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over a year ago
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I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. |
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I dont think i would ever plan a meet with someone if there was no kissing. Personally i understand that you can put your bits in my bobs, but kissing is too personal. I would of thought a facefull of fanny or a mouthfull of cock is more Personal than kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really dont enjoy kissing, not sure why, im not great at it. Kissing was out of bounds with other people for us but last week I actually kissed someone other than OH and loved it  they were soft sensual kisses and I want to do it again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think i would ever plan a meet with someone if there was no kissing. Personally i understand that you can put your bits in my bobs, but kissing is too personal. I would of thought a facefull of fanny or a mouthfull of cock is more Personal than kissing. "
Definitely x but i wouldn't say no to a facefull of fanny in my life lol xxx |
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"I dont think i would ever plan a meet with someone if there was no kissing. Personally i understand that you can put your bits in my bobs, but kissing is too personal. I would of thought a facefull of fanny or a mouthfull of cock is more Personal than kissing.
Definitely x but i wouldn't say no to a facefull of fanny in my life lol xxx "
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‘Men don’t give a fuck about kissing. Used to like kissing when we were in our early teens. Then someone sucked our dick. And then, What’s this kissing thing? Why would I ride on the swings? I’ve already been to Disneyland.’
~Jim Jefferies  |
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I love kissing. You can't beat a good snog to get the juices flowing and the blood pumping to my dick.
I've had a few meets where she hasn't wanted to kiss and I found it the strangest thing to have sex with someone without ever having kissed them before or during. It's just not the same |
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"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "
its a deal breaker for us if no kissing, cant understand people who dont xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me depends solely on the meet
1 on 1 or a small gathering I'll kiss but long ago I was part of a huge bukkake/blow bang .....not the place for kissing   |
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I really enjoy kissing when I’m with a woman. Soft and sensual, then getting more passionate. Always guaranteed to get me going.
Weirdly it’s different if I’m with a man. I don’t mind kissing men, but it’s less of a thing for me because my experience of kissing men hasn’t been as good. |
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I think you can make any action with another really personal or really transactional, it's all to do with the feelings you put into the experience. You can kiss and it be the most lusty sexual experience or your life, you can kiss and it be the most loving intimate moment with the love of your life, or you can kiss and it be nothing, like in a game of spin the bottle. I prefer to kiss as it helps me get into it, but there is a huge difference between how I feel when I kiss my husband and when I kiss someone I'm having fun with. |
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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago
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"I think you can make any action with another really personal or really transactional, it's all to do with the feelings you put into the experience. You can kiss and it be the most lusty sexual experience or your life, you can kiss and it be the most loving intimate moment with the love of your life, or you can kiss and it be nothing, like in a game of spin the bottle. I prefer to kiss as it helps me get into it, but there is a huge difference between how I feel when I kiss my husband and when I kiss someone I'm having fun with. "
Very true x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘Men don’t give a fuck about kissing. Used to like kissing when we were in our early teens. Then someone sucked our dick. And then, What’s this kissing thing? Why would I ride on the swings? I’ve already been to Disneyland.’
~Jim Jefferies "
Funny, but I have to disagree. For me kissing is a fundamental part of foreplay. There's something very intimate about it though, I can understand why others don't go for it
It's funny how some husbands are happy to see their wife slurp on your dick but get mad jealous if you kiss her on the lips |
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"I like to kiss but accept the fact that certain couples might not want this as part of thier swinging experience. "
You see there's that one tiny but all important word "accept". So many people find it difficult to accept that others have a preference that's different to theirs. |
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We accept that everyone has a choice. Each to their own and all that. Our choice is definitely to only meet couples that kiss. It’s part of the intensity and passion for us. Of course not everyone is looking for the same thing, so it always surprises us when you see comments from people like “we’re all here for the same thing.” The variety of opinions on this subject alone proves we’re not! |
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"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "
Kissing is an important part of intimate play for me, so after one bad experience where the lady doesn't kiss others, I now ask before a meet is planned  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As the other member said important part of foreplay. Kissing. How else would you approach a partner if not for Kissing. Kiss the back of the hand, it's a start but not the same thing, wadge my hand between her legs will probably get me a slap in the mouth .hug them close but won't let them know my full intentions Either. Nope only a kiss on the lips will let a partner know my full romantic intentions. (Probably) . |
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"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x"
I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things! |
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"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x
I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!"
I dont either. A kiss can tell you so much about a person x |
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I met a couple before where I could kiss, do oral but no penetration. It was a bit of a shock at first but because I absolutely love kissing I was alright with it in the end, but normally kissing is a must for me on meets |
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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago
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"I met a couple before where I could kiss, do oral but no penetration. It was a bit of a shock at first but because I absolutely love kissing I was alright with it in the end, but normally kissing is a must for me on meets"
I think that might be a soft swap… penetration with your own partner only |
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"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x
I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!"
ROFL yep. We invite a guy round, stare at him for five minutes, throw our clothes off, fuck like rabbits with no foreplay whatsoever, put our clothes back on and kick him out.
Of course we don't do that?  . |
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"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x
I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!
I dont either. A kiss can tell you so much about a person x"
It's all about feeling the passion rise in someone, there's no better way than through kissing  |
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"I met a couple before where I could kiss, do oral but no penetration. It was a bit of a shock at first but because I absolutely love kissing I was alright with it in the end, but normally kissing is a must for me on meets"
The worst meet I ever had, was a last minute affair with a couple who had been let down by another guy. I jumped in my car and was round to theirs in a flash, to be confronted with a very sexy, but worse for wear young woman. "I don't kiss sorry" she said. "I don't suck cock either" she said. I thanked them both for their time, and left, as it wasn't working for me. I've never done a last minute meet since because of that night, and I always ask if the lady kisses beforehand |
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Kissing is the only way to start the fun.
Omg I know lots of people leave kissing for the partner/husband but could not imagine playing without it.
At first I thought it too personal but what's more personal than sharing ya partners private parts with another, not much left after that haha..
It's a HUGE must for me, nothing more sexy than kissing him once he's been down on you or vice versa.
Yes, yes and yes.
If u don't kiss it isn't happening.
Kitten x x |
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I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very sad that the wife of the couple I meet regularly won't allow me to kiss her, which I would very much like to do. That's not the first time I've come across that prohibition in couples. Luckily my bi male friend makes up for it when we meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best not to during Covid.
Sadly, my wife used to enjoy kissing strangers more than me whilst being fucked. Intially she denied then she admitted it but never gave a reason - i' was happy she was fucking strangers which is/was a biiger turn on for me
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We both love kissing and thoroughly enjoying kissing other people. We couldn't have fun with others if they didn't kiss.
We do respect other people's boundaries and would never force kissing upon them. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know."
I'm very much the same - I love kissing other women, but not guys. I'm turned on by other women, but don't have romantic feelings for them, and for me kissing men is associated with a romantic connection: I have absolutely no desire to be romantic with anyone other than my partner. I'm here for sex, not dating.
Despite all the people on this thread claiming that kissing is essential, nobody has ever suggested that sex with me is either 'clinical' or 'cold'. Quite the opposite in fact - they usually come back for more! |
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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago
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I love kissing, and don’t think of it as romantic. When I kiss in a swap, it’s sexy and fun, but when I kiss my partner, it’s different because there are so many feelings involved.
Everyone has their boundaries, but we wouldn’t play with a couple if kissing wasn’t part of the swap.
No kissing is definitely a dealbreaker xx |
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"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "
We won’t meet with couples who don’t kiss, respect their decision but we would both really struggle with this so its a must.
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"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know."
I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.
I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't? |
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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago
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"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.
I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.
I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't? "
I don’t think any one’s being judgemental, it’s absolutely fine to have boundaries, we all do to some extent. Each to their own, and what one person sees as an intimate act, someone else doesn’t x |
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"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.
I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.
I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't? "
If they can't accept it then they aren't the right people for you x |
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"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.
I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.
I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't?
If they can't accept it then they aren't the right people for you x"
Oh I know that . I do get a bit meh about the constant insistence by people saying they would never meet us, we don't need to be told ad nauseam, we know and accept we're not compatible. |
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By *andSCouple
over a year ago
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"if i fancy someone one enought to fuck then kissing is a must .... if i dont want to kiss we would not be fucking"
We are kind of similar. If we don't enjoy the kiss we question whether we'd take it any further. An enjoyable kiss is a sign that fucking would be good too. |
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I’ve turned down meets from couples who insist on no kissing. I feel it becomes a mechanical exercise if there’s no kissing involved. I’ve no problem with those who don’t want to involve kissing - it just isn’t really for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met a couple who on the first time we met had a no kissing rule.
Next time we met the lady decided she was kissing — she was a fantastic kisser and it changed the meet from good to bloody fantastic
For me it matters - sexy and intimate x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met with a couple where there is a no kissing rule, its so difficult not to kiss her but I always play by the rules. I've had a few meets with them and although the sex is always good it does however detract from the meet when there's no kissing. More clinical I think and less sensual. |
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