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i had once met someone, that almost into everything... sadly it never worked out, i would love to meet someone who would be interested in all this, but how do you bring that conversation up to someone who isn't in to it. |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a couple how did you both know you wanted to be a swinger? how did the conversation start about it all?
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We started taking photos at home for fun, watched porn and discussed having sex with other people. We eventually went to a club in Manchester and on it went. |
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Ok this all started for us after we had our first child, that is to spice things up in the bedroom I mentioned it and Mrs mischief agreed to give it a go. Our first fab outing was to a swingers club we were newbies and very nervous with the whole scene but we enjoyed it. And here we still are 7 years later , we now also meet separately as well as together as that suits the home life too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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met the right man who i feel in love with very quickly and within weeks of meeting and the way we both free talked we both knew it was going to be a very sexual journey 28 years later we are stronger than ever total love and trust in each other and still doing sexy things |
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I wanted/needed sex with ladies as I'm bisexual.
This was a great place in which to find what I was hoping for.
I found that and so much more.
We just had a very open and bluntly honest conversation, it's the only way. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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We always say it was an extension of fantasies we play out in the bedroom. As for the conversation we had mentioned it a few times and then 8 years ago we walked along the beach chatting about it and decided if we really were going to do it we wanted to do it before we got too old. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sex drive went through the roof and it'd been something I brought up in conversations now and then. He must have got sick of having sex with me so often because he finally agreed. |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
we had two relationships with girls one very long term and when that ended we tried loot ads which was the internet equivilent in the 90s
some one we contacted told us about a club near us
that wa the start of a massive adventure |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
we had been to a few clubs and parties with out me seeing her fucking and she wanted to know if i would be jealous so she picked a guy only to find he had an enormous cock she had two thrust and made her excuses and asked me if i liked it lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were discussing me having a high sex drive joined a random site ended up at their annual social 5 days later...site was rubbish but kept the swinging  |
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Stumbled onto a nudist beach in Lanzarote and got chatting to a couple who seemed so comfortable naked.
From there just chatted and chatted about visiting a swingers club.
Cupids in Manchester was the first place, absolutely terrified but so excited.
The rest, as they say, is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We didn't even know such a thing existed. We both were looking for some "sexy fun" in a holiday and came across a swingers resort in Spain. Started looking into it more and we both really liked the freedom of such a holiday and one thing led to another and we now frequent clubs regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh the days of yahoo ... excite .... aol chat groups way before any of the big sites them were the golden days of swinging and dogging ... no bullshit back then just fun |
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We've always had kink in our relationship (20 years together and counting)
One day S told me his biggest fantasy... And we took it from there. First bedroom talk. Then me sending him videos of me with my toys. Then pretending to meet. To eventually meeting other men. I love it. He loves it.. The ultimate fantasy still hasn't been fulfilled but it will be one day. And we're having loads of fun along the way.
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"if a single guy comes to a swingers night is it frowned upon or are they are they welcome, got to be honest i just want to go to see what its like
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Yes single guys are very welcome, just be sociable and respectful and don't go with an expectation of play. Treat it as a night out to get to know people, if play happens then it's a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've always had kink in our relationship (20 years together and counting)
One day S told me his biggest fantasy... And we took it from there. First bedroom talk. Then me sending him videos of me with my toys. Then pretending to meet. To eventually meeting other men. I love it. He loves it.. The ultimate fantasy still hasn't been fulfilled but it will be one day. And we're having loads of fun along the way.
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What’s the ultimate fantasy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what was your thought when he said that to you though? must be weird to hear"
Was strange yes. Didn’t believe he would actually enjoy it and all this swinging started out as a joke to start with as I said no one would be interested in coming to fuck me anyway.
Men did want to. Hubby does like it and I love putting on a show for him.
Don’t think there is any going back now. |
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