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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you guys take receiving a wink on here?
For me i’d send one to show interest and if i get one back i’d then message, not as an excuse to be lazy by not just messaging, especially those with no information on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to wink back when someone winks at us - I take a wink as someone testing the water !
If we wink at someone and they wink back - I assume they are interested and send a message !
I tend to send thought out messages and not just a one liner - which is pointless if the person isn’t interested |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We tend to wink back when someone winks at us - I take a wink as someone testing the water !
If we wink at someone and they wink back - I assume they are interested and send a message !
I tend to send thought out messages and not just a one liner - which is pointless if the person isn’t interested "
Hard to send thought out messages especially when they have absolutely nothing on their profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We tend to wink back when someone winks at us - I take a wink as someone testing the water !
If we wink at someone and they wink back - I assume they are interested and send a message !
I tend to send thought out messages and not just a one liner - which is pointless if the person isn’t interested "
I am the same as you, but not many seem to be though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you guys take receiving a wink on here?
For me i’d send one to show interest and if i get one back i’d then message, not as an excuse to be lazy by not just messaging, especially those with no information on! "
Exactly my view on winks, use them to gauge if my interest is reciprocated.
If I get a wink back I then send a message  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you guys take receiving a wink on here?
For me i’d send one to show interest and if i get one back i’d then message, not as an excuse to be lazy by not just messaging, especially those with no information on!
Exactly my view on winks, use them to gauge if my interest is reciprocated.
If I get a wink back I then send a message "
Absolutely the case!! Many see it i think as oh they can’t be arsed messaging but sometimes it’s easier than your message being deleted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i get a wink i see it as an invite to message...
Rarely wink anyone else, kind of pointless for guys, unless i fancy them like crazy..then i wink and see if they wink back... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If i get a wink i see it as an invite to message...
Rarely wink anyone else, kind of pointless for guys, unless i fancy them like crazy..then i wink and see if they wink back..."
See i’m the opposite to you here, a message tends to be deleted or unread due to sheer amount now i’m not saying that a wink will get you further just feel sometimes its a better option to a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a wink.
If I receive one and I'm interested I'll send a message.
I haven't sent any yet as a lot of what I see on profiles and forums is that they tend not to look at winks or see them as lazy. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"We tend to wink back when someone winks at us - I take a wink as someone testing the water !
If we wink at someone and they wink back - I assume they are interested and send a message !
I tend to send thought out messages and not just a one liner - which is pointless if the person isn’t interested "
Thats what I do as well. I send winks to say I'm interested but sometimes, I receive winks back and I send a message but sometimes I don't get a reply back.. so I just leave it at that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Mrs) wink if I like the profile, if they wink back I'll message, sometimes I'm not 100% sure we are what they are looking for so a wink helps.
I'd always reply to a wink with one back or a message if I liked the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t check winks. The last time we did about 95% of them were from people who didn’t match our preferences, so they either didn’t read the profile or did and thought they’d ignore them. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"How do you guys take receiving a wink on here?
For me i’d send one to show interest and if i get one back i’d then message, not as an excuse to be lazy by not just messaging, especially those with no information on! "
We use them the same way. If someone winks at us and we are interested then we'll generally wink back. If we wink first and someone winks back then we'll send a first message. |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"We tend to wink back when someone winks at us - I take a wink as someone testing the water !
If we wink at someone and they wink back - I assume they are interested and send a message !
I tend to send thought out messages and not just a one liner - which is pointless if the person isn’t interested "
This is how we use them too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally always wink before sending a message. Never get any back or receive them but I think it's a good way to show interest and helps everyone make choices easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard to send thought out messages especially when they have absolutely nothing on their profile "
Yeah totally - however I might say something about us , what we are looking for - why we have sent a message etc. I hate getting messages that just say
“How are you “ or similar |
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