Do it!  depending on the club (if the have a bar or socialising area) just treat it like a regular bar. Go and have a drink, try and make conversation with people around you and take a look around. Assume nothing much more than that will happen and you won't go too far wrong
Be friendly and approachable and ask if those you speak to will write you a veri on here if they're members. Doing the groundwork like this and networking will make future visits much more enjoyable |
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"Hey all I’m thinking about going to a club for the first time, super nervous as I’ve never been, any advice?? "
My first bit of advice is take things slow, lower your expectations, then just have fun talk to people, smile, and be polite. Honestly I don’t know what I did but I know by the end of the night I wanted to go back hehe |
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"Do it! depending on the club (if the have a bar or socialising area) just treat it like a regular bar. Go and have a drink, try and make conversation with people around you and take a look around. Assume nothing much more than that will happen and you won't go too far wrong
Be friendly and approachable and ask if those you speak to will write you a veri on here if they're members. Doing the groundwork like this and networking will make future visits much more enjoyable "
thanks I’m nervous but will try it out and would like a mature woman or couple for my first experience |
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"We need someone to go with up north, I really want to go but mainly just for the social side of things as i'm abit shy.
Surely you can just go together......"
Nooooo, we want someone to hold our hands haha, like a single bloke thats been before or another couple to show us the ropes. |
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"We need someone to go with up north, I really want to go but mainly just for the social side of things as i'm abit shy.
Surely you can just go together......
Nooooo, we want someone to hold our hands haha, like a single bloke thats been before or another couple to show us the ropes. "
Oh I get you. If I lived close by I would of made you feel right at home |
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"We need someone to go with up north, I really want to go but mainly just for the social side of things as i'm abit shy. "
we could all go together x
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