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over a year ago
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Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship |
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"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship "
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"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship "
Go with the flow.
Remember his feelings after the event happens. Pleanty of reassuring comments. Have fun both of you |
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"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship "
Will he be joining in, watching or not involved at all? |
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over a year ago
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"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship
Will he be joining in, watching or not involved at all?"
He wants to be fully involved yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship
Will he be joining in, watching or not involved at all?
He wants to be fully involved yes "
That’s how we play. We started off slowly, went to a club and Mrs tried a gloryhole just to see how I’d feel seeing her with someone else. She enjoyed herself and I loved it. It took us over a year to have a full threesome but that was mostly due to the pandemic.
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Who out of the two of you want to do this.!!
Who's idea was it and do you both wish to do it is what needs to be asked.
If it's all one sided then you could be asking for trouble but if it somthing you both want to try then set your limits and go for it. |
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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago
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Just go with the flow , chat and get to know as best you can the guy you are meeting , don’t feel pressured to go through with it if you both don’t feel comfortable , most guys are cool with this if you stress no expectations before meet , fingers crossed you will all enjoy |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship "
The honest answer for your first meet is you won't know how you feel in the moment till you're in it.
Speaking thoroughly about how you see it going, the possible highs and lows and agreeing it's your joint decision and both fully responsible regardless of how it goes is a good place to start from. Both try to enjoy the moment, it'll be a roller coaster of emotions, happy ones, concerns for each other but try to enjoy the moment, it really could be one of the best for you both, give yourself time after the event to process how you both feel about it and how to proceed next, if it's for you.
Hope you guys have fun as well as the guy you invite into your play time, important to fully include the third party.  |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship "
Just enjoy the journey together. Include hubby as much as possible during your first time. Tell him how amazing it feels and how he will be rewarded by his new hot wife x |
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If there is already something that could potentially be a problem in theory, try having a talk and maybe setting boundaries before hand so you can discuss anything that you wouldn’t want to happen and agree on what you do want from it so you have a plan of what you both want when you do decide to go for it! Keep communication going with each other throughout all of it so you’re both happy and enjoying it together x |
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You both need to take lead tell the other man what you want him to do |
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"Hi, we’re new to the scene and this sort of lifestyle, after talking together about this, we decided we would give it a go, we recently tried a club for first time too but only played in private. But we’re anxious on how we would feel in the moment with another man! What would you say is the best way to enjoy the first time and how good does it work in the relationship "
Like a few here have said, go with the flow, make sure you communicate before about any red lines and focus on each other as much as the other guy - you’ll know instinctively if you’re both enjoying how things are going.
Our first experience was very unexpected in that we were out a club and over the course of an hour went from not playing at all to kissing on dancefloor, to full sex - and it was amazingly hot!! Happpy to discuss if you want to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest thing is communication.. make sure everyone you play with and every situation you are in, your both comfortable with. As long as you've got that along with trust and honesty, it can be a great addition to your relationship.
And remember try not to overthink things in the moment, relax and have fun |
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