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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lately I have been seeing a lot of threads from disgruntled people ( mainly males but there are always exceptions) about the lack of winks and messages and I feel for everyone I am in the same boat.
I like to say that what we need to remember is that we need to take into account the supply and demand aspect. Men outnumber woman, couples and TS/TV on here so as a result. Most males are probably going to get less things such as winks messages as they are plentiful and that's not going into locations, age range, location etc.
Now on the flip side receiving hundreds of these things a day I would imagine can't be very fun either yes I guess you could argue that if you choose to sife through the abundance of messages wink etc you would get you "reward" if sex is your only goal. But I believe most are looking for more than just that ( myself included though I am definitely not against it).
But now to the real point of the post yes it can be frustrating or overwhelming depending which category you fall into but remember it's not personal if you don't receive messages it's supply and demand.
Above all though that DOES NOT DEFINE YOUR WORTH AS A PERSON AND NEVER WILL. IT IS NOT A BENCHMARK TO GAUGE YOUR VALUE AGAINST.
YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS BECAUSE NOBODY WINKS. YOU ARE NOT JUST A PIECE OF MEAT BECAUSE ALL YOU GET IS FAF MESSAGES AND COCKSHOTS. You are a human being and fab does not define who you are. Take this place for what it is expect nothing and you cannot be disappointed. Enjoy what posative attention you may get ignore the negative that is a reflection of them not you. Start threads about what you enjoy outside of sex and find like minded people. Fab should enhance your like not dictate it.
Anyways I know it was a long post but if it makes any difference to even one person for a split second it was worth it.
Happy dabbing people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"SOME PEOPLE CALL YOU MAURICE
Cause I speak of the pompatus of love
Never seen that movie
Song by The Joker by Steve Miller Band "
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