knew the truth?
Not like there aren’t enough men out there who clearly love the idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only have ever had one partner I had unprotected sex with and I had seen her years before we did so. I would appreciate being told so I could avoid them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t really understand those being moralistic about stis in this scenario though! Don’t meet bareback if you’re worried about stis, I know I wouldn’t!
Doesn’t make any difference if they have been with someone that morning, the day before or months ago, if you choose to take that risk you take that risk. Don’t then go attacking the other person for taking risks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But what if she had a bf/hubby it could of been him she slept with bareback. You just can't rule out she's sleeping with strangers bb.
Would I want he to tell me?
Yes I would that way I can have a choice. |
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I’ve been in this situation and it never bothered me.
She’d booked a hotel with a guy from work she was fucking. He had to go home to his family and she sent me a text out of the blue telling me she needed to cum and he’d left her.
I went round, stayed the night and had a nice breakfast in the morning.
But then again, I do enjoy the things I maybe shouldn’t be doing a lot more than the things I should! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Am i right in guessing you like to be filled before having a stranger give you some more?"
Yes, I've also had multiple meets in a day. Hence this question xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i was ill repeate that so i dont encorage if i was to have barebacjk sex and later again in the day decieded to want more i would make sure i was squeaky clean to do so again..
so why the if bit at the begining i only go bare with 2 regular guys and im tested every 6 week (plus i do voulentery work with them too) sexual health is important ive said this before i see more barebackers getting teasted than safe sex you can still catch stuff condom or not |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
As you're definitely a bareback girl then guys should already be aware.
If you've showered and washed then I see no issue, however if its a kink to receive a second load of cum then yes I think you should say to them.
Obviously always your call and that's just my opinion.
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As Boo has said.
The OP has stipulated that it is a bareback meet which to me implies that a prospective meet has to assume that the lady will have had bareback with other people.
Turn it on its head as well, if a guy is having bareback sex with a women is he duty bound to declare previous bareback encounters prior to sealing the deal
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Yes me , love going into my wife after she has just been fucked by another guy.especially when they make her cum a lot, have great sex watching her fuck her ,f/buddy as he’s the only other guy she will go bareback with as he is not a swinger as such , just a friend who cums a lot , sloppy seconds with not is cumming and making her gush |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
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My Mrs is never more than 24hrs without a creampie from me so even playing 'safe', whoever goes down on her will be eating it.
Would assume the same for all couples and most women. Swinging isn't for the squeamish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most guys prefer to know, either because it turns them on or puts them off, also if we gonna bareback its gotta be will full risk assessment, not disclosing doesn't give them the choice, you don't have to ask them if they want their cocks covered in a bunch of other guys cum or not, just tell them you've already been fucked that day and ask if it's a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case. "
This exactly, I do like oral as part of play so would like to know rather than go down and unwittingly have some other guys cum coating my tongue. As for bareback that's up to the individual. Im regularly tested just for my own peace of mind whether I've been active or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
I'd be gutted I wasn't there when the initial load went in so I could have cleaned up fresh..
But as I wasn't I'd like to be told how hot it was then slide on in... mmm |
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
I met with a mature lady who prefers bareback... she told me she's had a fuck before so I knew upfront. Didn't bother me but then it would others...the only thing she was worried about was that she was a wee bit tender as he had been quite rough with her...I still had sex with her |
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Any man that fucks a girl bb is taking a gamble. Doesnt matter if she is full of cum from that day or had multiple partners BB on previous days; the STD risk is there. So, absolutely no need to tell the guys later in the day. They know the risks and if they are squemish about sloppy seconds that is their problem! |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx"
Just out of interest if the role was reversed and a guy had fucked someone earlier bare and then came across our Jess a few hours later, how many guys that like bare would admit to having done it earlier?
Several have said no thanks, "eew", run a mile- why because its bare? No one at end of day would be forcing u and Im sure from the onset playing bare is the plan. Im just wondering how many would not say anything for fear of getting turned away from a fuck?
I appreciate as humans we're all curious but I found some comments quite judgemental and I thought why would I read a thread about "sloppy seconds" if I wasn't at least a bit curious. The title is the giveaway and if I started to read something that didn't appeal or have interest would I even be bothered about commenting. I know that's me and we're all very different but the very world as swingers we all inhabit as a group or community is very much judged by those on the outside that aren't in it. Im sure many people keep quiet about their alternative lifestyle for fear of being judged yet there's sometimes a lot of judgement being made within this community about people's choices. I find that quite ironic. |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Any man that fucks a girl bb is taking a gamble. Doesnt matter if she is full of cum from that day or had multiple partners BB on previous days; the STD risk is there. So, absolutely no need to tell the guys later in the day. They know the risks and if they are squemish about sloppy seconds that is their problem!"
Why u assuming she's the risk? He could equally be shagging left right and centre bare and be the one passing on something. Why is his sexual history and multiple partners not being questioned and everyone suggesting she will be the one that gives him something? |
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By *igg25Man
over a year ago
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"Guys, so if you've agreed to meet a girl for bareback sex - if she's already had sex with other men that day would you want her to tell you, or keep it to herself? Xx
Was it bareback sex with the first guy too??
Some men would probably not want to go down on you if another man has cum In you.
I would say it is only polite to say if that was the case. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My Mrs is never more than 24hrs without a creampie from me so even playing 'safe', whoever goes down on her will be eating it.
Would assume the same for all couples and most women. Swinging isn't for the squeamish "
Exactly I cum in K usually 3 times (my wife so obvious BB) during a club visit so anyone fucking her (with a condom) will benefit from my cum acting as lube. Also anyone M or F who goes down on her that night is going taste my cum as well no matter hoe much you wipe up.
Most swinging couples go BB with each other in clubs and many, like us fuck each first before I voting others to play.
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I mean, I’m not sure it’s about politeness. The idea of sloppy seconds isn’t the issue it’s more what guy number 1 might be carrying. It’s entirely up to you and what you feel is appropriate "
I don’t really understand this reasoning. Does that mean you would expect a full STI screen before you met someone if they had had sex since their last test?
It wouldn’t matter if guy number one was the same day or a week before, if he had something then there’s just as much chance of him passing it on. |
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A few years ago I was shagging a girl in another office whenever I went to visit. It was a regular thing so was always bare.
The last time I visited, she didn't tell me that she had found a boyfriend a few weeks earlier and had stayed at his place each night that week. They'd had bare sex the night before and in the morning before she went to work on the Friday. After work she came back to my hotel with me and stayed the night. I was surprised that she stopped me and pulled me up when I tried to go down on her, which was because she didn't want me to taste his cum in her. She was perhaps slightly more slippery inside but nothing out of the ordinary so I didn't have a clue. On the Saturday morning she then drove back to his place and spent the weekend with him with a few of my loads inside her.
She only told me about him the following week and I went and got myself checked after getting home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most guys I meet like to know.
One night I had a lovely meet with one guy knowing that another guy was waiting for him to leave so he could have sloppy seconds he even let himself so as not to let any drip out.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most guys I meet like to know.
One night I had a lovely meet with one guy knowing that another guy was waiting for him to leave so he could have sloppy seconds he even let himself so as not to let any drip out.
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Certainly wouldn’t bother me , I mean I love leaving it in |
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By *avidpMan
over a year ago
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I’ve personally always had a fantasy about being with a woman who’s just had sex with someone.. knowing someone came recently before you and then feeling the extra lube.. massive turn on…. would have to be with someone who’s tested and safe though
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By (user no longer on site)
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I enjoy sloppy seconds as normal I am still on what I call a cum high and getting cleaned up just makes it last longer mmm and getting filled up again xx |
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