So we are trying to find seperate people to play with. It's quite hard as the women think it's just hubby pretending he has my permission to play and that I don't exist. Getting a guy is somewhat easier 
I know I need to add this new request to our profile but does anyone have any tips on securing a his and hers night?
Any experiences you wanna share? |
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"So we are trying to find seperate people to play with. It's quite hard as the women think it's just hubby pretending he has my permission to play and that I don't exist. Getting a guy is somewhat easier
I know I need to add this new request to our profile but does anyone have any tips on securing a his and hers night?
Any experiences you wanna share? "
We also have our own separate accounts which helps distinguish that we also play on our own. All profiles mention our couples and separate accounts. Maybe you can both try this? |
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"So we are trying to find seperate people to play with. It's quite hard as the women think it's just hubby pretending he has my permission to play and that I don't exist. Getting a guy is somewhat easier
I know I need to add this new request to our profile but does anyone have any tips on securing a his and hers night?
Any experiences you wanna share? "
When I was with my ex wife we always struggled to get another women for me. It eventually got me down and we needed up just having threeseomes with men all the time. I’ve since learnt tinder is the at forward! Since being single I’ve had loads of offers via tinder!
But clubs might be the way forward as well, we went to xtasia a lot. |
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"So we are trying to find seperate people to play with. It's quite hard as the women think it's just hubby pretending he has my permission to play and that I don't exist. Getting a guy is somewhat easier
I know I need to add this new request to our profile but does anyone have any tips on securing a his and hers night?
Any experiences you wanna share? "
I would love to play but alas I never get picked |
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"We are having the same issue  even getting a f to join us both is becoming a nightmare and I feel a little bad always being able to get a m to join us!
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Me too! X I feel bad for hub as he's so lovely and it seems they get lumped with all the single guys who are just on here cus they failed on tinder and don't really get the lifestyle x but then I also understand that not many single women may want to play with married men x it's hard work sometimes lol x |
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We've been having solo meets for a few years now. If we wanted to she could have at least one wvey day but a solo meet for the male is almost impossible. The key could be to try and find another couple where they both play separately too and then could have the best of all worlds with play all together sometimes and sometimes play solo with each others partners. We've been looking for ages but certainly not easy. |
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"We've been having solo meets for a few years now. If we wanted to she could have at least one wvey day but a solo meet for the male is almost impossible. The key could be to try and find another couple where they both play separately too and then could have the best of all worlds with play all together sometimes and sometimes play solo with each others partners. We've been looking for ages but certainly not easy. "
It's really not is it? X we have a regular couple we see all together which is amazing to say the least and we kind of want to stay away from other couples really, partly cus we don't have time for a more time consuming 4 way conversation making sure everyone's happy and finding 4 way mutual attraction is a nightmare! I've seen so many profiles where I only like 1 half of the couple and vice versa for hub x thought playing with "singles" would better suit our dynamic and free time x does that sound bad? I hope it doesn't x
Alas the search continues.... X |
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