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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I first went to a club with a gent, but since then I'm happy to go to ones I'm familiar with on my own.
There are often events designed especially for people going to clubs for the first time, look out for them.
But if you contact the club you are planning to go to in advance and they can run through what to expect. On arrival you will get a tour and will be introduced to some of the regulars.
Everyone is nervous initially, but you will soon settle and have a great evening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I first went to a club with a gent, but since then I'm happy to go to ones I'm familiar with on my own.
There are often events designed especially for people going to clubs for the first time, look out for them.
But if you contact the club you are planning to go to in advance and they can run through what to expect. On arrival you will get a tour and will be introduced to some of the regulars.
Everyone is nervous initially, but you will soon settle and have a great evening."
Great advice. Thanks very much ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Yes! Once you’ve been you’ll never look back. I look at the events at the club and any threads oh who’s going as you can sometimes strike up a conversation with others. Always good to go alone, no expectations or pressure either xx |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Yes me. Are you thinking of going alone?
Yes. How did u find it?x"
Absolutely fine. I let the club know it was my first time and they looked after me. Showed me around and introduced me to a few people. I played pool and had a few drinks and watched others that night as I wanted to get a feel for the place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or put a post up like this one there are always sf looking for club buddy’s I know I’d be interested in teaming up if I wanted to a certain event x a lot of ppl team up to share Costs if they are booking hotels x but in response to your oringinal question, yes, go for it you will be safer in a club than on a meet I’d say xx |
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