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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a way off 50 yet but when looking for single guys we tend to prefer younger. Everyone has their preferences. Just enjoy."
Yes that’s true. I think my preference is women older than me because a few of my ex’s have been around 10 years older… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely not rare - both ways (older women looking for younger and younger looking for older) - Fab, it’s where dreams come true lol lol"
Maybe I’ve not given it enough time yet haha… |
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Nope. When I was a young chap I used to love carrying on with older married women. Had a few on the go all the time. They seem to appreciate s good hard young cock in ‘em. I stick get a kick out of shagging a married woman, just don’t get the time or chance as often. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare
Can certainly see why! 
It does nothing for me though unfortunately."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare
Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time."
Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!
Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a way off 50 yet but when looking for single guys we tend to prefer younger. Everyone has their preferences. Just enjoy."
Balls… that counts me out then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare
Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.
Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!
Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz"
You do have a very specific age range, I must say. Don’t think I’ve seen one so narrow before |
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"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare
Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.
Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!
Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz"
You have a point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare
Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.
Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!
Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz
You do have a very specific age range, I must say. Don’t think I’ve seen one so narrow before "
Exactly! But still I have 25 year olds messaging! I couldn’t be more specific but it’s ignored mostly anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare
Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.
Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!
Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz
You do have a very specific age range, I must say. Don’t think I’ve seen one so narrow before
Exactly! But still I have 25 year olds messaging! I couldn’t be more specific but it’s ignored mostly anyway "
It’s perked me up to be honest. It’s not often that at 42 years old, I’m too young for someone! Even though you do look bloody gorgeous. Double edged sword I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me. "
Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.
Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?"
Tend to connect with guys in their late 30s and early/mid 40s. I allow some leeway ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.
Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?
Tend to connect with guys in their late 30s and early/mid 40s. I allow some leeway ??"
Leeway towards late 20’s maybe ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.
Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?
Tend to connect with guys in their late 30s and early/mid 40s. I allow some leeway ??
Leeway towards late 20’s maybe ? "
Tried it. Doesn't work for what I am looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brings back memeories of when I were a cocky 19 year old printer and used to meet one of the ladies in thr bindery for fun. She was 42 and taught me loads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course."
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways. "
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested 
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I think you can see from this thread that lots of older women are receptive to younger men. Why do you feel they wouldn't be interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X"
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant. "
Yep, age is just a number.
Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.
Yep, age is just a number.
Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable! "
Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.
Yep, age is just a number.
Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!
Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me "
Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York? |
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I used to meet younger guys quite often but post lockdown I’ve found many I’ve chatted to are fantasists and totally unreliable when it comes to actually meeting.
For that reason - and because I go for a mental as well as a physical connection - I now tend to meet a few regular friends around my own age. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.
Yep, age is just a number.
Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!
Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me
Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?"
 about an hour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.
Yep, age is just a number.
Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!
Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me
Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?
about an hour"
Not too far then…! 
I would message but you have restrictions on who can message…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!
Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.
Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.
I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.
Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X
It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.
Yep, age is just a number.
Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!
Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me
Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?
about an hour
Not too far then…!
I would message but you have restrictions on who can message… "
Strange. I've messaged so you can ask me to teach you stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested
I think you can see from this thread that lots of older women are receptive to younger men. Why do you feel they wouldn't be interested?"
I tend to be seen as "cute" rather than "handsome". I got ID trying to buy booze yesterday and I'm 38?!?
I just have one of those faces that will probably help me when I'm REALLY old.
I've just never felt like the type an older woman would be interested in. Personal thing, I get that older women like younger guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested
I think you can see from this thread that lots of older women are receptive to younger men. Why do you feel they wouldn't be interested?
I tend to be seen as "cute" rather than "handsome". I got ID trying to buy booze yesterday and I'm 38?!?
I just have one of those faces that will probably help me when I'm REALLY old.
I've just never felt like the type an older woman would be interested in. Personal thing, I get that older women like younger guys."
I don't think you can know unless you ask. You're making assumptions about what women will find attractive. I remember the first time a guy in his 30s came onto me and I was . Aged 48 atm. I just assumed I wasn't attractive to younger men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to meet younger guys quite often but post lockdown I’ve found many I’ve chatted to are fantasists and totally unreliable when it comes to actually meeting.
For that reason - and because I go for a mental as well as a physical connection - I now tend to meet a few regular friends around my own age. Xx"
That’s fair enough I guess… I suppose to some lads when it actually comes down to it it’s a bit daunting haha ! x |
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