FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Small cocks
Small cocks
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I used to hate having a small cock but I’m slowly starting to accept it now, I’d still prefer to have at least an average sized one.
I do love how it fits in a pair of skimpy knickers without poking out though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I used to think my 7.5 inch cock was amazing until I came on here. Some right cock monsters pounding husbands wife’s  "
Dude you haven’t watched enough modern porn haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Love having a small cock and hope women appreciate them too "
Feels bad being a black guy with an average sized dick (7 inches or so). Everyone in my area wants a “BBC”.
Fun fact: Due to being more likely to get sickle cell and Priapism as a result, black men are often thought to have larger dicks on average. Those of us lucky enough to not develop the condition are left without the “benefits”.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"3-4"
For most dudes, like someone mentioned before, more body fat on your pelvis can make your dick seem smaller. Ever wonder why Aboriginals and some Africans look to be well endowed? Low body fat and other factors work magic |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"3-4
For most dudes, like someone mentioned before, more body fat on your pelvis can make your dick seem smaller. Ever wonder why Aboriginals and some Africans look to be well endowed? Low body fat and other factors work magic "
Nothing to do with body fat |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"3-4
For most dudes, like someone mentioned before, more body fat on your pelvis can make your dick seem smaller. Ever wonder why Aboriginals and some Africans look to be well endowed? Low body fat and other factors work magic
Nothing to do with body fat "
Lower body fat overall = less body fat on the pelvis
If you’re not rocking a hammer and it matters to you, every trick you can use for appearances is useful.
Side note: might be different here since we’re all swingers and get around, but no woman has ever remarked on my dick size in person. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Laughter is good"
I think I’d die.
I’ve had a girl accidentally use the bathroom in my bed, after accidentally ripping out anal beads… that level of shock and embarrassment would be the same. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Laughter is good
I think I’d die.
I’ve had a girl accidentally use the bathroom in my bed, after accidentally ripping out anal beads… that level of shock and embarrassment would be the same. "
Wow |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Laughter is good
I think I’d die.
I’ve had a girl accidentally use the bathroom in my bed, after accidentally ripping out anal beads… that level of shock and embarrassment would be the same. "
Not at all, laughter would be a most welcome reaction.
Your bed bathroom incident sounds revolting though. No way back from that I'd say. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *inyppMan
over a year ago
watertown |
"My question to everyone, what size is actually deemed small? Average? Big? And vwe?
As I read the UK average is 5.2-5.7 "
My scale:
Small under 4.5
Low average 4.5-5.5
Average 5.5-6.5
Large 6.5-7.5
VWE over 7.5 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I realized long ago that it was the only one I had and that nothing I could do was going to change it either way. So there was no point worrying about relative sizes and ¹obsessing with what other guys are packing. I have never, and will never measure mine. I figured that the time was better spent learning to give and recieve as much pleasure as possible, with and without it.
Most women realy don't seem to care much about cock size, so why should guys? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I realized long ago that it was the only one I had and that nothing I could do was going to change it either way. So there was no point worrying about relative sizes and ¹obsessing with what other guys are packing. I have never, and will never measure mine. I figured that the time was better spent learning to give and recieve as much pleasure as possible, with and without it.
Most women realy don't seem to care much about cock size, so why should guys?"
I don’t care about my size. Never have done |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I always said size didn't matter, but after started to see someone off here the last few months, and how amazing his feels in every whole, I'm definitely a size queen. Couldn't go back to a small one now. I love his huge dick  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always said size didn't matter, but after started to see someone off here the last few months, and how amazing his feels in every whole, I'm definitely a size queen. Couldn't go back to a small one now. I love his huge dick "
I’m glad you’ve found someone who really satisfies you and makes you feel amazing. Knowing I’ll never be able to fully satisfy a woman like that makes me feel sad and pathetic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always said size didn't matter, but after started to see someone off here the last few months, and how amazing his feels in every whole, I'm definitely a size queen. Couldn't go back to a small one now. I love his huge dick
I’m glad you’ve found someone who really satisfies you and makes you feel amazing. Knowing I’ll never be able to fully satisfy a woman like that makes me feel sad and pathetic. "
Something tells me you might be into that though  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always said size didn't matter, but after started to see someone off here the last few months, and how amazing his feels in every whole, I'm definitely a size queen. Couldn't go back to a small one now. I love his huge dick
I’m glad you’ve found someone who really satisfies you and makes you feel amazing. Knowing I’ll never be able to fully satisfy a woman like that makes me feel sad and pathetic.
Something tells me you might be into that though "
Haha, well I have experienced a lot of SPH in the past and I do enjoy it in some ways, I feel like I deserve to be humiliated and it’s my duty as a sub to take the humiliation gracefully and I get satisfaction from knowing I’m fulfilling my duty but I’d much prefer to have a cock that was big enough to satisfy women and didn’t get laughed at. I do love it when a woman clearly enjoys humiliating me because at least that means my tiny cock is able to give her some sort of pleasure. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always said size didn't matter, but after started to see someone off here the last few months, and how amazing his feels in every whole, I'm definitely a size queen. Couldn't go back to a small one now. I love his huge dick
I’m glad you’ve found someone who really satisfies you and makes you feel amazing. Knowing I’ll never be able to fully satisfy a woman like that makes me feel sad and pathetic.
Something tells me you might be into that though
Haha, well I have experienced a lot of SPH in the past and I do enjoy it in some ways, I feel like I deserve to be humiliated and it’s my duty as a sub to take the humiliation gracefully and I get satisfaction from knowing I’m fulfilling my duty but I’d much prefer to have a cock that was big enough to satisfy women and didn’t get laughed at. I do love it when a woman clearly enjoys humiliating me because at least that means my tiny cock is able to give her some sort of pleasure. "
It's not all about the dick though is it! And it's also down to preference. Some ladies don't want a cervix bruiser, some do. There is someone for everyone!
Worst comes to the worst you can buy excellent sleeves!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I realized long ago that it was the only one I had and that nothing I could do was going to change it either way. So there was no point worrying about relative sizes and ¹obsessing with what other guys are packing. I have never, and will never measure mine. I figured that the time was better spent learning to give and recieve as much pleasure as possible, with and without it.
Most women realy don't seem to care much about cock size, so why should guys?"
Well put! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always said size didn't matter, but after started to see someone off here the last few months, and how amazing his feels in every whole, I'm definitely a size queen. Couldn't go back to a small one now. I love his huge dick
I’m glad you’ve found someone who really satisfies you and makes you feel amazing. Knowing I’ll never be able to fully satisfy a woman like that makes me feel sad and pathetic.
Something tells me you might be into that though
Haha, well I have experienced a lot of SPH in the past and I do enjoy it in some ways, I feel like I deserve to be humiliated and it’s my duty as a sub to take the humiliation gracefully and I get satisfaction from knowing I’m fulfilling my duty but I’d much prefer to have a cock that was big enough to satisfy women and didn’t get laughed at. I do love it when a woman clearly enjoys humiliating me because at least that means my tiny cock is able to give her some sort of pleasure.
It's not all about the dick though is it! And it's also down to preference. Some ladies don't want a cervix bruiser, some do. There is someone for everyone!
Worst comes to the worst you can buy excellent sleeves!
"
true  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I started chatting to a woman on a dating site last night (the one about fish and there being plenty of them) and we carried on exchanging a few messages during the day but started chatting properly again when we both got home from work and we were getting on really well, we were making each other laugh as well as having interesting, serious conversations. The chat got a bit more sexual as the night went on and she said something along the lines of ‘we’re getting on so well and I’m enjoying chatting with you, you’ve been amazing so far and as long as you haven’t got a small dick you’re my perfect man’. My heart sank when I read it and I reluctantly told her how small my dick is (there’s no point lying as she’ll find out the truth eventually). At least she was honest about it and said that she could never be fully happy with me because she’d always be craving a bigger dick. We’ve stopped chatting now. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Never be disappointed with what you got.. I've experienced men with big cocks and no game, then I've experienced under average/average and had some really hot experiences!!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never be disappointed with what you got.. I've experienced men with big cocks and no game, then I've experienced under average/average and had some really hot experiences!! "
Thanks, that’s a kind thing to say and I’m happy to hear that you’ve had hot experiences with under average sized men. The most annoying thing for me is when I get rejected as soon as I tell them, or show them, how small it is and not even given a chance to show that we can still have good sex.
I wonder sometimes if I’d be better off not saying anything and just letting the first time be when we’re together and naked as there’s less chance I’ll be rejected then. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never be disappointed with what you got.. I've experienced men with big cocks and no game, then I've experienced under average/average and had some really hot experiences!!
Thanks, that’s a kind thing to say and I’m happy to hear that you’ve had hot experiences with under average sized men. The most annoying thing for me is when I get rejected as soon as I tell them, or show them, how small it is and not even given a chance to show that we can still have good sex.
I wonder sometimes if I’d be better off not saying anything and just letting the first time be when we’re together and naked as there’s less chance I’ll be rejected then. "
Stop telling people, drive them wild enough with your other skills they won't even notice the size of your peen when you whip it out.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never be disappointed with what you got.. I've experienced men with big cocks and no game, then I've experienced under average/average and had some really hot experiences!!
Thanks, that’s a kind thing to say and I’m happy to hear that you’ve had hot experiences with under average sized men. The most annoying thing for me is when I get rejected as soon as I tell them, or show them, how small it is and not even given a chance to show that we can still have good sex.
I wonder sometimes if I’d be better off not saying anything and just letting the first time be when we’re together and naked as there’s less chance I’ll be rejected then.
Stop telling people, drive them wild enough with your other skills they won't even notice the size of your peen when you whip it out...."
I think that is the best thing to do, although I’ve never known anyone not notice how small it is when they’ve seen it for the first time. The thing I worry about though is if I do that then there’s a chance I’ll get rejected in person because of it, that has happened to me twice before and it’s so incredibly embarrassing and I never want to experience it again, that’s why I always tell people before we meet now. It’s much less embarrassing being rejected when we’re still only texting. Also, a lot of women will ask me outright how big it is so I’d have to be honest when they ask as I can’t lie. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Love having a small cock and hope women appreciate them too "
I’m curious what you’d consider small, outside of a legit medical diagnosis. After watching too much BBC porn and being in here, I felt the same but have since learned by dick is perfectly average length. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Love having a small cock and hope women appreciate them too
I’m curious what you’d consider small, outside of a legit medical diagnosis. After watching too much BBC porn and being in here, I felt the same but have since learned by dick is perfectly average length."
How big is your dick? Anything from 5” to 7” is probably average, then 7” to 9” is big and anything above that is huge. Anything less than 5” would be small, mine’s about 4.5”, maybe a bit less. All those are when it’s hard. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Love having a small cock and hope women appreciate them too
I’m curious what you’d consider small, outside of a legit medical diagnosis. After watching too much BBC porn and being in here, I felt the same but have since learned by dick is perfectly average length.
How big is your dick? Anything from 5” to 7” is probably average, then 7” to 9” is big and anything above that is huge. Anything less than 5” would be small, mine’s about 4.5”, maybe a bit less. All those are when it’s hard. "
On good days, about 7 inches from the base. My amount of body fat at the time and hydration usually lead to fluctuations in the size tho, that’s an average.
Anyone looking to increase the length of their penis should try weight loss, before anything else. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Love having a small cock and hope women appreciate them too
I’m curious what you’d consider small, outside of a legit medical diagnosis. After watching too much BBC porn and being in here, I felt the same but have since learned by dick is perfectly average length.
How big is your dick? Anything from 5” to 7” is probably average, then 7” to 9” is big and anything above that is huge. Anything less than 5” would be small, mine’s about 4.5”, maybe a bit less. All those are when it’s hard.
On good days, about 7 inches from the base. My amount of body fat at the time and hydration usually lead to fluctuations in the size tho, that’s an average.
Anyone looking to increase the length of their penis should try weight loss, before anything else. "
Yours sounds like a good size then. I know what you mean as I used to be bigger than I am now so my dick looked even smaller then. I want to lose weight so that I look cuter in panties and also to make my dick look longer. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Love having a small cock and hope women appreciate them too
I’m curious what you’d consider small, outside of a legit medical diagnosis. After watching too much BBC porn and being in here, I felt the same but have since learned by dick is perfectly average length.
How big is your dick? Anything from 5” to 7” is probably average, then 7” to 9” is big and anything above that is huge. Anything less than 5” would be small, mine’s about 4.5”, maybe a bit less. All those are when it’s hard.
On good days, about 7 inches from the base. My amount of body fat at the time and hydration usually lead to fluctuations in the size tho, that’s an average.
Anyone looking to increase the length of their penis should try weight loss, before anything else.
Yours sounds like a good size then. I know what you mean as I used to be bigger than I am now so my dick looked even smaller then. I want to lose weight so that I look cuter in panties and also to make my dick look longer. "
Fair enough. I wholeheartedly support anyone who chooses to walk the path of bettering themselves. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you "
Work...not worn  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you
Work...not worn "
It’s hard to love myself when I get rejected so often though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you
Work...not worn
It’s hard to love myself when I get rejected so often though. "
Tried visiting clubs or cinemas? Usually people are more accepting in person than online |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you
Work...not worn
It’s hard to love myself when I get rejected so often though. "
Reject them first If they reject you, they ain't worth the bother. I'm a large woman.. I accept I'm not for everyone and I love myself enough to not let that bother me. I'm confident and I can do sexy just as good as anyone else.. it's all about you, not them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you
Work...not worn
It’s hard to love myself when I get rejected so often though.
Tried visiting clubs or cinemas? Usually people are more accepting in person than online "
I haven’t recently, I used to go to clubs years ago when I was owned full time by a Domme but my cock was always in a cage so it didn’t really matter.
I’d love to go to a club and not be nervous about being seen naked. I’d have serious anxiety about everyone in the club rejecting me because of my tiny dick |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not your penis size you have a problem with.. it's your confidence and self love. Worn on those and you'll have them accepting everything about you
Work...not worn
It’s hard to love myself when I get rejected so often though.
Tried visiting clubs or cinemas? Usually people are more accepting in person than online
I haven’t recently, I used to go to clubs years ago when I was owned full time by a Domme but my cock was always in a cage so it didn’t really matter.
I’d love to go to a club and not be nervous about being seen naked. I’d have serious anxiety about everyone in the club rejecting me because of my tiny dick"
You’d be surprised how welcoming people can be, really. True, you may or may not get any action depending on the night. Regardless, it’s still a good confidence builder I’ve found. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I love small cocks, specifically being able to be taken roughly. Is a better experience and I think more likely with a smaller cock. Big dicks I find can struggle with really going at it, through fear of hurting themselves or me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love small cocks, specifically being able to be taken roughly. Is a better experience and I think more likely with a smaller cock. Big dicks I find can struggle with really going at it, through fear of hurting themselves or me "
I’d suggest a pillow under your hips and a generous amount of foreplay. My partners used to bleed after sex, but that stopped with the introduction of proper foreplay and lube as a support. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Im with one of original posters I always thought I was pretty well packed in the penis department but when you see some profiles and what's been fucking some of the women on here I avoid as I wouldn't want to be a disappointment. Shallow and degrading to myself I believe  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I feel like I can take it, it’s more there confidence . I think it’s a different sensation for them like less room for manoeuvre "
Fair enough. Just trying to give helpful tips.
Most of my sexual interactions were with people used to smaller sizes and this method always helped them adjust. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My wife has been with very big and very small dicked men. Both had their issues. She said too big was usually painful and too small was not very satisfying. I'm somewhere in between which I'm happy with. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My question to everyone, what size is actually deemed small? Average? Big? And vwe?
As I read the UK average is 5.2-5.7
My scale:
Small under 4.5
Low average 4.5-5.5
Average 5.5-6.5
Large 6.5-7.5
VWE over 7.5"
He’s a large then but honestly does it matter not to me x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’m not the biggest but it’s never really bothered me. I think it’s guys themselves who are more concerned by their size. We do always mention it in initial chat and avoid those looking for hung guys but we’ve had plenty of fun, it always seems to do the job well enough so hopefully that continues....... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m not the biggest but it’s never really bothered me. I think it’s guys themselves who are more concerned by their size. We do always mention it in initial chat and avoid those looking for hung guys but we’ve had plenty of fun, it always seems to do the job well enough so hopefully that continues....... "
Absolutely it’s been said before what you have is what you got and functions perfectly so no problem. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
