FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Verifications
Verifications
Jump to: Newest in thread
So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No such thing as too many! You have been here ages and isn't like it says you meet ten a night. If someone says it's too many it is an easy way to exclude them from any future meets as obviously a judgemental prick. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Personally I’d love to be able to add to them   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
OP I wouldn't worry about your veri's. There's nothing wrong with how many you have. I had the same issue about three years ago and I was only showing 11 on my profile. The rest were hidden as they were too explicit. Most of mine were from socials too. Just ignore people like that, they're just jealous x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have loads but hide most as all are very similar. Most are from socials and clubs where I have chatted to people. I would never judge anyone by the number of veris although sometimes the content is very off putting. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No I wouldn’t discount someone with a lot of veris…
I genuinely don’t understand and I don’t understand the mentality of someone that would.
It’s in the nature to meet people be it at a club, social or regular friends…
I’d love to know from the people that moan about too many verifications are they going to stop swinging when they reach a certain number of meets?
Ignore them OP I wouldn’t worry at all x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
Personally I’d love to be able to add to them "
Cheeky |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No I wouldn’t discount someone with a lot of veris…
I genuinely don’t understand and I don’t understand the mentality of someone that would.
It’s in the nature to meet people be it at a club, social or regular friends…
I’d love to know from the people that moan about too many verifications are they going to stop swinging when they reach a certain number of meets?
Ignore them OP I wouldn’t worry at all x"
Phew thanks I was starting to think I was some dirty skanky bitch!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
I had a similar response from a single lady just yesterday, that I had too many veris. Fair enough, I’m not for you. Find yourself a nice unverified fella 
I don’t mind a single female with a good few veris, just as long as you can’t plot her menstrual cycle from them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’d say ignore them  they are just being jealous and judgmental. Your verification shows that you are fun to be around with!
I’ve been in a similar position. It was hurtful to hear it at first, but to be fair I wouldn’t want someone who would make these comments around me (!!red flag alert!!)
Take Care xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Anyone who takes the time to personally send you a message berating your profile and trying to make you feel bad is clearly an arse hole & a horrible person and not worth wasting your time on !!
Tell them to do one & then block them !! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Anyone who takes the time to personally send you a message berating your profile and trying to make you feel bad is clearly an arse hole & a horrible person and not worth wasting your time on !!
Tell them to do one & then block them !!"
What this couple says.
Your personal life should not be a concern to anyone else! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
If you feel the need to justify the above (over many years, some are socials etc) why show the veris or summary?
If you hide it you won't have to defend yourself.
Fab is one site. People also meet people off this site for sex.
2 or 2,000 veris on a Fab profile mean nothing.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I don’t get this whole too many verifications thing, most of the time they’re not always sexual and are just clarification that someone is who they say they are.
To me it shows that the person or people actually do go out and meet people in person rather than just sit in front a screen all day. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
Sounds like a form of control being exercised. Whether you got the veris through social spanning the ages or all in a single night, it’s no ones’s business how you play.
"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Its them, not you!
I dont see an issue with it. Lets face it, there are unlikely to be any virgins on here lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don’t get this whole too many verifications thing, most of the time they’re not always sexual and are just clarification that someone is who they say they are.
To me it shows that the person or people actually do go out and meet people in person rather than just sit in front a screen all day. "
Exactly this! When posting a veri, the tab you click says “Verify genuine”…….that’s all anyone needs to know |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don’t get this whole too many verifications thing, most of the time they’re not always sexual and are just clarification that someone is who they say they are.
To me it shows that the person or people actually do go out and meet people in person rather than just sit in front a screen all day.
Exactly this! When posting a veri, the tab you click says “Verify genuine”…….that’s all anyone needs to know "
We read a lot more into veris than that. We like to see a bit of their personality and how they play. Maybe many don't as we all know many don't read profiles, but we do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Ah the trowls are at it again, i wouldnt worry, small minded people shouldnt be on a swingers site x nice profile x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don't meet people with more than 4 shown veris.
Like attracts like.
I don't understand,
So does that mean once you hit 4 veris, your coming off the site? "
No I mean 4 visible/ shown veris. Hidden are ok. Discreet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Too many veris makes me think i have not got a chance in hell with them, as clearly they are a social person.
But also , i check where veris are from and mostly it's from clubs, social events or webcams.
And then still think i have not got a chance because haven't been to swingers club in ages and probably won't for a while yet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
You don't have a lot of verifications, especially when spread out over the years.
This is just a stick weak people use to beat you with because they can on a web site.
I'd you're ever a little south on your travels I'd be glad to be a social verii, if that wouldn't add to your problems, ha ha.
Great rope work & adore your clamps by the way x.
Just ignore them & carry on, you're doing great x. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Unsavoury
They should be so lucky to meet you, maybe that's there issue, knowing they have no chance!
It's nice to see people who've enjoyed themselves over the years on fab.
Good for you lovely - keep enjoying sex |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't show mine at all due to being judged on them! I've also had men become insanely jealous if I receive a new one and it's not from them. I had to delete my last account because of them so I find it easier just to hide them altogether now! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Too many too few , some will never like either but who cares , we actually like people with meeting verifications it suits us to see they are genuine especially if they have meet people we have meet or know |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don't meet people with more than 4 shown veris.
Like attracts like.
I don't understand,
So does that mean once you hit 4 veris, your coming off the site?
No I mean 4 visible/ shown veris. Hidden are ok. Discreet. "
Ah I see, thanks for the reply |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
Unsavoury
They should be so lucky to meet you, maybe that's there issue, knowing they have no chance!
It's nice to see people who've enjoyed themselves over the years on fab.
Good for you lovely - keep enjoying sex "
Aw, thank you. Hope you keep having fun too... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You don't have a lot of verifications, especially when spread out over the years.
This is just a stick weak people use to beat you with because they can on a web site.
I'd you're ever a little south on your travels I'd be glad to be a social verii, if that wouldn't add to your problems, ha ha.
Great rope work & adore your clamps by the way x.
Just ignore them & carry on, you're doing great x. "
Haha! Thank you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Is this after you have said no by any chance? Unfortunately you get people like this in general, unfortunately.
To us it doesn't matter, isn't this a swingers site? Least you're genuine too.
Ignore the haters and never let anyone judge you for being you. As long as you're happy that's all that counts. They have no impact on your life so just block them xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don’t get this whole too many verifications thing, most of the time they’re not always sexual and are just clarification that someone is who they say they are.
To me it shows that the person or people actually do go out and meet people in person rather than just sit in front a screen all day.
Exactly this! When posting a veri, the tab you click says “Verify genuine”…….that’s all anyone needs to know
We read a lot more into veris than that. We like to see a bit of their personality and how they play. Maybe many don't as we all know many don't read profiles, but we do."
The thing for me personally is, if I read veris from previous people who extol how amazing they were, how big their cock was, how many times they cum, how many hours they fucked like a Duracell bunny for, etc etc, I feel like I may be a disappointment for them, so it would put me off contacting them. All I need to know is, the person is who they purport to be in their profile, and their pics (if they have any on display), are a true and current representation of them. What happens 'between the sheets' is nobody else's business |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don’t get this whole too many verifications thing, most of the time they’re not always sexual and are just clarification that someone is who they say they are.
To me it shows that the person or people actually do go out and meet people in person rather than just sit in front a screen all day.
Exactly this! When posting a veri, the tab you click says “Verify genuine”…….that’s all anyone needs to know
We read a lot more into veris than that. We like to see a bit of their personality and how they play. Maybe many don't as we all know many don't read profiles, but we do.
The thing for me personally is, if I read veris from previous people who extol how amazing they were, how big their cock was, how many times they cum, how many hours they fucked like a Duracell bunny for, etc etc, I feel like I may be a disappointment for them, so it would put me off contacting them. All I need to know is, the person is who they purport to be in their profile, and their pics (if they have any on display), are a true and current representation of them. What happens 'between the sheets' is nobody else's business "
One of the reasons why I don't like seeing veris on profiles. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So,
I've been told a couple of times recently that I have too many veris and this makes me unsavoury!!
This, despite the fact that
a) those veris span many years
b) many of them are from socials
c) many of them are from the same people over a few meets
d) this is a swingers site!
So, would you discount someone for having too many veris?
Am I just being too sensitive over it all after those comments?
"
Anyone would be lucky to be able to verify you. Even if you had 100 in a week all from meeting for sex, That’s your prerogative. Don’t let anyones negative comments influence your experience here! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
A couple of years ago I deleted my profile and started again as I was told I had too many verifications ..
i must admit I was like a kid in a sweet shop back then ..
It’s rare I meet nowadays, I feel swinging has changed, or maybe I have.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
