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"Yes could name a few profiles where this is the case x" Not allowed to name and shame | |||
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"Yes could name a few profiles where this is the case x Not allowed to name and shame" I know which is why I have said I could but not given the actual profile names. Unfortunately can only go on my block list x | |||
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"Also, when they leave and return, set up a new profile, the same set of pictures are uploaded, I've seen people don't doing this and uploading as new pictures, they had on their profiles 10 years ago" Yes this happens all the time, maybe that is what it is but I pretty sure it's the same profile names as before | |||
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"Wasn't aware this was able to be done, that's why many have more than one account.so how would any of this show they are genuine if deceiving by age "Exactly, to be fair though they could have just restarted profiles but it's odd that you would change your age | |||
"Do they have verifications from their old verified account, we’ve notice quite a few people do this for what ever reasons. "Yeah the "we are back" please can you reverify us profiles where for some strange reason they are unable to photo verify because it's just the husband now? | |||
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"I can never quite work out the logic of lying about age, as you are going to look a bit of a prat if you do meet if your photos are old, and you are even older. If people don't want to meet up because of my age, that's fair enough, not every woman has a Victor Meldrew look alike, which fortunately I'm not, going through the canyons of her mind as she climaxes. However, I have said on my status before now, I could be the man of your dreams, or your worst nightmare, but without messaging, always the enigmatic man of mystery. That brought in some positive messages from people who I couldn't contact because of their age settings, but once they messaged me, could respond to them, and we got on great. So it seems to me that it's not about age, but how you present yourself. " It's happened to me quite a few times face pics from years ago but added here recently, look nothing like they do now. After the 2nd time it happened I just said hello and goodbye, left, reported as time wasters then blocked | |||
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"I thought this site doesn't adjust your age like other sites do when you have a birthday. Was messaged by someone who is 18 but has been on here for over a year. " I think it does? When I turned 28 it definitely changed, I didn’t need to do anything. | |||
"Also, when they leave and return, set up a new profile, the same set of pictures are uploaded, I've seen people don't doing this and uploading as new pictures, they had on their profiles 10 years ago" My comment has nothing to do with the topic but "hiding from cock pics." Had me rolling ! Lmao | |||
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"I went to meet a woman who said she was 48 x when i met her she was honestly about 70x i told her that i was getting the fraud squad to her lol . "Omg you made me spit my tea out ! Lmao | |||
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so now it’s accurate albeit a few weeks as I do t like listing actual DOB for security reasons | |||
"we look for good sex not the age." so if someone lied to you and turned up looking nothing like his pic and older you would carry on for the good sex ? | |||
"There’s a hell of a lot of profiles that do this. It’s funny because it’s so obvious. But god forbid they were fooled into meeting someone who was 10 or so years older than they actually were. " That's why I only whatsapp video call now before a meet, when you start out on fab you trust that people are who they say but with experience you know never to believe everything you see until it's live and unfiltered. | |||
"I can never quite work out the logic of lying about age, as you are going to look a bit of a prat if you do meet if your photos are old, and you are even older. If people don't want to meet up because of my age, that's fair enough, not every woman has a Victor Meldrew look alike, which fortunately I'm not, going through the canyons of her mind as she climaxes. However, I have said on my status before now, I could be the man of your dreams, or your worst nightmare, but without messaging, always the enigmatic man of mystery. That brought in some positive messages from people who I couldn't contact because of their age settings, but once they messaged me, could respond to them, and we got on great. So it seems to me that it's not about age, but how you present yourself. It's happened to me quite a few times face pics from years ago but added here recently, look nothing like they do now. After the 2nd time it happened I just said hello and goodbye, left, reported as time wasters then blocked " Hi Suzie, as you can see I've read your profile before responding and so know your name, as well now being acutely aware that you only meet with your husband present, unlike so many forum people who shoot from the hip, without taking any notice of profile content, or verifications which say more about a person, than they ever could say about themselves, before making a response. Without sounding patronising, on reading your profile, and appreciating how fabulous you must look on the dance floor as an experienced professional, as well looking absolutely fantastic in your photos, and therefore quite likely to light up the room wherever you go, it's hardly surprising that some will go to any lengths to make your acquaintance, including lying about their age. Best regards, and enjoy the game of life, wish I was in your age criteria! Dave. | |||
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"I can never quite work out the logic of lying about age, as you are going to look a bit of a prat if you do meet if your photos are old, and you are even older. If people don't want to meet up because of my age, that's fair enough, not every woman has a Victor Meldrew look alike, which fortunately I'm not, going through the canyons of her mind as she climaxes. However, I have said on my status before now, I could be the man of your dreams, or your worst nightmare, but without messaging, always the enigmatic man of mystery. That brought in some positive messages from people who I couldn't contact because of their age settings, but once they messaged me, could respond to them, and we got on great. So it seems to me that it's not about age, but how you present yourself. It's happened to me quite a few times face pics from years ago but added here recently, look nothing like they do now. After the 2nd time it happened I just said hello and goodbye, left, reported as time wasters then blocked Hi Suzie, as you can see I've read your profile before responding and so know your name, as well now being acutely aware that you only meet with your husband present, unlike so many forum people who shoot from the hip, without taking any notice of profile content, or verifications which say more about a person, than they ever could say about themselves, before making a response. Without sounding patronising, on reading your profile, and appreciating how fabulous you must look on the dance floor as an experienced professional, as well looking absolutely fantastic in your photos, and therefore quite likely to light up the room wherever you go, it's hardly surprising that some will go to any lengths to make your acquaintance, including lying about their age. Best regards, and enjoy the game of life, wish I was in your age criteria! Dave." Congratulations Dave i think you may be the first person who has actually read it! | |||
"I'm guilty of changing my age,but by only one year so I could message a couple that I liked the look of. Didn't do me any good though as my message got deleted with no reply." Which proves lying about it is pointless. | |||
"The thing is that the age range is really only a guideline. I say that because when you meet someone at a club they don't ask you how old you are before playing with you and lots of people either look older or younger than their age anyway." It’s a guideline for some, sure. For some of us it’s a dealbreaker. I don’t frequent clubs, but if I did I’d be making conversation and age would come into it. | |||
"There’s a hell of a lot of profiles that do this. It’s funny because it’s so obvious. But god forbid they were fooled into meeting someone who was 10 or so years older than they actually were. That's why I only whatsapp video call now before a meet, when you start out on fab you trust that people are who they say but with experience you know never to believe everything you see until it's live and unfiltered. " Absolutely. I’d say a hell of a lot lie about their age on here even if it’s only a year or two, I just think if you can lie about a year or two (which is small) you can lie about anything, and that puts me off. | |||
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"I think people worry about this sort of thing too much. I never believe the age/s on profiles, but I also don’t really care. I either like the look / sound of the profile or I don’t. If I do, then I look for recent verifications - if the verifications are there and recent, then that suggests the pictures are a true representation of who the person/people are. At the end of the day, that’s what matters to me. Not here to police how others conduct their fabbing. M"  | |||
"The thing is that the age range is really only a guideline. I say that because when you meet someone at a club they don't ask you how old you are before playing with you and lots of people either look older or younger than their age anyway. It’s a guideline for some, sure. For some of us it’s a dealbreaker. I don’t frequent clubs, but if I did I’d be making conversation and age would come into it. "That's interesting to know, thanks for the clarification. For me it's all about the person. I play with women of different ages and sizes. If I connect with them as people that's what matters to me. | |||
"The thing is that the age range is really only a guideline. I say that because when you meet someone at a club they don't ask you how old you are before playing with you and lots of people either look older or younger than their age anyway. It’s a guideline for some, sure. For some of us it’s a dealbreaker. I don’t frequent clubs, but if I did I’d be making conversation and age would come into it.
That's interesting to know, thanks for the clarification.
For me it's all about the person. I play with women of different ages and sizes. If I connect with them as people that's what matters to me."That’s the beauty of humans, we are all different! And what we are attracted to varies! I’m not interested in men of a certain age, I have pretty much always been like that for as long as I can remember. I can connect with people of all ages on a platonic basis though. | |||
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" That’s the beauty of humans, we are all different! And what we are attracted to varies! I’m not interested in men of a certain age, I have pretty much always been like that for as long as I can remember. I can connect with people of all ages on a platonic basis though. " I love the diversity in our community. The three ladies I play with regularly all have different personalities and physical needs. I adapt our play according to the wishes of the people I'm playing with. And of course, those first meetings when you're seeking out the 'sweet spots' are incredibly exciting! | |||
"we took our photos of as we didnt want to inflict anyone with pictures of pensioners " I'm not far off being a pensioner, don't act or look my age though. You're welcome to inflict your pictures on me. | |||
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"Age is a state of mind,I don't feel or act my age at all,does it really matter? Is it so important,to set age limits? Just asking for opinions,don't beat me lol." Yes it is that important for me, and for some on here. | |||
But truthfully I am 73 this month  | |||
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