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Ours is somewhere around 250 after adding a couple more this morning.
For us it's a nice simple way of saving time for ourselves and folk that send us messages and winks.
Those whose first message or two either aren't that appealing or are completely off putting, are simply filtered out using the block button.
It's not an issue of conceit etc. It's a handy route to a quiet life on fab.
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This is an exchange we've had this morning.
Him "Love to come and play."
Us "Not a great first message."
Him "Let's fuck??"
Us "Even worse."
Him "Are you on here for chit chat or sex?"
Whenever I wonder about the size of our block list, and objectively question whether our approach is the right one , someone comes along with something like this and provides a little clarity.
Perhaps we should be grateful!
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Just single guys on ours. We have no need to block couples or females because after a chat, if we're not suitable for each other then we can say so and there ends the messaging. On the other hand, single guys seem to think that sending multiple messages after you've told them you're not interested, is suddenly going to make the knickers fall off !
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16 ours, all men. Most emails we get are fine, but some just refuse to take a polite no for an answer. One or two just get the straight block with messages like
“ I wanna fuck your throat until you puke”
I kid you not. Seriously?
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"Just single guys on ours. We have no need to block couples or females because after a chat, if we're not suitable for each other then we can say so and there ends the messaging. On the other hand, single guys seem to think that sending multiple messages after you've told them you're not interested, is suddenly going to make the knickers fall off !
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Pleased I have them filtered then but I get some odd ones from couples too |
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"Just single guys on ours. We have no need to block couples or females because after a chat, if we're not suitable for each other then we can say so and there ends the messaging. On the other hand, single guys seem to think that sending multiple messages after you've told them you're not interested, is suddenly going to make the knickers fall off !
Pleased I have them filtered then but I get some odd ones from couples too "
99.99% singles but a few couples where they made some not so nice comments |
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over a year ago
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"Ours is somewhere around 250 after adding a couple more this morning.
For us it's a nice simple way of saving time for ourselves and folk that send us messages and winks.
Those whose first message or two either aren't that appealing or are completely off putting, are simply filtered out using the block button.
It's not an issue of conceit etc. It's a handy route to a quiet life on fab.
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We do this too. Every now and then I’ll flick through the who’s near, and last viewed and block those we’re never going to be interested in, and same with those who message. Great way to filter down those areas.  |
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239, currently. It consists of:
- people who I've seen say unforgivable shit
- obvious trolls and bullies
- people I'm just not attracted to
- people I don't want to be able to contact me
- people local to me who clog up my updates feed
- attractive people whose tastes or safety profile are so incompatible with mine I need a reminder not to start eyeing them up. |
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not sure you can count above 200 as they drop of the page we have several pages tho we cant really see how many but we know its several so 800 to 900 at a guess could be more |
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"Only lets you see the last 240 ISH on block list and I know it's way more than that and wouldn't be surprised if it was 4 figures "
Oh that's intersting. I thought as members left the site the list shortens. Well apart from us always adding. So way more than 248 for us then. |
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over a year ago
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153 for various reasons. Some people I've fallen out with, others overly pushy and also those who have flat out said not interested, just so I don't accidentally message them again! |
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About 150. Of course we block knobs, but really for us it is just about keeping our searches more refined and to remove those we wouldn’t play with for any reason.
A good example is if we are reading in a forum that someone loves bareback and seems to be too relaxed about it for our liking, of a couple stating that their male partner would have to join in. Neither are a bad thing as everyone is free to make their own decisions, they are just not for us
So anyone on our block list is rarely because they are knobs, just we wouldn’t be the right people for them |
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Mines not too long I don’t think, usually pushy people or people I’ve met and don’t want to re encounter lol. I just found out I’m on someone’s and I don’t think I’ve ever spoken to them so that’s interesting lol, gotta love the fab fickleness. |
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, yes I counted them all. Blocked 4 this week, always adding to the list too.
Three in a row in the space of a few seconds
best feature on here! 
