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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what use are the winks.....not everyone likes to be winked at as they think you cant be bothered to type a message...and then some think its just sleazy....most wont reply to a wink..so why do we need them...when someone winks at me i at least wink back if not message them... |
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If you dont see the point in them don't use them lol
I sometimes respond to winks but not if they are from people with no pics.....that I don't see the point in
A wink is supposed to highlight the profile to a person. How can I wink back if I can't see What I'm winking at lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what use are the winks.....not everyone likes to be winked at as they think you cant be bothered to type a message...and then some think its just sleazy....most wont reply to a wink..so why do we need them...when someone winks at me i at least wink back if not message them..."
think you answered your own question... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what use are the winks.....not everyone likes to be winked at as they think you cant be bothered to type a message...and then some think its just sleazy....most wont reply to a wink..so why do we need them...when someone winks at me i at least wink back if not message them..."
...what people say and put on there profile are two different things.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friends will wink and i will wink back and forumers will wink and vice versa 
but if i get a wink or a friends request which the profile is pants lack of photos or they haven't read my profile, why s should i respond
i use this site for me and not the single men |
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I think its a good way to get someone to notice you, if we get one, we look at the persons profile and if we like ,then we send one back,they then know we maybe interested and then progress to a message,for us it saves writing a message that just gets ignored if they dont like us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what use are the winks.....not everyone likes to be winked at as they think you cant be bothered to type a message...and then some think its just sleazy....most wont reply to a wink..so why do we need them...when someone winks at me i at least wink back if not message them..."
we use them
we are meeting a very sexy couple next week who started by winking at us |
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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago
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I will always check a profile after a wink,if i like then i will wink back ,if not then i wont ,simples...Lets face it,some of these poor guys spend ages writing a message never to be answered(and yes i know that some are copy and paste) so a wink is a good option to show interest,i dont consider it lazy.If there is nothing on their profile and no pics then i will just ignore |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what use are the winks.....not everyone likes to be winked at as they think you cant be bothered to type a message...and then some think its just sleazy....most wont reply to a wink..so why do we need them...when someone winks at me i at least wink back if not message them...
we use them
we are meeting a very sexy couple next week who started by winking at us"
blond alert
it has just occurred to me that they must use them too
sorry its been a long day
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to us, it's no different to giving an "indication" smile to some one in a club 