We’ve only ever had socials with other couples but looking to try single guys
Our last attempt a few years ago resulted in us in being stood up which put us off
Any advice
Has anyone organised several socials in one evening on the off chance you do get stood up…or is that too much like speed dating!  |
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Single guys are notoriously flakey on here. Not implying they all are but with Single fellas being the predominant account type on fab, you end up with a lot of wanna be types and dreamers.
We personally don't meet single guys (not my wife's thing) but I do play separately (cuckqean couple) and we do host social events which singles guys can attend. In our years doing this, I've seen plenty of guys be no shows to things like gangbangs (which suits me just fine if I'm the only guy to turn up lol) and at our last social event I belive just 1 guy out of a potential 15 invited guys turned up.
Maybe it's just our experiance and area, maybe it's an indication of how things are on the site in general...I don't know.
So.my suggestion would be the following to fund legit guys.
1) Go to a club or a social event hosted by others and meet a guy there as fab is very flakey on that front.
2) If relying on fab, either find a guy who's well verified, is already part of a couple on fab (not a fwb couple) OR has veris from socials or clubs.
3) Avoid anyone who sends dick pics and starts with the dirty talk straight off. They're just here for a quick wank.
I'm.sure some on here will argue everyone deserves a chance, and I agree but we've been at this for 24 years and have been around the block enough times to know what sort things work and what don't.
Hope this helps.
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over a year ago
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I don't think organising multiple socials on the off chance the first person doesn't show is fair as if he does show up you have to let down the other person which would make you exactly what you don't want.... flaky |
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"Single guys are notoriously flakey on here. Not implying they all are but with Single fellas being the predominant account type on fab, you end up with a lot of wanna be types and dreamers.
We personally don't meet single guys (not my wife's thing) but I do play separately (cuckqean couple) and we do host social events which singles guys can attend. In our years doing this, I've seen plenty of guys be no shows to things like gangbangs (which suits me just fine if I'm the only guy to turn up lol) and at our last social event I belive just 1 guy out of a potential 15 invited guys turned up.
Maybe it's just our experiance and area, maybe it's an indication of how things are on the site in general...I don't know.
So.my suggestion would be the following to fund legit guys.
1) Go to a club or a social event hosted by others and meet a guy there as fab is very flakey on that front.
2) If relying on fab, either find a guy who's well verified, is already part of a couple on fab (not a fwb couple) OR has veris from socials or clubs.
3) Avoid anyone who sends dick pics and starts with the dirty talk straight off. They're just here for a quick wank.
I'm.sure some on here will argue everyone deserves a chance, and I agree but we've been at this for 24 years and have been around the block enough times to know what sort things work and what don't.
Hope this helps.
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Fills us with great confidence, thanks for the advice though |
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"I don't think organising multiple socials on the off chance the first person doesn't show is fair as if he does show up you have to let down the other person which would make you exactly what you don't want.... flaky "
Thats this issue
Unless different timings to different people  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think organising multiple socials on the off chance the first person doesn't show is fair as if he does show up you have to let down the other person which would make you exactly what you don't want.... flaky "
This exactly.And also no one wants to be plan B .
I have never been ghosted yet on here but I tend to chat for a while before I arrange a meet that approach may not work for everyone but so far it has worked for me on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily for me I've never been ghosted or stood anyone up, I'm a guy on fab so given the chance I won't fk it up. Its not like I'm tripping over messages and meetings  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've never been stood up on a social.
Select wisely, get to know through messages and hopefully you won't be disappointed.
Generally (and I am generalising) it's married guys, who are on here secretly, that are flakey due to their nature of there predicament.
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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If you've been let down repeatedly all I can think of is are you spending enough time getting to know them well enough? I would hate to have a no show, only happened once. It takes a lot of courage as single bloke to turn up to meet a couple, maybe they have not been serious enough in the first place. I can't think why if a bloke is lucky enough to get a meet he wouldn't show. |
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