"We were chatting last night about debriefing together after a night out. What do couples cover in these chats? Just intrigued. Are our chats the same as others going on? "
We talk about what we enjoyed doing/watching and if we have any ideas what we want to try next |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
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We normally talk about how hot it was, little details we enjoyed or the other might've missed, what we liked, what we didn't like and if any boundaries were pushed/crossed and weather we'd play with them again we don't really get off on reliving it though it is literally a debrief for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We we met strangers about twice a month years and and now met three over a few weeks. There is no socil etc as to say.
Tej does not like to talk about it other than tell me in a few words the rating she gave the meet etc when we are making love and I leave it at that until I am getting her ready for the next meet and then ask her if she wants someone like last time. We've both agreed not to meet anyone more than twice as people can fall for the other persons sweet talk/lies best avoided we both agreed |
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"We normally talk about how hot it was, little details we enjoyed or the other might've missed, what we liked, what we didn't like and if any boundaries were pushed/crossed and weather we'd play with them again we don't really get off on reliving it though it is literally a debrief for us. "
This is pretty much the same for us!  |
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"We normally talk about how hot it was, little details we enjoyed or the other might've missed, what we liked, what we didn't like and if any boundaries were pushed/crossed and weather we'd play with them again we don't really get off on reliving it though it is literally a debrief for us. "
This sounds like ours! There's usually some small details that one of us missed so it's fun to give an account from either side  |
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We always check in with each other, make sure the other was happy with what happened and how, and what if anything they would change. We make sure it’s working for both of us, and we are both happy. Naturally we discuss if we’re happy to meet them again.
Both is the key word. We swing as a couple, so we each must be fully on board, and happy / comfortable playing. We don’t take one for the team, and would not put each other up as a “token” for a meet to take place. Frankly, we would be disappointed if the other couple didn’t work the same way. |
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Similar to a few on here.
We talk about it all, how we enjoyed it, what we loved, anything that we were less into or may change (especially if testing boundaries). We also check in on how we feel emotionally and usually what we might want to do or try next time. We usually have sex and cuddles after to reconnect after talking about it all. By then we are usually turned on enough that we are planning the next one lol |
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