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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're a totally brand new couple to this scene, we've been married for 5 years and not been with anyone else for a loooooooong time. Hit us with your best advice for starting out, any top tips? Or things you wish you had / hadn't done at the beginning?
How do you cope with new person nerves?
What if you have a panic and loose your bottle???????
So many questions. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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Spend a lot of time reading the forums to help guide you, listed to the more experienced couples. I learned the hard way for many months and when I took more notice of what people say on the forums all the clues to having the best chats and meets are within. Obviously the best help will come from other couples, but don't be in a rush, use the filters to out unwanted attention and be picky. ENJOY.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would agree, the forums are a big help. We would add to know your boundaries. What you want, what you don't want. Talk it over with each other in detail (you both have to be happy and aware of how the other is feeling), and decide on signals. We learnt that the hard way - how to let each other know if we were happy or not with how things were progressing. Obviously you don't want to offend whoever you are with, so a subtle sign between you that says I'm happy to proceed or I'm not feeling it. Also talk it through after. That sounds silly, of course you will, but talk about what felt good and what didn't. Most of all, relax, enjoy, fulfill fantasies and let it feed your love for each other. Good luck x |
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