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over a year ago
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Were you the one in the relationship that wanted to be a hot wife?
Does your partner play?
Have you ever felt guilty going from a monogamous relationship to being a hotwife? |
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"Were you the one in the relationship that wanted to be a hot wife?
Does your partner play?
Have you ever felt guilty going from a monogamous relationship to being a hotwife? "
It kind of evolved out of my flirtatious nature, like a natural progression.
Hubby does play but I've no interest in hearing about it. I'm fine with it but it doesn't turn me on like he gets hearing about me meeting.
At first I felt guilty. Took me many years to finally feel totally comfortable with it. I think looking back, it really does depend a lot on choosing the right 3rd party. |
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"It was my husband’s idea, and no, he doesn’t play.
I’ve never felt guilty, we’ve been together for 25 years, it felt kind of like making up for things I missed out on because we met so young "
Similar circumstances to us.
My husband doesn't play, although I would love it if he would.
I don't feel any guilt at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Were you the one in the relationship that wanted to be a hot wife?
Does your partner play?
Have you ever felt guilty going from a monogamous relationship to being a hotwife?
It kind of evolved out of my flirtatious nature, like a natural progression.
Hubby does play but I've no interest in hearing about it. I'm fine with it but it doesn't turn me on like he gets hearing about me meeting.
At first I felt guilty. Took me many years to finally feel totally comfortable with it. I think looking back, it really does depend a lot on choosing the right 3rd party. "
Maybe it just takes time then. I feel guilty but he’s says I shouldn’t as He Will really enjoy it and I should be able to have all this pleasure etc.
I’d never even looked in another guys direction in 16 years before hubby introduced us to swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was my husband’s idea, and no, he doesn’t play.
I’ve never felt guilty, we’ve been together for 25 years, it felt kind of like making up for things I missed out on because we met so young
Similar circumstances to us.
My husband doesn't play, although I would love it if he would.
I don't feel any guilt at all."
This is also us. Hubby’s idea and he loves listening or hearing about meets. And he doesn’t play.
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"It was my husband’s idea, and no, he doesn’t play.
I’ve never felt guilty, we’ve been together for 25 years, it felt kind of like making up for things I missed out on because we met so young
Similar circumstances to us.
My husband doesn't play, although I would love it if he would.
I don't feel any guilt at all.
This is also us. Hubby’s idea and he loves listening or hearing about meets. And he doesn’t play.
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Hotwifing was my husbands idea. It works for us. We completely understand that it's not to everyones taste.
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Ours started mostly through lack of opportunity to meet together (childcare issues) folllowed by some horny fantasies while she was off on a girlie holiday.
I know she does occasionally feel guilty especially as though we are open to me playing alone the opportunities for guys are more limited plus the fact c***d hit shortly after has meant it’s a very one sided situation at the moment.
Still tends to be very opportunistic ie. When we’re naturally separated, work trips etc
But we both love it what it does for us when we’re back together, and the build up and anticipation before hand. |
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"Were you the one in the relationship that wanted to be a hot wife?
Does your partner play?
Have you ever felt guilty going from a monogamous relationship to being a hotwife? "
I was very subtle with my approach but never regretted it and never felt guilty x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was my husband’s idea, and no, he doesn’t play.
I’ve never felt guilty, we’ve been together for 25 years, it felt kind of like making up for things I missed out on because we met so young
Similar circumstances to us.
My husband doesn't play, although I would love it if he would.
I don't feel any guilt at all.
This is also us. Hubby’s idea and he loves listening or hearing about meets. And he doesn’t play.
Hotwifing was my husbands idea. It works for us. We completely understand that it's not to everyones taste.
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Yes it’s my husbands idea too.
He doesn’t play.
I’ve not taken the leap yet to go on my own and be a hotwife, even the thought of it makes me feel guilty.
I think maybe it will just take me a while to stop feeling so guilty about it. |
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I have to admit it being my, the husbands, idea for my wife / us to meet single guys. This came after many years of swinging and meeting couples for soft swing and girl / girl play. Even after suggesting the idea it took a long time for wife to agree to it but didn’t really look back until Covid put the kybosh on everything. |
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"It was my husband’s idea, and no, he doesn’t play.
I’ve never felt guilty, we’ve been together for 25 years, it felt kind of like making up for things I missed out on because we met so young
Similar circumstances to us.
My husband doesn't play, although I would love it if he would.
I don't feel any guilt at all.
This is also us. Hubby’s idea and he loves listening or hearing about meets. And he doesn’t play.
Hotwifing was my husbands idea. It works for us. We completely understand that it's not to everyones taste.
"
Mine too, it's ironic that my hubby had been an active player years ago but his interest waned to the point where he doesn't get involved at all now other than to satisfy his voyeuristic nature, which is fine by me! |
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