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Disappeared now I am over 60!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just change your age "
People can have preferences including age. If I don't want to hear from a 60 year old, getting a message from a 60 year old who is lying about his age to get past my filters isn't going to impress 
Men always moan about blokes pretending to be women, or bi guys pretending to be straight so as not to "put people off", lying about your age to bypass filters is just as unacceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 58,and feel exactly the same,despite being martial arts trained and physically fit,treat lady's in the way they should be treated,with respect,being a gentleman obviously doesn't work. |
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought "
Thinking of you  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought
Thinking of you xxx"
Thanks xx - makes me feel younger |
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought
Thinking of you xxx
Thanks xx - makes me feel younger "
How much younger would you like to feel - mid 40’s do?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 58,and feel exactly the same,despite being martial arts trained and physically fit,treat lady's in the way they should be treated,with respect,being a gentleman obviously doesn't work."
Can i ask.... what has martial arts trained got to do with anything?? Unless youre having a chop/kick duel against Bruce Lee for the ladies affections? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought
Thinking of you xxx
Thanks xx - makes me feel younger
How much younger would you like to feel - mid 40’s do? "
If I got the chance to play with you I think it would take at least 20 years off me . I might not be able to walk the next day but who cares |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I'm 58,and feel exactly the same,despite being martial arts trained and physically fit,treat lady's in the way they should be treated,with respect,being a gentleman obviously doesn't work.
Can i ask.... what has martial arts trained got to do with anything?? Unless youre having a chop/kick duel against Bruce Lee for the ladies affections? "
He'll "Hong-Kong-Fooey" your ass.  |
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought "
You had a meet couple of weeks ago just edit your age on your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a
thought
You had a meet couple of weeks ago just edit your age on your profile "
Lying about your age will find you out if you do get a meet so why do it. Just accept that's the way thing are.
It's all part of the ageing process. I'm in my 70's and still have the same desires albeit somewhat diminished. Still managed to get a couple of meets despite my limitations and in the process of discussing another one soon.
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a
thought
You had a meet couple of weeks ago just edit your age on your profile
Lying about your age will find you out if you do get a meet so why do it. Just accept that's the way thing are.
It's all part of the ageing process. I'm in my 70's and still have the same desires albeit somewhat diminished. Still managed to get a couple of meets despite my limitations and in the process of discussing another one soon.
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Lying about a couple of years is fine no one can tell it's when it 8 or10 year's and if us updated picture it means nothing there lot bigger lies being being told here everyday.
And it was a tongue and cheek comment so chill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a
thought
You had a meet couple of weeks ago just edit your age on your profile
Lying about your age will find you out if you do get a meet so why do it. Just accept that's the way thing are.
It's all part of the ageing process. I'm in my 70's and still have the same desires albeit somewhat diminished. Still managed to get a couple of meets despite my limitations and in the process of discussing another one soon.
Lying about a couple of years is fine no one can tell it's when it 8 or10 year's and if us updated picture it means nothing there lot bigger lies being being told here everyday.
And it was a tongue and cheek comment so chill "
I'm quite chilled thank you. Just one of the old school who believes a lie is a lie no matter how big or small. Have a nice day. |
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"Just change your age "
Literally why would you do that, i already look at face pics & think wow life's been tough on you if your only 40, from people who may or may not have amended their age
Orif people send over old photos then turn up at my house looking visibly different I feel no guilt in telling them & calling a halt to any potential meet even a social, I just wouldn't give them another minute of my time if I felt I'd been deceived
Just be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just change your age
Literally why would you do that, i already look at face pics & think wow life's been tough on you if your only 40, from people who may or may not have amended their age
Orif people send over old photos then turn up at my house looking visibly different I feel no guilt in telling them & calling a halt to any potential meet even a social, I just wouldn't give them another minute of my time if I felt I'd been deceived
Just be honest "
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"Just change your age
Literally why would you do that, i already look at face pics & think wow life's been tough on you if your only 40, from people who may or may not have amended their age
Orif people send over old photos then turn up at my house looking visibly different I feel no guilt in telling them & calling a halt to any potential meet even a social, I just wouldn't give them another minute of my time if I felt I'd been deceived
Just be honest "
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"Just change your age
Literally why would you do that, i already look at face pics & think wow life's been tough on you if your only 40, from people who may or may not have amended their age
Orif people send over old photos then turn up at my house looking visibly different I feel no guilt in telling them & calling a halt to any potential meet even a social, I just wouldn't give them another minute of my time if I felt I'd been deceived
Just be honest "
Lol funny.... Just being honest |
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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago
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Our age range is upto 60, but that’s my preference, more than Mike’s. However, we are good friends with a couple, and he is in his early 60s. I generally prefer men similar to my own age. However, if I met a man I fancied, it wouldn’t matter how old he was.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 58,and feel exactly the same,despite being martial arts trained and physically fit,treat lady's in the way they should be treated,with respect,being a gentleman obviously doesn't work.
Can i ask.... what has martial arts trained got to do with anything?? Unless youre having a chop/kick duel against Bruce Lee for the ladies affections? "
Lol,no,Bruce would kick my ass .was trying to say I'm still fit,and to me age is how you feel,I certainly don't feel my age,and definitely don't act it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 58,and feel exactly the same,despite being martial arts trained and physically fit,treat lady's in the way they should be treated,with respect,being a gentleman obviously doesn't work.
Can i ask.... what has martial arts trained got to do with anything?? Unless youre having a chop/kick duel against Bruce Lee for the ladies affections?
He'll "Hong-Kong-Fooey" your ass. "
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"My FAB appeal has just plummeted as I have reached the age of 60.
I was always aware that a number of people have 60 as a cut off age in their profiles and all the time I was in my late. 50s I was OK to chat, be seen etc.
Now I have noticed a big change
So -
Those nearing 60 beware !!!
Others - please spare us oldies a thought "
Happens at various age points I think.
What I would do (and have done when relevant) is to focus on those who are interested. Pretty sure you can use the search facility to match yourself up with those that are no excluding you on the basis of your age.
No point putting any energy into trying to meet those who don't want to meet you. That's my thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree. Im on the wrong side of 50. And with a birthday looming i think its time to pull the plug as well. I understand why people have a age limit but it gets harder every year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just change your age
People can have preferences including age. If I don't want to hear from a 60 year old, getting a message from a 60 year old who is lying about his age to get past my filters isn't going to impress
Men always moan about blokes pretending to be women, or bi guys pretending to be straight so as not to "put people off", lying about your age to bypass filters is just as unacceptable. "
let’s face it age is just a number ! He may look and feel like he’s 50 so no big deal |
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For my sins I am 81, my activity on here has hit the buffers due to various medical problems.
I was 67 when I joined Fab and although not exactly inundated with offers managed to get the odd meet right up to the start of the Covid problems.
Put your mind into determination mode and start messaging all the lovely ladies on here who are over 60. |
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