Even getting turned down by women in their 70’s
Is my profile so awful?
You would think there would be at lease one woman out there, half blind and with dementia on-set that would accidentally agree to have sex with me....even if only for a moment until she gets some self control back... but nope!
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"Even getting turned down by women in their 70’s
Is my profile so awful?
You would think there would be at lease one woman out there, half blind and with dementia on-set that would accidentally agree to have sex with me....even if only for a moment until she gets some self control back... but nope!
Anyone else out there as frustrated as me?"
Don't be silly, your pics are nice, you dress smartly. Maybe add abit more info on your profile, in all honesty, if someone messages me that hasn't really written much its a no go straight away. Women like to find out more before they delve in. Good luck. |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?"
Is it not obvious? You've got 2 very similar pictures and only 2 very basic lines on your bio.
It pretty tough on here for single guys so you've got to put a hell of a lot more effort into your profile than you have to even standc an ounce of a chance. Remember that guys probably out number women on here 100-1 so you've really got to try and stand out.
There are plenty of threads on the forums that will have advice about improving your profile.
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?"
It's a bit bare isn't it?
Read your own profile and think if it would attract you if you were a woman.
How does it make you stand out from anyone else?
What sells you to others and makes them think, yes, this is a guy I want to meet?
Is there any hint of your personality in there?
Start taking a look at other guys profiles who have verifications, and compare yours with theirs and see if you can figure out why. No one else is better than you, they just know how to sell themselves better. |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?
Is it not obvious? You've got 2 very similar pictures and only 2 very basic lines on your bio.
It pretty tough on here for single guys so you've got to put a hell of a lot more effort into your profile than you have to even standc an ounce of a chance. Remember that guys probably out number women on here 100-1 so you've really got to try and stand out.
There are plenty of threads on the forums that will have advice about improving your profile.
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I’ve changed my profile many times according to advice given on here. Each iteration gets the same response. It’s too long it’s too short. Have a cock pic don’t have a cock pic.
Driving me nuts trying to get it ‘correct’. |
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OP, just because they are in their 70-ties, it doesn't mean they don't have standards. From your profile, you give very little away about how you look like, what you are after and, most importantly, what you can offer that others can't.
You can accommodate but you cannot travel- usually, a woman would be rather wary of going into a stranger's place. |
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"OP, just because they are in their 70-ties, it doesn't mean they don't have standards. From your profile, you give very little away about how you look like, what you are after and, most importantly, what you can offer that others can't.
You can accommodate but you cannot travel- usually, a woman would be rather wary of going into a stranger's place. "
I can travel but someone else said women do not like strangers coming to there homes! |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?
Is it not obvious? You've got 2 very similar pictures and only 2 very basic lines on your bio.
It pretty tough on here for single guys so you've got to put a hell of a lot more effort into your profile than you have to even standc an ounce of a chance. Remember that guys probably out number women on here 100-1 so you've really got to try and stand out.
There are plenty of threads on the forums that will have advice about improving your profile.
I’ve changed my profile many times according to advice given on here. Each iteration gets the same response. It’s too long it’s too short. Have a cock pic don’t have a cock pic.
Driving me nuts trying to get it ‘correct’. "
There isn't a 'correct'.
Don't follow what everyone says blindly, as everyone has different opinions.
All they are doing is giving you suggestions, you have to do what is right for 'you', which is why I'm encouraging you to look at it from someone else's point of view and see if it would attract you.
If not, think about what people suggested and think if any of that would help. |
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"OP, just because they are in their 70-ties, it doesn't mean they don't have standards. From your profile, you give very little away about how you look like, what you are after and, most importantly, what you can offer that others can't.
You can accommodate but you cannot travel- usually, a woman would be rather wary of going into a stranger's place.
I can travel but someone else said women do not like strangers coming to there homes!"
If you can travel, say you can travel!
Just because you can doesn't mean they will want you to. You discuss that after you start chatting.
You could also travel to a club, or hotel. It doesn't have to be to their home. |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?
Is it not obvious? You've got 2 very similar pictures and only 2 very basic lines on your bio.
It pretty tough on here for single guys so you've got to put a hell of a lot more effort into your profile than you have to even standc an ounce of a chance. Remember that guys probably out number women on here 100-1 so you've really got to try and stand out.
There are plenty of threads on the forums that will have advice about improving your profile.
I’ve changed my profile many times according to advice given on here. Each iteration gets the same response. It’s too long it’s too short. Have a cock pic don’t have a cock pic.
Driving me nuts trying to get it ‘correct’.
There isn't a 'correct'.
Don't follow what everyone says blindly, as everyone has different opinions.
All they are doing is giving you suggestions, you have to do what is right for 'you', which is why I'm encouraging you to look at it from someone else's point of view and see if it would attract you.
If not, think about what people suggested and think if any of that would help. "
Maybe this is the whole issue. Writing it not as himself but as he thinks people want it written. Never a good formula |
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" I'm encouraging you to look at it from someone else's point of view and see if it would attract you. "
It would attract me actually. Very direct and clear.
Easy and to the point.
But I do see that is not what a lot of others might like. I also admit I am more private looking for a fwb than an all out swinger.
So really lack of replies just mean not so many people like me on here.
It might even be a good thing.... go me ....yay
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?"
Would you really want to meet a 99 year old?
Your bio tells me nothing about you, what your into, what you could offer someone, what makes you different to the other 100 guys on here
Your profile is your shop window a place to sell yourself & yours says nothing, add to that you haven't been verified (maybe not your fault but you could try a club or a local social) which means we can't even say for definite you'd turn up if a meet was confirmed
Add a few more photos, write a bit more in your bio, visit your local club & fingers crossed you'll start having more success
Oh & the 'not even a 70yr old will meet me 'smacks of any holes a goal I'll f*ck anything', which I'm guessing isn't the message you want to be putting out |
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"Even getting turned down by women in their 70’s
Is my profile so awful?
You would think there would be at lease one woman out there, half blind and with dementia on-set that would accidentally agree to have sex with me....even if only for a moment until she gets some self control back... but nope!
Anyone else out there as frustrated as me?"
She had a choice of two guys - she picked the one who was youngest with better legs  |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?
Is it not obvious? You've got 2 very similar pictures and only 2 very basic lines on your bio.
It pretty tough on here for single guys so you've got to put a hell of a lot more effort into your profile than you have to even standc an ounce of a chance. Remember that guys probably out number women on here 100-1 so you've really got to try and stand out.
There are plenty of threads on the forums that will have advice about improving your profile.
I’ve changed my profile many times according to advice given on here. Each iteration gets the same response. It’s too long it’s too short. Have a cock pic don’t have a cock pic.
Driving me nuts trying to get it ‘correct’. "
Well as it is, we aren't surprised you are getting replies.
Maybe it's to do with the sort of messages you send? |
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only you know you so only you can write your profile unless you ask for advice and end up with a boring profile like many of the other who's asked for profile advice they all look samey sit down and think about you and what you want ...
dont forget its a lifestyle site not a sex on a plate site and you have competition from a zillion other men like you...... |
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Just because she’s 70, it doesn’t mean she can’t have standards, that’s not a great attitude.
Your profile is really bare, I wouldn’t even read your message. |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
add to that you haven't been verified
Been verified. Borrow my glasses?
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Unfortunately as you've chosen not to show your verification summary to many the green tick will simply be dismissed
I use Veri's to see if the person is genuine, turns up as planned not just here for the chase like many users, if a veri is a cam veri it's pointless to me for the above reasons, as is an unknown veri like yours unfortunately
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
add to that you haven't been verified
Been verified. Borrow my glasses?
Unfortunately as you've chosen not to show your verification summary to many the green tick will simply be dismissed
I use Veri's to see if the person is genuine, turns up as planned not just here for the chase like many users, if a veri is a cam veri it's pointless to me for the above reasons, as is an unknown veri like yours unfortunately
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This, cam veris mean nothing |
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"Maybe she realised you were acting desperate?
No woman wants to feel like a desperation shag.
Are you ok after the zip pic? (Sorry op!)"
Only hurts when I get aroused, so your profile really doesn't help!  |
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" I'm encouraging you to look at it from someone else's point of view and see if it would attract you.
It would attract me actually. Very direct and clear.
Easy and to the point.
But I do see that is not what a lot of others might like. I also admit I am more private looking for a fwb than an all out swinger.
So really lack of replies just mean not so many people like me on here.
It might even be a good thing.... go me ....yay
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Really? So if you picked 10 random forum users profiles, yours is the one that would stand out and attract you?
What you say in it could have been said by anyone. It may as well be blank tbh.
I wouldn't buy a book that just said "Plenty of pages. A good read" on the back, people need more than that to get any interest. |
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" I'm encouraging you to look at it from someone else's point of view and see if it would attract you.
It would attract me actually. Very direct and clear.
Easy and to the point.
But I do see that is not what a lot of others might like. I also admit I am more private looking for a fwb than an all out swinger.
So really lack of replies just mean not so many people like me on here.
It might even be a good thing.... go me ....yay
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"also admit I am more private looking for a fwb than an all out swinger."
Then say something about that! That in itself says more about you than your actual profile. |
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"Yes, your profile is a bit crap.
You asked and we are being honest.
In what way?
Is it not obvious? You've got 2 very similar pictures and only 2 very basic lines on your bio.
It pretty tough on here for single guys so you've got to put a hell of a lot more effort into your profile than you have to even standc an ounce of a chance. Remember that guys probably out number women on here 100-1 so you've really got to try and stand out.
There are plenty of threads on the forums that will have advice about improving your profile.
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this is spot on.
You have to sell yourself.
In business speak, yes i know yawn! You have to have your elevator pitch, a 20 second chance to grab their attention.
Its also your 1st and only chance of making a first impression, get it wrong and in most cases you're history for the recipient of your patter.
If your username has anything akin to porn or text speak, crude or aggressive tones, you will alienate people (you might attract some to tbf)
Stand out for the right right reasons and get to socials or clubs and get verified and your stock will rise. |
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"Even getting turned down by women in their 70’s
Is my profile so awful?
You would think there would be at lease one woman out there, half blind and with dementia on-set that would accidentally agree to have sex with me....even if only for a moment until she gets some self control back... but nope!
Anyone else out there as frustrated as me?"
you talk as if a woman in their 70s should be desperate. |
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"Even getting turned down by women in their 70’s
Is my profile so awful?"
That's an aweful thing to say, does 70 mean desperate, I don't think so ?
It may or may not be your profile but more your attitude to expect sex from someone because of their age |
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Thanks for everyone's input. Appreciated.
I think a big thing for me is that I do not want to be in 'competition' with a hundred other guys. What an awful feeling.
Nor do I wish to meet a women on those therms, equally as awful, but I am grateful that I better understand what is happening. Why would anyone want to meet a women who picks through tons of men in such a way?
I am just going to have to accept I am not an actual swinger. That there are not many woman on here who are looking for the same thing as me. And that it is for that reason I will not get many replies.
I can live with that. I may even tweak my profile accordingly.
As mentioned really I am looking for a FWB.
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"Thanks for everyone's input. Appreciated.
I think a big thing for me is that I do not want to be in 'competition' with a hundred other guys. What an awful feeling.
Nor do I wish to meet a women on those therms, equally as awful, but I am grateful that I better understand what is happening. Why would anyone want to meet a women who picks through tons of men in such a way?
I am just going to have to accept I am not an actual swinger. That there are not many woman on here who are looking for the same thing as me. And that it is for that reason I will not get many replies.
I can live with that. I may even tweak my profile accordingly.
As mentioned really I am looking for a FWB.
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If you had 100s (or even 10s) of woman message you, would you sleep with them all, or would you look through them and choose the one or ones that appeal to you most? You can't expect women not to do that.
It's not a competition as such, but you do need to make yourself stand out. No one is going to meet up with you just for the sake of it. Why would they?
There are many, many women on here who also aren't 'swingers'
You keep saying you aren't a swinger and you are looking for a FWB, but your profile still doesn't say that or anything else that you are looking for or what you can offer, so how do you expect to get replies from like minded women. No one has any clue about you.
If you want results, make an effort. |
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"Even getting turned down by women in their 70’s
Is my profile so awful?
You would think there would be at lease one woman out there, half blind and with dementia on-set that would accidentally agree to have sex with me....even if only for a moment until she gets some self control back... but nope!
Anyone else out there as frustrated as me?"
op your profile is pants… sorry but you asked |
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Your profile states nothing about what you like to do sexually, ie threesomes, group etc (there are boxes you can tick so these show up) also can you travel/accommodate? Ultimately run your profile how you wish but currently doesn’t say anything about you, perhaps go to clubs and meet people that way then they could also verify you which would help |
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Try adding a bit more about yourself, more pics etc… just bare in mind there are plenty of people who would go nahhh, just based on you wanting to shag a 70 year old. 