I have same issue
You message a few times etc then it all stops!
I’ve been to a club once and it was good met new people chatted etc was messaging but as I’ve not been back (hard to get there due to work) the messages have stopped!
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Give it time, sometimes people are busy and other times just not in the mood…we’re new here aswell so just go with the flow and take it slow. We aim to go for a social with people we have been talking with for a few weeks, sometimes messages don’t get read or respond for days/weeks. A mental connection is just as good as a physical one. Talking freely over the phone or Skype etc will help loads too, you can connect with someone better when you can put a voice to the face etc. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"We prefer clubs as you know you are meeting genuine people. There are to many people on here that mess you around."
I get the face to face club.. But what on earth makes anyone think a random in a club is any more genuine than anyone else? It's easier because they are stood in front of you but as to a random stranger being more genuine? |
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"Our messages seem to stop once the flirting ends, is the best place to meet a club? "
100% a club. Cuts out the messing around plus the excitement of who'll you'll bump into. At the end of the day a club won't sand you up and cuts out all the effort in messaging and investing in people that may not in the end turn out right for you when you meet. When you meet face to face you know early on if its likely to be a yes or a no. If its a no you can move on easily, without obligation and keep looking. If it's a yes you in the right place to take it further. |
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"Our messages seem to stop once the flirting ends, is the best place to meet a club? "
I only meet at clubs It’s safe and secure…. Do whatever you like… if you get on with them then see each other outside clubs too |
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