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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you find you aren't having much 'luck' because of the veri situation, could you try and get into the cam rooms and have a chat with people, and gain a veri that way? (obviously my comment is null and void if you are not able to do so / no cam etc.. but it's just a suggestion)
lots of people are willing to help with this.. just ask  Px |
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I meet unverified people but only if they match what I am looking for, have an interesting profile and have exchanged a few exciting messages which have left me wanting to know more about that person. |
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Your in the majority looking for the minority you have to stand out from the rest a photo of a guy in a high viz in a van would to us just blend in, look at it on the side of those you want to meet!
Just imagine we want a guy she's looking forward to a bloody good session she gets bathed dressed up we talk about her with 2 cocks she's randy gagging and the guy you've invited doesn't turn up (again) or he turns up bit can't get it up,
So it's a viscous circle really, guys without verification by meeting are a bigger risk. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I meet unverified people but only if they match what I am looking for, have an interesting profile and have exchanged a few exciting messages which have left me wanting to know more about that person."
This^ |
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OP you have only been here 3 months, that's not long in Fab terms.
Verification won't get you a meet, though it might help.
You need to remember that men are hugely in the majority, meaning that women have oodles of choice.
Most women are looking for a decent message and a profile that sparks their interest. Is your message and profile going to make you stand out from all the others? If your answer is "no", what can you fo to change that?
Failing that you need to get out to socials and clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you have only been here 3 months, that's not long in Fab terms.
Verification won't get you a meet, though it might help.
You need to remember that men are hugely in the majority, meaning that women have oodles of choice.
Most women are looking for a decent message and a profile that sparks their interest. Is your message and profile going to make you stand out from all the others? If your answer is "no", what can you fo to change that?
Failing that you need to get out to socials and clubs. "
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"OP you have only been here 3 months, that's not long in Fab terms.
Verification won't get you a meet, though it might help.
You need to remember that men are hugely in the majority, meaning that women have oodles of choice.
Most women are looking for a decent message and a profile that sparks their interest. Is your message and profile going to make you stand out from all the others? If your answer is "no", what can you fo to change that?
Failing that you need to get out to socials and clubs. "
She's right. I was going to say the same but beaten to it.  |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.
I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..  "
You're looking for a meet!
I thought you were looking for a fight  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just chill go with the flow stuff ain’t instant even more so now, you will still be live n kicking when it happens. Been here before n now no versis just another day! |
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"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.
I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..
You're looking for a meet!
I thought you were looking for a fight "
Thanks for the tip, I’ll try a different profile pic |
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"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.
I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help….. "
That can also put people off, there's a fine line... |
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"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.
I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..
That can also put people off, there's a fine line..."
I had this conversation with a female friend just last night, who said similar, although I did put the case of two guys local to me who seem to be at the top of the popularity ladder right now, and are posting veri after veri…….? |
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You asked for profile advice a while back and from what I can see there’s been no change to your pics and bio, so that will mean that you are not going to change your ‘luck’ on here.
Your luck will be much more successful if you try and stand out…whilst wearing a hi-vis jacket does make you stand out, it’s not the right way for FAB |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.
I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..
You're looking for a meet!
I thought you were looking for a fight
Thanks for the tip, I’ll try a different profile pic "
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There’s something you have written in your profile that won’t help you one bit. I mean one picture of your chin may turn some women on but you’ll be lucky to find her on this site.
It’s writing that you never know what to write here.
What do you think women (the very few on the site) are looking for in a man ?
There’s plenty of ‘you’ on this site, the guys with the one picture, who don’t know what to write. If the women are looking for that, it’s easy to find.
What’s harder for them is finding the guy who ‘does’ know what to write and is imaginative with it and the photos he displays.
Be one of the majority or be unique and interesting, that’s your decision to make on the site.
P.S please don’t be one of those guys who make excuses, there’s plenty of ‘advice threads’ some good bits of advice on your thread already. Plus you can always look at other guys profiles and get some ideas.
So it’s down to you, but at the moment I agree with your status |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go off how we feel and gut instinct.. verifications are not always a key factor....single males is very competitive on any swinging site for meets, because of the numbers of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try and get your wife involved as you may fair a bit better. Worth shot instead of seeking sympathy.
I’m not after sympathy at all just to get a polite no thanx or even a reply that’s all"
Women on here get bombarded with mails off men don’t take it to heart if you don’t hear back we all go through that !
If you dwell on that shit you won’t enjoy this place try not take it so personal !
Best of luck OP |
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