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Anal Fisting - Hints, Tips & Advice Please
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After a few months of trying, lots of douching, copious amounts of J lube, poxxers and beer, we haven’t quite got it home yet! It’s that last knuckle lol, and no, Dick hasn’t got hands the size of shovels, just Mr Joe Average.
Whilst we’re both having tremendous fun trying, I know Tom is craving getting it in the goal. And when it happens, it’ll be fecking awesome, going on his reactions so far 
So, any hints, tips or advice would be greatly received. Thank you, kind Fab people. |
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"After a few months of trying, lots of douching, copious amounts of J lube, poxxers and beer, we haven’t quite got it home yet! It’s that last knuckle lol, and no, Dick hasn’t got hands the size of shovels, just Mr Joe Average.
Whilst we’re both having tremendous fun trying, I know Tom is craving getting it in the goal. And when it happens, it’ll be fecking awesome, going on his reactions so far
So, any hints, tips or advice would be greatly received. Thank you, kind Fab people."
Learning to relax when every part of your body is trying to tense, for me is the key. After some trying your body tends to be more attuned to tensing ….. at this point if it’s getting difficult take a moment lie forwards on the bed let your head arms etc drop to a relaxed state with him still keeping some pressure, concentrate on relaxing all down your body then your hole…after he feels you relax he goes in. You ignore the brief pain of stretching and the urge to back off, bear down if anything on his hand and breathe ( normally accompanied by a bit of a growl lol) and pop! He’s in!
I hope this helps it’s really hard to describe. We use crisco when Domme does me and jlube for others (criscos not condom safe) crisco works better! Xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its something Sir has been working on with me and he has god shovel hands so it's going to be a while.
Patience is key, lots or lube and as said above relax mind body and soul.
So excited for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe consider visiting a pro domme? Many will see couple’s. If you find one who has experience in anal fisting, they could maybe refine your technique and help you with the last little bit. It is the hardest part after all !
I have only ever been fisted by pro mistresses and it’s unbelievable |
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By *tubonCouple
over a year ago
midhurst |
We fist constantly and love it. She’s the fister, he’s the hole!
It’ll take a long time and please do not rush.
Skin to skin then crisco works but is expensive. Trex (found near butter and pastry in your local supermarket) is identical to crisco but much cheaper and available.
Jlube is very good indeed but a bugger to wash off.
Having a few drinks beforehand helps and a sniff of popps is usually necessary too.
You’ve just got to put up with the immense pain at the last minute on entry because once it’s in you’ll be addicted.
Probably best on your back initially and do not rush…. enjoy!
PS We’re in the south of England if anyone wants to get in touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relaxation is the key. Try a deep breath in, then breath out focusing on the feeling of the breath leaving your mouth.
Keep trying because it feels amazing, and then you can try two hands
Lube - plain old coconut oil works well. |
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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago
chester/Merseyside |
It's so lovely to read your message and more so coming from the male side,you don't normally get that on here.
As you see I'm a TV and seeking to be fisted but finding a trust worthy person to train me us proving very difficult. I seem to get that relation is the key and definitely smaller hands help.just wish guys or gals near chester woukd message me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Relaxation is the key. Try a deep breath in, then breath out focusing on the feeling of the breath leaving your mouth.
Keep trying because it feels amazing, and then you can try two hands
Lube - plain old coconut oil works well."
 2 hands OMG |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Relaxation is the key. Try a deep breath in, then breath out focusing on the feeling of the breath leaving your mouth.
Keep trying because it feels amazing, and then you can try two hands
Lube - plain old coconut oil works well.I
2 hands OMG "
Oh boy one would be just fine to start with |
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By *irenisMan
over a year ago
Dundee |
the best way to get the point of being able to take a fist is to play with toys. Using ever bigger toys and plenty of time and lube get to the point of using a toy that is the same circumference as your partners fist or bigger if you can. It wont happen overnight and can take a couple of weeks of constant ass play to get to that level. Time and patience is the secret. Using toys by yourself or with an audience takes away the anticipation of pain as you are in total control, not someone else. |
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"After a few months of trying, lots of douching, copious amounts of J lube, poxxers and beer, we haven’t quite got it home yet! It’s that last knuckle lol, and no, Dick hasn’t got hands the size of shovels, just Mr Joe Average.
Whilst we’re both having tremendous fun trying, I know Tom is craving getting it in the goal. And when it happens, it’ll be fecking awesome, going on his reactions so far
So, any hints, tips or advice would be greatly received. Thank you, kind Fab people."
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Try an inflatable butt plug. Put it in and then inflate it and push and pull it out. Slowly blow it up larger and larger to help stretch the anus. Things slide out much easier than go in your bum. That is the way it is designed!! Don't force it you should not feel intense pain ever. It can be very intense but not with pain.... Also get a syringe or similar to put lube right inside you as most of the lubes get wiped off as your anus grips whatever is going in and scrapes it off....patience and keep it fun is the key!! |
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This is the same for me and the hubby, He has taken some impressive things, and I swear he takes different objects that are bigger than my hands (which I don’t believe are big) however we just struggle to get all the knuckles in for that perfect pop ha
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