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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man |
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3 weeks is nothing!
People can be here for months or years without a reply.
There are so many single men, that the women on the site are swamped.
You need to make yourself stand out from the crowd and make sure your profile and first messages are on top form.
Good luck with it, and don't be disheartened. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah incan definetly appreciate that women must get swamped. I'm guessing it's just a numbers game. Don't think I'm a bad looking chap but what's a guy to to do round here to stand out from 1000s of others haha |
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3 weeks????
Been on here 10 years and never gotten a meet directly through my single account yet.
Always got them as off shoots of couples meets or from socials.
Fabs full of single guys looking. Don't rely on it much. |
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By *andS1Couple
over a year ago
Poole |
I guess it is a catch 22 situation. We don't ever consider a profile with no verifications due to the amount off people that never show up. Just send a nice email and your halfway there. The amount of one liners, 'can I fuck your misses' emails we get is astounding. Send a nice email and youre already on top. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a matter of fact I've just sent a message to yourself. But it's understandable. I'm guessing I'm verified. I'm sure I did that at the start |
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"As a matter of fact I've just sent a message to yourself. But it's understandable. I'm guessing I'm verified. I'm sure I did that at the start "
They mean meet / cam verified by users (green dot) rather than photo verified by FAB (green flag).
If you go on the cams and ask nicely, someone might help do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I just think women are hugely outnumbered and most are very selective (totally not a bad thing). I'm a pretty less than average looking big girl and our inbox is constantly swamped to the point theres no way I can keep up replying so I dread to think what pretty skinny girls get haha, it must be never ending.
Top tips to get noticed from my point of view
Not too many dick pics, maybe one or two.
Send a face pic with first message.
Make sure you have a profile pic up.
Get photo verified.
Avoid a crude first message.
Send abit of info about you in your first message.
Good luck |
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A polite friendly message that shows you have read our profile and are genuinely interested in us (as opposed to a generic 'hi' or 'how u doing?' ) works wonders, especially if it is backed up by an interesting profile that gives us an idea of what the sender is like and are looking for.
We generally have males blocked from messaging unless we are actively looking for a male for a meet, but if a male profile catches our eye we will hotlist it to refer back to at a later date.
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As for standing out, yeah your photos seem pretty good compared to a lot on here.
You need to make sure your profile text isn't something that could easily have been written by anyone on here though, and ensure it catches your personality and what you can offer (mine isn't that great either tbh). It's your main way of selling yourself, so take plenty of time over it.
Then the final thing is that first message. Don't send cock pics, and let them know why you are messaging them. Make it personal, not as if it's a copy and paste job. |
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I have 20 veris and you are hotter than me |
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
You look like David Beckham with a big cock, you should be beating them off with a shitty stick !
Stay positive and avoid the “straight” men that want to suck your cock,
Your very welcome  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Be patient
Remember sex is always a bonus so try arranging a social and get to know someone with no expectations |
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Hi OP.
Your photos are Ok but lack variety, and some lack focus.
The text tells me very little.
If you're sociable, get to a social or club.
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The ratio of women to men on here is probably 100 to 1 so we feel guys really need to stand out if they want to be noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.yep it happens,hang on there mate,go to clubs,don't give up.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
Couple of your photos look manufactured/glazed.
Not real.
Short them out 1st.
2nd alway read a profile in full and encompass some of it in message.
I'm a average guy with a average cock.
But my profile makes those with a weired sense of humour like me laugh.
Iv had enough meets and lots do not wish to verify even after a meet or it looks like there sleeping around.
Take some of the great advice of some on here and good will come your way im sure.
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Been on 3 weeks and folks are still wary with covid,cant accomodate which always throws up a red flag whatever you say about being single. Did you expect to be inundated with messages so quickly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
I’m with you on this! totally understand how you may be feeling. I get the same responses, I feel my profile is current and not obtrusive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No not really just expected atleat some response or interezt |
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I would maybe write a bit more in your bio, likes, dislikes, ideal type of meet, something about you as a person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I can sympathise completely it is hard at First, but as others have said..
Get to a Social Event locally (If You're nervous a Single Lady might agree to escort you), go to a Local Club and talk to People, Read the Profiles and send a thought out message with a couple of references to bits in their Profile to show You've read it and finally, as stated a few times... Don't lose faith over it, it just takes time.
Good Luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick with it 
We get alot of messages from single guys and sometimes we do ignore them not because we are being rude etc but it can be overwhelming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perseverance, perseverance, perseverance.
I get meets - even at my age - it can be done
There are a lot of lovely sexy people on here |
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You’re a good looking guy, and your pictures are decent, I would have thought that if you flesh out your profile text with some stuff about you, your likes/dislikes, what you’re looking for etc and send well thought out first messages then you’ll probably start getting responses.
I know some women won’t meet unverified guys but some of us do - me included.
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You might have to wait years for a meet. I've had one in 11 years being on here,or you might get nothing after 20 years. Nothing you can do about it. You just have to hope you get in contact with that one in 100 billion girls who is on for meeting. |
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It’s the same with me buddy , I’ve been on here for about two months
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might have to wait years for a meet. I've had one in 11 years being on here,or you might get nothing after 20 years. Nothing you can do about it. You just have to hope you get in contact with that one in 100 billion girls who is on for meeting."
1 in 11 years?! Christ... you are a lot more patient than I'll ever be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do dudes still think they are gonna throw up a profile and the women will flood in?
It doesn't work like that. Everyone is looking for something different.
I suppose the word would be 'individuality' because whatever you put up, you can guarantee that some other dude has done it already.
If I'm honest, I've gained more through meeting folk off the site, made by connections on it.
It is what you make it mate. |
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By *ear17Man
over a year ago
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I’ve had the same for months but now meet a lady I now see once aweek so don’t give up change your profile no again don’t put you new I think that put them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Posting "really craving a squirter" might not help either tbh.  |
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"You might have to wait years for a meet. I've had one in 11 years being on here,or you might get nothing after 20 years. Nothing you can do about it. You just have to hope you get in contact with that one in 100 billion girls who is on for meeting.
1 in 11 years?! Christ... you are a lot more patient than I'll ever be. "
There's been loads of possibles,but they always end up letting you down. The one 6 years ago seems to be a one off. Starting to give up hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 weeks????
Been on here 10 years and never gotten a meet directly through my single account yet.
Always got them as off shoots of couples meets or from socials.
Fabs full of single guys looking. Don't rely on it much."
The last sentance say it all for me! As much fun as it is and most of the peeps are really good fun, it dont ya laid mate, enjoy it is what it is |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
After three weeks!!
Really!!!
What do you think this place is?
Instantshagdotcom?
Really, you need to manage your expectations.
The only way to get sex as quick as you want would be to pay for it.
You are a single guy, two a penny on here.
Not being offensive, but just the way it is on here.
Loads of single guys looking for free sex.
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
Just read the final bit.
You think that couples should be willing to entertain single men like you?
Priceless!! |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
. It’s hard for us single guys that can’t accommodate no matter how genuine our reasons are.I would add a bit more to your profile with regards to what you enjoy outside of Fabs as well as what you are looking to get out of Fabs.I would also advise that you have a look at the club reviews page especially for London as that is where your profile says you are based and look into membership for some clubs or those that don’t require membership then go and have a night out.Also check out the London forum as there are organised social events in the Bank area as well as Croydon.Social are a good way to make friends and connections.Best of luck with whatever you decide. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
What did you expect op. You need to put more effort in your profile. Your photos are nice but bio needs more work |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
Your pics are good, but there's not much written in your profile to make you stand out
And the 'craving a squirter' status is cringe & makes me dryer than a rich tea biscuit |
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Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
Because this site is crammed full of single guys but quite the opposite when it comes to females/couples who're willing to entertain them. It's really quite simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try chatting in the forums. They’re normally a good conversation starter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man
Just read the final bit.
You think that couples should be willing to entertain single men like you?
Priceless!!"
''Willing to entertain single men like you'', typical VIP wannabee attitude, you couldn't stop yourself from trying to put the OP down. He was respectful, nothing offensive in what he said ( wrong choice about ''entertain ''formula, I agree) . Single men ''like you'', what does it mean that? How is he?
But coming from someone like you, with a black hole instead of profile pic and with a bitter attitude against single M's clearly stated on the profile, it makes more sense.
People are free to like whatever they want, but do it politely, otherwise you'll be flooded with cocks and ''wanna fuck's'';-)
You want respect?
Respect the others! |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man
Just read the final bit.
You think that couples should be willing to entertain single men like you?
Priceless!!
''Willing to entertain single men like you'', typical VIP wannabee attitude, you couldn't stop yourself from trying to put the OP down. He was respectful, nothing offensive in what he said ( wrong choice about ''entertain ''formula, I agree) . Single men ''like you'', what does it mean that? How is he?
But coming from someone like you, with a black hole instead of profile pic and with a bitter attitude against single M's clearly stated on the profile, it makes more sense.
People are free to like whatever they want, but do it politely, otherwise you'll be flooded with cocks and ''wanna fuck's'';-)
You want respect?
Respect the others! "
So do you think that couples and single ladies are here to entertain single men??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If people want to put others down then that's down to them haha but I will be taking advice with things like more effort into the bio and more variety in pictures so appreciate everyone that has taken the time to actually throw some constructive comments in here as it will be a massive help |
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It can definitely be hard for single guys on Fab. Don’t let it get you down tho. I’d definitely be tempted to try the organised social events (look on forum on meet request and events). Sure they will be some near you. There a great way of meeting people as are swinging clubs. Just get yourself out there sure turn good in the end |
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Don't worry your doing better than I at least you get a reply?????? |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
You need more in your bio |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a look at your profile , Mate if u are genuinely single , try a dating site and u would definitely get a woman..u will get laid and maybe find a partner as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man
Just read the final bit.
You think that couples should be willing to entertain single men like you?
Priceless!!
''Willing to entertain single men like you'', typical VIP wannabee attitude, you couldn't stop yourself from trying to put the OP down. He was respectful, nothing offensive in what he said ( wrong choice about ''entertain ''formula, I agree) . Single men ''like you'', what does it mean that? How is he?
But coming from someone like you, with a black hole instead of profile pic and with a bitter attitude against single M's clearly stated on the profile, it makes more sense.
People are free to like whatever they want, but do it politely, otherwise you'll be flooded with cocks and ''wanna fuck's'';-)
You want respect?
Respect the others!
So do you think that couples and single ladies are here to entertain single men??
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So, do you think that my words (wrong choice about the ''entertain''formula, I agree...) means that, or you're just trying to deflect the shame on someone else?
Read again. And again. Try Google translate. Ask a friend. A fortune teller. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to a club or a social meet, act normal talk to people get verified honestly it's not rocket science |
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man
Just read the final bit.
You think that couples should be willing to entertain single men like you?
Priceless!!
''Willing to entertain single men like you'', typical VIP wannabee attitude, you couldn't stop yourself from trying to put the OP down. He was respectful, nothing offensive in what he said ( wrong choice about ''entertain ''formula, I agree) . Single men ''like you'', what does it mean that? How is he?
But coming from someone like you, with a black hole instead of profile pic and with a bitter attitude against single M's clearly stated on the profile, it makes more sense.
People are free to like whatever they want, but do it politely, otherwise you'll be flooded with cocks and ''wanna fuck's'';-)
You want respect?
Respect the others!
So do you think that couples and single ladies are here to entertain single men??
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I don't he ment entertain single guys as in invite them round, and provide entertainment for him. I thought more entertain as in consider it. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a swinging site not a free sex with any woman site aka sex on a plate 80 to 90% of men on here dont have a clue what swinging even means .... you dont go to church to worship the devil so why come on a swingers site and expect sex on a plate ?????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
I hope things improve for you, I always tried to respond to people that sent me a polite message even if it was to say thanks but not for me until last night. For the first time in 11 months I got an abusive response to my polite “not for me sorry “ message. (He hadn’t read my profile, he clearly just sent a copy paste message)
I now don’t want to even open new Mail especially if I can see from their pictures or profile that they haven’t read mine.  if other ladies experience this too. It’s no wonder they don’t reply to messages. It’s nice to be nice but at what cost
Good luck with your search x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was lucky enough to be able to see a female friends page on here. Inundated with messages 24/7 from single guys on here. It's no wonder woman tend no to reply, just enjoy the site, check out all the various areas and keep plugging away.
It may happen it may not, I haven't met anyone on here but I have made some decent friends who I talk to near enough every day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding it hard as well, had a few replies etc but it’s pretty disheartening to get so many rejections especially when we’ll the quality of the people are way below what I usually pull in the normal world. It’s almost like an alternative universe…
… however the reason for being here is to unlock some less vanilla experiences, until that happens it’s tinder and alike for fun. |
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"Finding it hard as well, had a few replies etc but it’s pretty disheartening to get so many rejections especially when we’ll the quality of the people are way below what I usually pull in the normal world. It’s almost like an alternative universe…
… however the reason for being here is to unlock some less vanilla experiences, until that happens it’s tinder and alike for fun. "
OMG really ??? the quality of the people are way below what I usually pull in the normal world.
No wonder your struggling with that attitude your not gods gift you know as the many rejections from your below standards are turning you down not a nice feeling is it just like its not nice to make wemon feel like crap |
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
OP you made this post 4 days ago and your bio is still same so I'm not even going to bother to offer advice to someone who clearly isn't taking it good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s just a fact sorry how am I making proper feel crap if I message them. I’m simply saying when it’s then shunned it’s a bit stupid when in reality I know I’m aiming lower |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s just a fact sorry how am I making proper feel crap if I message them. I’m simply saying when it’s then shunned it’s a bit stupid when in reality I know I’m aiming lower "
why would you aim lower ?? think that say's more about you than those your trying to meet ...sounds very much like desperation ...not only that if your getting plenty of offers from hot women in the vanilla world begs the question as to why you are here ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly what I’m thinking , hoped it would broaden my horizons here but it’s really not.
As said before I didn’t come here to get laid , I came here to find some a more adventurous encounters.
Think I’ll let all the fat munters get on with it , seems I’ve ruffled some jealous feathers |
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"A polite friendly message that shows you have read our profile and are genuinely interested in us (as opposed to a generic 'hi' or 'how u doing?' ) works wonders, especially if it is backed up by an interesting profile that gives us an idea of what the sender is like and are looking for.
We generally have males blocked from messaging unless we are actively looking for a male for a meet, but if a male profile catches our eye we will hotlist it to refer back to at a later date.
K"
Something along these lines. We occasionally open filters when looking but get inundated with generic messages. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"It’s just a fact sorry how am I making proper feel crap if I message them. I’m simply saying when it’s then shunned it’s a bit stupid when in reality I know I’m aiming lower
why would you aim lower ?? think that say's more about you than those your trying to meet ...sounds very much like desperation ...not only that if your getting plenty of offers from hot women in the vanilla world begs the question as to why you are here ??"
People end up aiming lower simply due to the fact that the ratio of men to women is so high and they want to get a meet or verification...and succeed on fab.
Meeting woman in the vanilla world is a lot easier ( for me,) but that's not what I want,I enjoy fab dates.
OP go to an organised social, there are loads listed in the forums you will meet loads of folk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly what I’m thinking , hoped it would broaden my horizons here but it’s really not.
As said before I didn’t come here to get laid , I came here to find some a more adventurous encounters.
Think I’ll let all the fat munters get on with it , seems I’ve ruffled some jealous feathers "
ah that classic claim when nothing going right they must all be jealous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welll when people try and take you down it’s usually cos of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wonder how many more guys will come forward to claim they aim lower because there not enought women ??
great blocking matierial for those local to those claiming they aim lower ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I prefer to find profiles I like, I like to be the hunter rather than the hunted 
Saying that, a well written and thought out message would get my attention. More so if its from someone who shows a bit if a cheeky fun side in photos, not so serious.
Also, I wonder if location might play a part?
Either way, good luck! X |
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"Welll when people try and take you down it’s usually cos of that. "
What is it we are meant to be jealous of exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welll when people try and take you down it’s usually cos of that. "
nobodys trying to take you down ?? you said what you said ? nobody else ... and just as you said what you wanted then people will reply .... thats the forums for you ... i love guys as a couple we only meet guys same on my singles profile but theres no way in hell id lower my standards even if us women out numbers the men... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly what I’m thinking , hoped it would broaden my horizons here but it’s really not.
As said before I didn’t come here to get laid , I came here to find some a more adventurous encounters.
Think I’ll let all the fat munters get on with it , seems I’ve ruffled some jealous feathers "
Thats a terrible attitude. Quite frankly the name calling just shows your awful character |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jealous of not being fat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not name calling it’s describing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly what I’m thinking , hoped it would broaden my horizons here but it’s really not.
As said before I didn’t come here to get laid , I came here to find some a more adventurous encounters.
Think I’ll let all the fat munters get on with it , seems I’ve ruffled some jealous feathers "
Don't cry 'cos nobody wants to touch yer dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous of not being fat "
Maybe your jealous of the seriously hot and ripped guys with huge dicks who get all the meets.... |
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This thread went downhill fast ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not name calling it’s describing "
It's abusive. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Exactly what I’m thinking , hoped it would broaden my horizons here but it’s really not.
As said before I didn’t come here to get laid , I came here to find some a more adventurous encounters.
Think I’ll let all the fat munters get on with it , seems I’ve ruffled some jealous feathers
Thats a terrible attitude. Quite frankly the name calling just shows your awful character "
Yes another on the block list |
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"Jealous of not being fat
Maybe your jealous of the seriously hot and ripped guys with huge dicks who get all the meets.... "
Plenty of erm heavier gents on fab who do great on here too, as they know how to be respectful and don't act like children, though some people are incapable of that I think. But hey we are just jealous arent we |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread went downhill fast ! "
Quelle surprise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous of not being fat
Maybe your jealous of the seriously hot and ripped guys with huge dicks who get all the meets....
Plenty of erm heavier gents on fab who do great on here too, as they know how to be respectful and don't act like children, though some people are incapable of that I think. But hey we are just jealous arent we "
Yes I know that, I reacted badly to the fat munters comment. Apologies x |
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In short
cock is plentiful and its value is low
definitely a numbers game and if a profile catches the eye of the one you are messaging no then your chances go up. 3 weeks!!!! As many have said it will normally take a lot longer than that
Good luck ( we all need it) |
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"Jealous of not being fat
Maybe your jealous of the seriously hot and ripped guys with huge dicks who get all the meets....
Plenty of erm heavier gents on fab who do great on here too, as they know how to be respectful and don't act like children, though some people are incapable of that I think. But hey we are just jealous arent we
Yes I know that, I reacted badly to the fat munters comment. Apologies x"
No need to apologise I didn't mean it was you who was out of order  |
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"Jealous of not being fat "
There’s nothing wrong with being fat. Just because you don’t find it attractive doesn’t mean others don’t. People’s worth isn’t determined by your unpleasant opinion.
Maybe this is a reality check for you. If people were finding you attractive then you’d be doing well. If you’re not it’s because people don’t find you attractive. That goes for your physical appearance and your personality as presented in your profile and messages.
Perhaps you’re not as attractive as your think. Maybe into real world you’re just getting action because the women you like are settling or aiming down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous of not being fat
Maybe your jealous of the seriously hot and ripped guys with huge dicks who get all the meets....
Plenty of erm heavier gents on fab who do great on here too, as they know how to be respectful and don't act like children, though some people are incapable of that I think. But hey we are just jealous arent we
Yes I know that, I reacted badly to the fat munters comment. Apologies x
No need to apologise I didn't mean it was you who was out of order "
Phew! I usually ignore stuff like this as Confrontation upsets me. All good though, have a great day! |
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man "
Quite often they are spending time messaging the wrong people. It doesn't really matter how attractive a guy is to me, if he lives hours from me then it's pretty pointless anyway. Yet my inbox is still full of people who aren't even in the same county.
Read profiles , honestly consider if you fit what the profile is looking for, if you don't then chances are lower that you will get a reply. Use your time wisely. |
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"Jealous of not being fat
Maybe your jealous of the seriously hot and ripped guys with huge dicks who get all the meets....
Plenty of erm heavier gents on fab who do great on here too, as they know how to be respectful and don't act like children, though some people are incapable of that I think. But hey we are just jealous arent we
Yes I know that, I reacted badly to the fat munters comment. Apologies x
No need to apologise I didn't mean it was you who was out of order
Phew! I usually ignore stuff like this as Confrontation upsets me. All good though, have a great day! "
You too x |
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Don't expect to meet any women on fab |
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By *oGDomMan
over a year ago
Barry |
"Finding it hard as well, had a few replies etc but it’s pretty disheartening to get so many rejections especially when we’ll the quality of the people are way below what I usually pull in the normal world. It’s almost like an alternative universe…
… however the reason for being here is to unlock some less vanilla experiences, until that happens it’s tinder and alike for fun. "
Sadly, this is true. Given the nature of the site, the number of female users compared to the number of male users and the staggering amount of time wasted trawling through fake profiles and enduring no shows, expectations, and standards, will inevitably be lower than those in the "real world".
The counter arguments, namely "Well why don't you go and meet a woman in the real world?", just aren't valid. It's safe to assume that the majority of users on Fab are looking for something niche. Whether that's a certain charactistic, or a specific kink, the functions on this site literally allow you to establish your own criteria and places the most appropriate profiles in the palm of your unwanking hand. In the "real world", if I was looking for a bisexual female smoker, whos into anal and blindfolds, within 10 miles of my location, then I might be searching for months and asking some very pertinent and awkward question. Thankfully all that hassle, and all those restraining orders are avoided; here it's done in mere seconds.
People use Fab, not because they can't get laid elsewhere...it's because they want something different. Decency, laws and rules still apply though, so be nice, be respectful and realise that things, sometimes, take time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get mingling more on the forums, even try the chat rooms to get your face and name known. Try and personalise messages a bit more rather than the generic "Hiya, what you up to this weekend?" tyoe stuff. I'm sure there's absolutely nothing wrong with you personally, it simply is a numbers game with women vs men on here. Chin up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding it hard as well, had a few replies etc but it’s pretty disheartening to get so many rejections especially when we’ll the quality of the people are way below what I usually pull in the normal world. It’s almost like an alternative universe…
… however the reason for being here is to unlock some less vanilla experiences, until that happens it’s tinder and alike for fun.
Sadly, this is true. Given the nature of the site, the number of female users compared to the number of male users and the staggering amount of time wasted trawling through fake profiles and enduring no shows, expectations, and standards, will inevitably be lower than those in the "real world".
The counter arguments, namely "Well why don't you go and meet a woman in the real world?", just aren't valid. It's safe to assume that the majority of users on Fab are looking for something niche. Whether that's a certain charactistic, or a specific kink, the functions on this site literally allow you to establish your own criteria and places the most appropriate profiles in the palm of your unwanking hand. In the "real world", if I was looking for a bisexual female smoker, whos into anal and blindfolds, within 10 miles of my location, then I might be searching for months and asking some very pertinent and awkward question. Thankfully all that hassle, and all those restraining orders are avoided; here it's done in mere seconds.
People use Fab, not because they can't get laid elsewhere...it's because they want something different. Decency, laws and rules still apply though, so be nice, be respectful and realise that things, sometimes, take time."
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi guys. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
I'm a single straight guy that never comes across as rude on my messages. I feel I'm being just a genuine person but I am really struggling to get a response on the month I've been on here.
Everyone seems to not reply or when I do get a rare reply it's always a NO THANKS.
Why do single males have such a tough time finding either single females or couples that are willing to entertain another man
Just read the final bit.
You think that couples should be willing to entertain single men like you?
Priceless!!
''Willing to entertain single men like you'', typical VIP wannabee attitude, you couldn't stop yourself from trying to put the OP down. He was respectful, nothing offensive in what he said ( wrong choice about ''entertain ''formula, I agree) . Single men ''like you'', what does it mean that? How is he?
But coming from someone like you, with a black hole instead of profile pic and with a bitter attitude against single M's clearly stated on the profile, it makes more sense.
People are free to like whatever they want, but do it politely, otherwise you'll be flooded with cocks and ''wanna fuck's'';-)
You want respect?
Respect the others!
So do you think that couples and single ladies are here to entertain single men??
So, do you think that my words (wrong choice about the ''entertain''formula, I agree...) means that, or you're just trying to deflect the shame on someone else?
Read again. And again. Try Google translate. Ask a friend. A fortune teller. "
No reflection, it is exactly as said.
We do find single men support the single men cause a lot on here.
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