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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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No, its quite common really. I've never cummed from a bj before.. well saying that I rarely cum through sex so there's that lol
Its not a big deal really. As long as you and whoever is in your company are enjoying yourselves then go for it  |
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over a year ago
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum.
Is this common or am I just odd?"
Personally I cum easily from a BJ but I've also sucked enough cocks. Probably 50 50 if a guy can cum, some even go limp and call it quits. I'm very apologetic to the reciever as they tend to be embarrassed. Know reason to be though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be getting some bad BJ’s 
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum"
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true) |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum"
Same !
I’d never came from a bj before Mrs Crazy, she knows what gets me going and has managed it loads of times.
If you know what gets you off then let the other person know what to do |
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By *DM9012Man
over a year ago
Gatwick |
In my early years I couldnt cum from a BJ, which was super cause it was nonstop cock sucking, balls licking etc. Later in life i noticed that there are times that even when a woman just licks his head and sucks on the tip i am ready to spray paint |
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum.
Is this common or am I just odd?"
I worked out it was 2015 the last time I cum from a bj, and 2014 was the first time I ever cum in a woman’s mouth.
I think it’s more common for a man not to cum from a bj than people admit, mostly because they don’t want to upset a female……. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true)"
I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum"
I find spitting a massive turn off. People are watching too much porn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only cum once from a blow alone. But a combination of sucking and stroking usually works for me.
It was a guy who made me cum from sucking alone. |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true)
I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs"
The ‘you’re just not doing it right’ attitude that dispels all aspects of individual differences drives me insane! I hide my frustrations well, I know |
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We know a few ladies who know how to milk a man with their mouth, one will happily get you hard and then run you with her tongue and then as she sucks some more will play with your prostate.
Another will get you hard with her mouth and boobs but will finish by swallowing and licking up every drop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum"
Not at all, from your perspective maybe, but not from mine.
I'm far more active in the bedroom and can find lay back being pleasured this way somewhat a tad boring, it's fine for a short while but to keep going until climax, not.
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum.
Is this common or am I just odd?"
I’m the same. Can only cum through penetration of the pussy.
Blowjobs make me either desensitised or overly sensitive. |
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"Most men are the same I have cummed from 2 bjs in my life. "
Have you any research data to support that first statement? If not, it’s a big step to generalise and assume most men are the same (or similar) to you.
I’ve cum loads from having my cock sucked in the past…. And equally had lots of BJs that didn’t make me cum. More about the mood of the moment than the woman or her technique, in my experience…
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the time I do....guess it depends on many aspects. Where and how it's being done, whether it actually turns you on or not or if you generally struggle anyway.
Personally, I've always liked them and cum more often than not....especially with the lady of recent times. Talk about having a gift  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The more I think about it, I'm relived I don't usually cum from a bj. I like oral as part of the foreplay and so cumming would mean might not be able to get hard again for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually don’t cum from a bj. I enjoy oral. Prefer giving but for me, a bj is the build up to the sex. I’ve had experiences in the past with a fwb when we couldn’t fuck so she sucked my cock and wanked me till I cum on her tits. That was fucking hot. It was the sight of her on her knees, big tits exposed looking up at me that got me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true)
I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs
The ‘you’re just not doing it right’ attitude that dispels all aspects of individual differences drives me insane! I hide my frustrations well, I know "
Expecially if the jaw is hurting, neck killing, knees sore after 30 mins of top draw effort. And he still blames you haha ffs |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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Depends.
I sometimes can and sometimes can't.
It really depends on many factors. If I'm on the edge already then it will happen. But when I'm actually trying to make myself cum, then I can't. Especially if I'm standing up because my legs tend to tense up and my toes curl (lol) as all the energy goes to my cock, so I'll need to be lying down for it. |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true)
I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs
The ‘you’re just not doing it right’ attitude that dispels all aspects of individual differences drives me insane! I hide my frustrations well, I know "
Me too.
I've had some amazing blowjobs, and I know she knows how to do them well... but they just don't do it for me in that way. I enjoy them, but I've never cum from them.
Not everyone is or should be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that a guy who struggles to come while receiving oral usually changes his mind when I lube my middle finger gently insert it into him and probe for the walnut |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true)
I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs
The ‘you’re just not doing it right’ attitude that dispels all aspects of individual differences drives me insane! I hide my frustrations well, I know "
Can I just take a moment to give this reply the recognition it deserves please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the girls who’ve given me a BJ were never happy to have cum in their mouths so I’ve just never done it. The odd one or 2 who were happy with it and told me they wanted it I did but it was normally after having a fuck and me putting it in mouth after. Most of the time oral has been part of the forplay and never the endgame. Would love to receive just a blowjob knowing the women wanted all of my load in her mouth. Makes it much easier to cum then thinking about not cumming!! |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum"
Nonsense!..Some guys have self control and don't go off like a loose cannon, others just don't like them, and for some, it just doesn't make them cum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
Nonsense!..Some guys have self control and don't go off like a loose cannon, others just don't like them, and for some, it just doesn't make them cum.
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It’s all about self control. I won’t cum from a blowjob until my partners sorted.. would feel guilty. Mutual fun and also she knows what shes doing. We’re doing a couple profile soon so it’ll be great to watch her in another couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Years ago they did nothing for me but then one day a girl gave me one and it felt like the best thing ever. She knew exactly what she was doing and had my legs shaking.
Since then I love them as long as they know what they are doing which most have in recent years. |
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
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never an issue with me.... can always cum from a BJ, however...caveat is I always warn the giving partner that I will soon be cumming, then they have the choice of stopping or raising the bar so they feel my cock swell then pop...they have a mouthful of cum |
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"Most of the girls who’ve given me a BJ were never happy to have cum in their mouths so I’ve just never done it. The odd one or 2 who were happy with it and told me they wanted it I did but it was normally after having a fuck and me putting it in mouth after. Most of the time oral has been part of the forplay and never the endgame. Would love to receive just a blowjob knowing the women wanted all of my load in her mouth. Makes it much easier to cum then thinking about not cumming!! "
I’m the same mate; the first time I ever cum in a woman’s mouth (2014 btw), I could only do it by fucking her pussy then pulling out to finish off in her mouth
I’ve actually considered visiting an escort to see if I can work this mental blockage away from blowjobs……. |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum"
It’s probably more psychological than anything to do with the person giving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of you struggle to cum.....stop wanking, smoking and doing drugs...whichever applies to you...
But seriously.....stop wanking ...giving yourself "deathgrip" fellas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum.
Is this common or am I just odd?"
I never cum from just blowjob always need to wank to finish. one time I nearly cum because the blowjob was amazing I stopped quickly fucked her then cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep seeing comments like if a girl knows what she’s doing. Tell the girl what you love and how you like it before a meet. Find a girl who loves to please. Every guy is different but it takes two to have the best blow job ever |
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"I keep seeing comments like if a girl knows what she’s doing. Tell the girl what you love and how you like it before a meet. Find a girl who loves to please. Every guy is different but it takes two to have the best blow job ever "
Exactly that. There's nothing to stop anyone saying what pleases them. And sexy when it's acted on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's me thinking that was just something men said to get a really good blow job
I've known men cum really quickly from mine, most actually...but hubby is quite long lasting so doesn't happen too often.
Minx x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never came from a bow job for most of my life. It never really bothered me. Sex otherwise was good with my long term partners. I had a phase of visiting escorts and consequently found that if the technique suited me..hey..pop. now at my ripe old age I find being sucked off a massive turn on. I see one particular lady that delivers on this. .oh...if only she swallowed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find that a guy who struggles to come while receiving oral usually changes his mind when I lube my middle finger gently insert it into him and probe for the walnut"
A proven technique.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I use my fingers and mouth together when I suck Tom he always cums. Not so much if I only use my mouth. Sometimes I can be Down there for ages and he won't cum! |
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"I find that a guy who struggles to come while receiving oral usually changes his mind when I lube my middle finger gently insert it into him and probe for the walnut A proven technique. "
And one that works for me every time lol |
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"BJs make me cum for sure. If it’s not working for you, tell them how to make it better"
It's down to this in my experience.
I've had some terrible BJs, where there was absolutely no chance whatsoever of a happy ending. But on the other end of the scale I've had some toe-curlers.
It's simply been down to the quality of the provider.
Communication is key within this frame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve found that if the bj giver really enjoys giving them the experience is fantastic
Some people only do it because they think it is an essential part of play but don’t love it.
I find that I explode massively when coming in someone’s mouth - I always tell them I am about to cum to give them a choice - escape or get a mouthful
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle to ejaculate from a blow job but I do love the feeling. I think it’s because subconsciously I don’t think the giver is actually enjoying it and just doing it to satisfy me. Maybe I’m over thinking it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can totally understand that for some they are just not able to cum from a blow job but I have in fact made a few guys cum who have said they have never came from oral before  |
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"I can totally understand that for some they are just not able to cum from a blow job but I have in fact made a few guys cum who have said they have never came from oral before "
Pretends he’s never cum from oral before |
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s
If the woman knows how to work that cock, spitting all over it and playing with your balls and shaft as she sucks you will cum
That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true)
I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs"
I agree a very porn style bj.. and not something I would be comfortable doing! I'll do it may way.. its worked everytime so far!!  |
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"I never have. I usually don’t find them that enjoyable.
What is it you don’t you like about them?"
I’m not sure. It’s just never felt that pleasurable. There’s plenty of other things I rather have done. |
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"I can totally understand that for some they are just not able to cum from a blow job but I have in fact made a few guys cum who have said they have never came from oral before
Pretends he’s never cum from oral before "
Form a line lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow, so many guys cant cum from a BJ like me. It really feels horrible not being able to. Could there be something physical that prevents us doing so?"
Same. I literally have to hold back/pull away . The felling can be almost instant aswell. I feel lucky because cumming completely hands free deep in a mouth is unmatched I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find I cum when the situation is risqué or made hornier with others watching or playing. Miss B sucked my cock in the attic cinema with other guys watching; just the sensation and horny thoughts made me cum which she took very well and carried on mmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just think of a dark sexual roleplay scenario and bingo e.g. imagine the person sucking you off is a close family relative, or doctor, teacher etc. The mind has the uncanny ability to dream up all kinds of sexy taboo scenarios. First time I came with a BJ she put on my clean white shirt which helped me pretend she was an office worker and was interviewing me for a job with her company. Without the shirt the roleplay wouldn't be as effective. I always find a piece of clothing or a prop of some kind is all that is needed to help. Even a role of toilet paper can be used to create three sexy scenarios e.g. Caesar's robe (emperor and queen) or a hospital bandage (doctor and patient), or an office tie (boss and employee). Having sex can be very creative.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some women are good at it and some are not. If they are good i will come. If they are crap at it i wont. But i always tell them when im about to cum as loads dont like the taist of it. |
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) and haven't really had any troubles cumming from them 