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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interested to know how people approached this on their first visit. Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit lol, but guessing slightly different for couples and single fems? |
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1st visit I had at a club I was very nervous, it was an open night for newbies so wasn't that busy. Didn't play but did watch and pick up a few tips lol.
Probably best to try and be yourself, don't be the creep who follows women / couples around. Just talk at the bar of communal areas and see how it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go on every club without visit with the thought of not playing as it is not guaranteed but i will confess that on my first nervous visit i did not play, just looked around and left
They must of thought i was mad  |
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When I go it will be with the mindset nothing will happen , I’ll see some action and get the odd hello. Had it not been for a meeting at work this afternoon I’d be at me kestrels for the first time. Oh well will have to wait for after half term |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing is guaranteed op so go with the intention that nothing will happen. If it does bonus "
I'm thinking this is sound advice and we will take it on board for when we build up the courage for our first visit |
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My first club visit is in a couple of weeks. I’m going with zero expectations with regard to playing and will see what happens. My main aim is to see what it’s like, try to socialise and get to know more like-minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first 2 visits I did nothing but chat and relax..
I don't think I'll ever be able to go With the intention of playing. If it happens it happens, if not, oh well, I'll have been chatting with some interesting people |
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We were bricking it on our first visit and just played with each other in a room on our own, even that was exciting knowing someone could walk in. On our second visit we were in an orgy room, a few glances then some fem/fem fun. |
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" Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit"
I never expected to play on any of my club visits! Attraction is a two-way street, and I don't play with someone just because I can. I've only played 3 times out of a total of 15 club visits.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest with being new to the scene I just go in hoping to meet new people in the lifestyle and hopefully this could lead to freindships that I could explore the lifestyle further. Fwb, fb and ons are obviously welcome but not my soul point of going. |
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"Interested to know how people approached this on their first visit. Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit lol, but guessing slightly different for couples and single fems?"
I did. I had been without sex for several years so went with the intentions of having sex. I had a blast. |
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We were so nervous on our first visit! We waited outside for ages trying to get the nerve to ring the bell. We figured we'd just go in, have a look around, have a drink and then go home.
20 minutes after getting inside we were naked in the hot tub chatting with the locals  We found a private room and did our own thing and then left.
Now when we visit a club, we go with the intention of having a drink and a chat with others before heading upstairs and just playing together. If anything else happens then that's fine. |
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"Interested to know how people approached this on their first visit. Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit lol, but guessing slightly different for couples and single fems?"
It’s going to be my first visit to kestrels on Saturday and I am just touring around and seeing how things work
I have been clear that I will just be watching and chatting no expectations and see how I feel someone who has been seeing me a few times one to one is coming with me so I won’t strictly be a single fem
But he is a free agent and can wonder off that’s okay with me xx |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
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My first visit (Mrs) I went with a friend and had spoke to a couple on here and said I was going. Didn’t go with intentions of anything happening and was just seeing how i felt and to a open to out for Mr, but after half a bottle I was feeling quite loose and myself and the couple who had arrived just after me decided to end the night in. a private room and as they say the rest is history. I guess it’s a go with the flow kind of situation. Don’t go expecting things to happen |
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