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Is be a straight male..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A minority on this site and holds back meets?
Try being straight and fat. 
Straight and curvy, slightly paradoxical?  "
Just bi and in shape and still rejected lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am in a couple we joined to meet other couples. All we get is message from men. Couples ignore us I feel I the male is the reason we don’t get interest |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I am in a couple we joined to meet other couples. All we get is message from men. Couples ignore us I feel I the male is the reason we don’t get interest "
Okay, that’s a glass of wine I didn’t need to snot over my phone screen. |
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"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.
Rude etc.
Interesting, in what way?
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I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is* |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.
Rude etc.
Interesting, in what way?
I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*"
Okay, what’s that to do with a straight subtle marketing post. |
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"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.
Rude etc.
Interesting, in what way?
I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*"
Is anyone really who they say they are?
It's a risk we all run on sites like this no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or straight and ugly and fat and old 
Sell yourself fella, works every time.
How about full bodied, matured by experience and age."
Full bodied, matured and age - could be reading the back of that wine bottle ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.
Rude etc.
Interesting, in what way?
I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*"
Read my last verification. I am not just who I say I am but I am not a creep and safe for a women to meet alone  |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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As a single straight guy the wrong side of 50 a bit stocky who can’t accommodate when I send a message I find it difficult getting a positive response with regards to a meet.However when I go to the Bank social , OP4F , Rios spa I seem to get more positive response.At the end of the day everyone has a preference I accept and understand. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"
I've not found being straight a hindrance. How people behave will have far more of an impact than sexual orientation.
Minority.. sorry I have no idea how many guys are on the site and the numbers of each orientation.
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Never found it a problem as a single guy or as part of a couple. And it works the other way too as some people seek strictly straight males. Unless you see not being able to play with people who are not your sexual preference a hindrance? If so of course, obviously, technically correct but a daft way to look at it. I love the range and diversity of sexuality out here. In my experience of others its not as simple as straight, gay or bi etc. Lots of people fall somewhere in the Spectrum in-between these labels and can change over time too. As to if I'm a minority or not being totally straight I don't know and I don't care. The labels for the reasons above to me are of little concern. For me as long as boundaries are respected we can all play along nicely, have the freedom to be who we want to be and have a bloody good time together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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str8 or bi mmm well despite being a bi couple when i play alone its mostly been str8 guys now even i find that strange because im bi hubs is bi and before we startedthe cuckold journey we either played as a bi couple or hotwife couple ..
we / i pick guys who at first i just fancy then its all the other stuff after that determins the meet so profile and then the chit chat so i guess alot fail this process and for a strange reason that i cannot answer most of my playmates are or have been straight ....
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I haven't found it to be holding me back but I did have a couple tell me in their opening message that it was a no no for them and I would have to play bi to meet them. If I couldn't do that I would have to bring a lady along and they might consider adding me to their to do list.
This from a couple with 100+ verifications and whom I had never spoken to before. |
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