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Can women over dress for a meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So your meeting in a bar can a women over dress herself or does it get seen as "sexy"? Is being overdressed too sexy and revealing make guys uncomfortable as it may attract attention? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all if they were focused on you.
If they were looking around the room and who else was looking then you know they didn’t get dressed up like that for you |
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Since when is it about the guy?
Honestly, what year is this?
If someone's worried about meeting a lady in a bar who's dressed "to sexy", especially on a swinging site, they're on the wrong place.
My wife dresses how she pleases for meets. She dresses for herself, no one else. I just happen to enjoy her dressing sexily.
I've also met some ladies on my own in bars who, quite frankly, dressed like they only knew how to shop at Anne Summers and I couldn't have been happier. For them being able expressed themselves, to feel good about themselves and for me getting to enjoy the view. I out an effort in for my wife and for meets to be dressed sexy so I most certainly appreciate it when a woman does it
If someone has an issue with it, oys their problem, no one else's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since when is it about the guy?
Honestly, what year is this?
If someone's worried about meeting a lady in a bar who's dressed "to sexy", especially on a swinging site, they're on the wrong place.
My wife dresses how she pleases for meets. She dresses for herself, no one else. I just happen to enjoy her dressing sexily.
I've also met some ladies on my own in bars who, quite frankly, dressed like they only knew how to shop at Anne Summers and I couldn't have been happier. For them being able expressed themselves, to feel good about themselves and for me getting to enjoy the view. I out an effort in for my wife and for meets to be dressed sexy so I most certainly appreciate it when a woman does it
If someone has an issue with it, oys their problem, no one else's."
 this. As I said it’s about the lady feeling good and confident and she should read for herself. Come on guys we are better than this |
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Have to say I don't really care what she's wearing, it's how she's wearing it that counts. If she is wearing something that makes her feel confident and sexy and turned on, then that's how she'll come across to me. Unless it's part of a pre arranged roleplay, it's totally down to her... |
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"So your meeting in a bar can a women over dress herself or does it get seen as "sexy"? Is being overdressed too sexy and revealing make guys uncomfortable as it may attract attention?"
A wedding dress might be a step to far  |
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"Since when is it about the guy?
Honestly, what year is this?
If someone's worried about meeting a lady in a bar who's dressed "to sexy", especially on a swinging site, they're on the wrong place.
My wife dresses how she pleases for meets. She dresses for herself, no one else. I just happen to enjoy her dressing sexily.
I've also met some ladies on my own in bars who, quite frankly, dressed like they only knew how to shop at Anne Summers and I couldn't have been happier. For them being able expressed themselves, to feel good about themselves and for me getting to enjoy the view. I out an effort in for my wife and for meets to be dressed sexy so I most certainly appreciate it when a woman does it
If someone has an issue with it, oys their problem, no one else's."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The latest Vivienne Westwood might be overkill for an initial social down The Dog And Duck….
But in general, no. It’s not my choice what someone else wears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not, been for a meet in the past and the couple have turned up in loungewear. If you have made the effort to look your best, it's a big turnoff if the effort has only been made one way. |
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