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over a year ago
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I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol |
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over a year ago
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol"
As long as you practice safe sex it shouldn't matter what anyone else does. Obviously if they jab it in you bare then you can complain. |
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I have done a number of MFM meets where the couple went bareback, they were couples in relationships.
I took some pics for one couple, they are on their profile, there is no condom in sight.
I wore one ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"me bare backing my female partner"
If either of you bareback A N Other then yes of course there's a risk.
Also, Thrush and Genital warts (maybe other STI's/STD's too)can develop by themselves without having more than one partner, so yes a couple sticking strictly to each other can still pass on symptoms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"me bare backing my female partner"
All the more reason to both get a check up before going bareback. At least then if you get one afterwards you know one of you ain't playing safe... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol
As long as you practice safe sex it shouldn't matter what anyone else does. Obviously if they jab it in you bare then you can complain."
I had a meet the other week and as I took a condom out she said "I won't get pregnant I've had the implant"
To which I replied "oh... Does your implant stop aids?"
Needless to say I carried on making my little fella in to a bank robber... |
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over a year ago
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The ignorance of some people astounds me! I can't believe people would just assume you're preventing pregnancy. Also... How often do people say they're on the pill/injection/implant and they're not?!
My husband and I don't use protection, but if/when we have full sex with another it'll be using a condom.
Also thrush can come from more than sex, we got a nasty dose from a tongue p piercing - ouch!
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My first meet back on fab tried to get me to remove the condom which i wouldn't do, she insisted she was clean, needless to say i carried on with the protection and later found out she was no stranger to bareback sex, ive also noticed more and more profiles with a preference for bareback sex, absolute madness in my opinion sex  |
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A friend of mine recently discovered that the cause of her persistent bv was some condoms. She only found out cos I was boasting about where ti get cheap ones. She switched to that variety and hasn't had it since.
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"The ignorance of some people astounds me! I can't believe people would just assume you're preventing pregnancy. Also... How often do people say they're on the pill/injection/implant and they're not?!
My husband and I don't use protection, but if/when we have full sex with another it'll be using a condom.
Also thrush can come from more than sex, we got a nasty dose from a tongue p piercing - ouch!
Sx"
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"A friend of mine recently discovered that the cause of her persistent bv was some condoms. She only found out cos I was boasting about where ti get cheap ones. She switched to that variety and hasn't had it since.
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I've heard of this problem before, can't remember the condoms she used though was told at the time. |
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One thing that really gets my back up is people iv came across who have Safe Sex listed as an interest and claim on there profile that they only have Safe Sex but when you actually get speaking to them about it they admit that they will go bare with a girl if they 'look ok', to which I reply 'sorry I don't meet with people who admit to bareback, it puts me more at risk from your previous partners and how do you tell the difference between someone with HIV and someone without? You dont!!!'
The ignorance of some people drives me crackers! People's ignorance is the reason diseases and infections are on the rise in this country!  |
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol
As long as you practice safe sex it
shouldn't matter what anyone else does. Obviously if they jab it in you bare
then you can complain.
I had a meet the other week and as I took a condom out she said "I won't
get pregnant I've had the implant"
To which I replied "oh... Does your implant stop aids?"
Needless to say I carried on making my little fella in to a bank robber..."
I'm surprised you got to play at all after that remark. I certainly think there's more tactful ways to bring up safe sex lol. Good on you though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol"
Could be husband and wife. |
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I met up with someone, wore a condom and she rode me actively cowgirl style. After twenty mins or so,I was about to cum and I decided to just check it was still in place. Nope. It had slipped off (first time that has ever happened to me). I eventually found it up near her cervix. Slipped another one on and carried on to completion.
No idea how long it had been off for. Genuinely! First time I've ever had to wear two condoms for the one f*ck... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would hazard a guess that the non condoms pics are husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend, as only a complete idiot would risk bareback sex with a stranger. "
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well this thread is totally anti bareback isnt it?
alot of "wow i cant believe the ignorance" and such like.
its all about risk assessment, bareback sex discussions will keep going till the cows come home.
How many of you who are anti bareback put a rubber on for oral sex? nope didnt think so (very few i would guess) yet someone on this thread has already said they caught an std from a tongue piercing. So the ones who are calling others ignorant but dont rubber up for oral are the ignorant ones in my opinion.
Do we do bareback? with couples yes, with singles deffinately not, but thats our choice and risk assessment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How many of you who are anti bareback put a rubber on for oral sex? nope didnt think so (very few i would guess) yet someone on this thread has already said they caught an std from a tongue piercing. So the ones who are calling others ignorant but dont rubber up for oral are the ignorant ones in my opinion.
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The historic argument for the case of not doing so is that it is of lesser risk. Personally I'm having none of that... as the safest sex is no sex at all... and more chances of hell freezing over than abstention for me 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One thing that really gets my back up is people iv came across who have Safe Sex listed as an interest and claim on there profile that they only have Safe Sex but when you actually get speaking to them about it they admit that they will go bare with a girl if they 'look ok', to which I reply 'sorry I don't meet with people who admit to bareback, it puts me more at risk from your previous partners and how do you tell the difference between someone with HIV and someone without? You dont!!!'
The ignorance of some people drives me crackers! People's ignorance is the reason diseases and infections are on the rise in this country! "
We go bare when we want to. It's nothing to do with ignorance because we are both very clued up on sexual health and get checked often. But we do like to have me filled before master then fucks me.
But funny anyone we have ever done it with tends to state safe sex across their profile. We however don't. I never have used one for oral either and last month alone had over 60 cum loads in my mouth.
Yes we play high stakes but it's something we do not do without knowing the risks. However neither have caught anything so far. We don't think we are immune. Just do what is right for us.
We also don't play with others after a bare session till we have had the all clear.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol
As long as you practice safe sex it shouldn't matter what anyone else does. Obviously if they jab it in you bare then you can complain.
I had a meet the other week and as I took a condom out she said "I won't get pregnant I've had the implant"
To which I replied "oh... Does your implant stop aids?"
Needless to say I carried on making my little fella in to a bank robber..."
Ooooo so you cut eye holes for him?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol
As long as you practice safe sex it shouldn't matter what anyone else does. Obviously if they jab it in you bare then you can complain.
I had a meet the other week and as I took a condom out she said "I won't get pregnant I've had the implant"
To which I replied "oh... Does your implant stop aids?"
Needless to say I carried on making my little fella in to a bank robber...
Ooooo so you cut eye holes for him?! "
stripey condoms and a little mask
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"One thing that really gets my back up is people iv came across who have Safe Sex listed as an interest and claim on there profile that they only have Safe Sex but when you actually get speaking to them about it they admit that they will go bare with a girl if they 'look ok', to which I reply 'sorry I don't meet with people who admit to bareback, it puts me more at risk from your previous partners and how do you tell the difference between someone with HIV and someone without? You dont!!!'
The ignorance of some people drives me crackers! People's ignorance is the reason diseases and infections are on the rise in this country!
We go bare when we want to. It's nothing to do with ignorance because we are both very clued up on sexual health and get checked often. But we do like to have me filled before master then fucks me.
But funny anyone we have ever done it with tends to state safe sex across their profile. We however don't. I never have used one for oral either and last month alone had over 60 cum loads in my mouth.
Yes we play high stakes but it's something we do not do without knowing the risks. However neither have caught anything so far. We don't think we are immune. Just do what is right for us.
We also don't play with others after a bare session till we have had the all clear.
Cali"
Cali, I did not mean everyone that's why I said the ignorance of some people, I did not mean all. Couples and singles like yourself I respect because your open about it and let people know that you do do bareback sessions, giving them the choice if they then want to play. it's mainly the single males iv had messages from who claim not to do it but then when questioned they will only then admit that they have and would.
I appreciate some people will take the risk but I have battled with myself and I am just not one of those people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ta for the comments and all those ppl who privately mailed lol. I was just interested cos pics are bare and not hubbies etc., on quite a few i know they aint. But hey ho each to their own. I safe, ten condoms etc., or I just say NO TA  |
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A year or so ago I was chatting with a couple for a while (not on Fab) and they invited me to a party at theirs one evening...and said in the invite that it was bareback. Well, for me that put the end to that...no way I'm going down the bareback route. I emailed them, thanked them for the invite but explained that I just didn't do bareback. Got quite a snotty email back making all sort of accusations about me being "superior" and claiming that I was accusing them of being "dirty"! There were soooo many responses I could have made, but I just let it go... |
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"well this thread is totally anti bareback isnt it?
alot of "wow i cant believe the ignorance" and such like.
its all about risk assessment, bareback sex discussions will keep going till the cows come home.
How many of you who are anti bareback put a rubber on for oral sex? nope didnt think so (very few i would guess) yet someone on this thread has already said they caught an std from a tongue piercing. So the ones who are calling others ignorant but dont rubber up for oral are the ignorant ones in my opinion.
Do we do bareback? with couples yes, with singles deffinately not, but thats our choice and risk assessment."
It wasn't an STD... it was thrush. A bacterial infection. And she gave it to me, the female half of the couple via oral sex. Probably completely unaware the bacteria was/is living in her piercing.
I don't think this is particularly anti-bareback. I've seen worse. It's our personal choice to use protection, just as it's yours not to. There are plenty of couples in each camp.
I think the OP was referring to the hypocrisy of some couples who say they only practise safe sex when there are plenty of photos to the contrary. |
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"A friend of mine recently discovered that the cause of her persistent bv was some condoms. She only found out cos I was boasting about where ti get cheap ones. She switched to that variety and hasn't had it since.
I've heard of this problem before, can't remember the condoms she used though was told at the time."
Suzie has a problem with durex, they always upset her ph, but mates and pasante are fine. must be the spermicide or lube that durex use that arent compatible with her. |
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"I have read forums over the years about bareback versus anti bareback and most people say Oh I would never go bareback on a swingers site which makes sense well to me it does anyway But then when you look at a lot of the pics on the site I dont see a condom very much on a willy lol
Could be husband and wife."
we have pics on our profile that show a couple playing without a condom. Its me n sue, anyone else cmes within a foot of her they must be rubbered up! |
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"well this thread is totally anti bareback isnt it?
alot of "wow i cant believe the ignorance" and such like.
its all about risk assessment, bareback sex discussions will keep going till the cows come home.
How many of you who are anti bareback put a rubber on for oral sex? nope didnt think so (very few i would guess) yet someone on this thread has already said they caught an std from a tongue piercing. So the ones who are calling others ignorant but dont rubber up for oral are the ignorant ones in my opinion.
Do we do bareback? with couples yes, with singles deffinately not, but thats our choice and risk assessment."
Well put, weve noticed to how many experts there seem to be when this tread runs, as you say do your own risk assesement and make your own choices. |
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"A friend of mine recently discovered that the cause of her persistent bv was some condoms. She only found out cos I was boasting about where ti get cheap ones. She switched to that variety and hasn't had it since.
I've heard of this problem before, can't remember the condoms she used though was told at the time.
Suzie has a problem with durex, they always upset her ph, but mates and pasante are fine. must be the spermicide or lube that durex use that arent compatible with her."
Durex do use different spermicide than others, used to work for them and they had alot of problems with this. think being the biggest brand on sale obviously have this problem, also there is alot of people who are alergic to the rubber as well.
Trojan are similar for problems with irritation as well.
As for bareback, its true there are alot of people who dont use condoms for oral, i have never been asked to rubber up for blowjobs!! or when i give oral to women either!! dont like femidoms its all about risk levels obviously, all i will say is penetration is reduced with condoms for transference. and do get tested regulary thats all you can do without absitance. and yes agree most bareback pics are couples with each other, as taken them myself with couples for them.
Have also when turned down Bareback meets been abused, which is good as then know they are idiots who i wouldnt want to meet anytime!! some have been fine about it and have met and used condoms when got there, always best discussing beforehand to not have any problems!! |
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"well this thread is totally anti bareback isnt it?
alot of "wow i cant believe the ignorance" and such like.
its all about risk assessment, bareback sex discussions will keep going till the cows come home.
How many of you who are anti bareback put a rubber on for oral sex? nope didnt think so (very few i would guess) yet someone on this thread has already said they caught an std from a tongue piercing. So the ones who are calling others ignorant but dont rubber up for oral are the ignorant ones in my opinion.
Do we do bareback? with couples yes, with singles deffinately not, but thats our choice and risk assessment.
Well put, weve noticed to how many experts there seem to be when this tread runs, as you say do your own risk assesement and make your own choices."
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By (user no longer on site)
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How dare you suggest that some people enjoy sex naturally and some enjoy it enrubbered. Why you are the worst sort of cad.
Its all down to peoples preference/choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In Bob Marley's own words " every man has the right to decide his own destiny ""
trouble is, with bareback you may be controlling someone else's destiny by giving them something you didn't realise you had |
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