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Married men v Married women
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?
Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up."
Being a tad cynical, I'm always skeptical of the new female profiles that state along the lines of "Married bored housewife. Message me".
I really have such a jaundiced _iew at the moment. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither is any better not any worse than the other.
The danger is in making them pariahs, because then they lie about it and stop the rest of us from making an informed choice.
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Being a tad cynical, I'm always skeptical of the new female profiles that state along the lines of "Married bored housewife. Message me".
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Agreed.. Also wonder how many will reply to a message saying "i only play with hubby"??
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"Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?
Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up."
Married and playing with hubby's knowledge. Not seeking anyone's judgement or approval. If people don't want to meet me I shan't lose any sleep. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?
Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up."
nope... quite proud to say that my opinion on the subject is very much "equal ops"..... I don't specify my answer because of gender... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes ... no difference ... both may or may not have perfectly good reasons for doing so and they are thier own.
Should be declared .. not necessarily on profile but in the first conversation.
It's just manners to be honest ... I found honesty gets me EVERYWHERE!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't play with a married woman without her hubby being there. How do I know he's really 'ok' with what she's doing if I can't see his face?"
same here hun x  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I really don't care.... There is no diierence.
But if they want to be here, their choice.
They should declare it to allow others to make an informed choice."
* difference
just noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it matters. There's married people on both sides and they aren't always on here for the same reasons.
Some are cheating behind people's backs.
Some are on here with consent but without their other half's involvement.
Some are on here as couples. (obviously)
Some are on here with their other half very much involved in their fun.
It really doesn't matter as long as they are honest with the people they are meeting. Some people try to paint it all with a broad-brush by saying 'no married or attached people' even though the couples they are meeting are obviously 'attached'. Because 'couple', obviously.
I think some people fail to see their own hypocrisy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people on here are far too concerned with other peoples business. If you dont want to play with married people then dont... but some people seem to feel the need to take the holier (sp?) than thou attitude towards what other people choose to do. If you.dont like it.. move on, not difficult really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no difference between the two really on a moral level. (if you care about such things)
The main difference is that she'll mainly be seen as a single woman and get laid seven ways to Sunday, whereas the man will be yet another single guy and get fuck all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it matters. There's married people on both sides and they aren't always on here for the same reasons.
Some are cheating behind people's backs.
Some are on here with consent but without their other half's involvement.
Some are on here as couples. (obviously)
Some are on here with their other half very much involved in their fun.
It really doesn't matter as long as they are honest with the people they are meeting. Some people try to paint it all with a broad-brush by saying 'no married or attached people' even though the couples they are meeting are obviously 'attached'. Because 'couple', obviously.
I think some people fail to see their own hypocrisy."
But surely there is a difference between cheaters and couples who also agree to play separately as well as, as a couple? Hypocrisy then doesn't come into it does it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some people on here are far too concerned with other peoples business. If you dont want to play with married people then dont... but some people seem to feel the need to take the holier (sp?) than thou attitude towards what other people choose to do. If you.dont like it.. move on, not difficult really. "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I think some people on here are far too concerned with other peoples business. If you dont want to play with married people then dont... but some people seem to feel the need to take the holier (sp?) than thou attitude towards what other people choose to do. If you.dont like it.. move on, not difficult really. "
you are right and that is why declaring it is important... you can only follow exactly what you say ' don't play with them' if you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From personal experience i know a lot of people wont meet married men/women and fair play to them. However if you meet with someone local surely a married man/woman is probably a safe bet with regard to them bragging about it with friends because of the consequences. Just a thought ! Id much rather wake up of a morning to see my dog eating a bowl of winalot rather than meat and two veg lol |
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