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Drinks first or straight to the fun.
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By *andS1 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Do you guys/girls and couples prefer meeting for a drink first before the fun begins or diving straight in?
We normally have a few drinks first however with our last meet with a guy at his request, I met him in the entrance of our hotel, went straight to the room where S was waiting and dived stright in. Definalty highten the naughtiness and think this might be the way forward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Existng pal/s - straight in, unless there is important gossip to be caught up on  New playpal/s - coffee on neutral ground, either with or without the option to move on to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you guys/girls and couples prefer meeting for a drink first before the fun begins or diving straight in?
We normally have a few drinks first however with our last meet with a guy at his request, I met him in the entrance of our hotel, went straight to the room where S was waiting and dived stright in. Definalty highten the naughtiness and think this might be the way forward. "
Few drinks, have a laugh and a chat to build some rapport.
Makes the sex so much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the situation. While we wouldn't say no to a drink or two first, sometimes straight to the fun due to spur of the moment is best. For example like a club scenario where couples are mid play with each other. |
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Non club meets drinks first, have met for drinks and played with couples same day.
Hotel meets single guys tend to be chat here then WhatsApp the drink can be separate from the meet or in bar without promise to play if we click heyho.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call me an old romantic. But I get more turned on with having a couple of drinks and flirting with each other first. Gets me really turned on for the fun afterwards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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both .... and if drinks it will be no alcohol
sometimes it easy to get the picture from just chatting on here and more exciting to just get on with it ..... as for socials yep if thats whats wanted not many make it pass a social tho as they start spilling stuff i dont want to know and kill everything with bordom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer drinks first, its good to have a chat and see how the other person is , what they want from a meet, if there are any particular likes and no goes. I know this can be done on message before hand but its better in person especially if its a couple. For all you know you may have only been having the one halfs input. So anyway yes drinks first and if all goes well, during and after too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drinks first, we need to see if there is a connection.
Kx
Gives you the opportunity to do a runner.  "
Defo.....
Hang on we normally do this at home so a chance for them or I show them the door
Doesn't happen often. |
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Oh, a drink first, absolutely.
Chatting, flirting, laughing is an exciting part of a meet……….although……..I have enjoyed some memorable meets which have started with an unlocked bedroom door and someone (me or her/them) blindfolded and waiting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drinks and a laugh with some flirting , let things take a natural course ,and if nothing happens at least you all get pissed together .."
That’s when things happen you didn’t intend to haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Drinks and a laugh with some flirting , let things take a natural course ,and if nothing happens at least you all get pissed together ..
That’s when things happen you didn’t intend to haha "
Not when your seasoned drinkers ...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Drinks and a laugh with some flirting , let things take a natural course ,and if nothing happens at least you all get pissed together ..
That’s when things happen you didn’t intend to haha
Not when your seasoned drinkers ...lol "
I ‘think’ I am that’s the problem |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Drinks first, we need to see if there is a connection.
Kx
Gives you the opportunity to do a runner.
Defo.....
Hang on we normally do this at home so a chance for them or I show them the door
Doesn't happen often. "
I'm sure you know them well enough to allow them through the door into your home.
But keep their coat handy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a couple at the weekend for just “drinks” . Ended up staying for a few more and woke up in the morning in their bed lol . The morning was fun to say the least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually prefer to socialise, have a chat, drinks, food, whatever. I like the social aspect as well as the sexual, plus you feel more comfortable when you get to the sex part.
But I have had meets that have been straight to action or him slipping it straight in barely after a hello. They can be fun in the right situation. Xx |
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"I usually prefer to socialise, have a chat, drinks, food, whatever. I like the social aspect as well as the sexual, plus you feel more comfortable when you get to the sex part.
But I have had meets that have been straight to action or him slipping it straight in barely after a hello. They can be fun in the right situation. Xx"
I agree with that there are occasions when you just go for it but very occasionally for me tho prefer a social 1st drinks and fun first to feel comfortable with the other person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its a "friend" we've played with before happy to dive straight in but if its the first time always drinks first, see how we get on, talk see if there is a connection.. not in any rush to jump straight into bed. I find it more of a turn on personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drinks first always, the amount of people we met on my old couples profile that looked alot different from the pic they sent through was crazy.
Arranging to play before you have actually met could be a disaster, obviously if you have met before then why not have drinks while you play |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Drinks first always, the amount of people we met on my old couples profile that looked alot different from the pic they sent through was crazy.
Arranging to play before you have actually met could be a disaster, obviously if you have met before then why not have drinks while you play "
Can I blindfold you instead then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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normally drinks first, but once , told a guy we had never met before to let his self in , strip naked in the hallway , then come into the living room , where we were naked and fucking , and join straight in. got to admit it was very very horny |
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"normally drinks first, but once , told a guy we had never met before to let his self in , strip naked in the hallway , then come into the living room , where we were naked and fucking , and join straight in. got to admit it was very very horny "
Very mischievous and sounds a lot of fun. |
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"Dont mind a drink and a chat before hand but cant stand a social in a pub, all that fab story swopping. Were here to have sex with strangers not make life friends"
well said more fucking less talking
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"Dont mind a drink and a chat before hand but cant stand a social in a pub, all that fab story swopping. Were here to have sex with strangers not make life friendswell said more fucking less talking "
See for us, we love the friendship, love the social aspect and it seems to be we get more of what we want if we have discussed what we like etc… each to their own ofcourse |
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"Do you guys/girls and couples prefer meeting for a drink first before the fun begins or diving straight in?
We normally have a few drinks first however with our last meet with a guy at his request, I met him in the entrance of our hotel, went straight to the room where S was waiting and dived stright in. Definalty highten the naughtiness and think this might be the way forward. "
meet him, bring him to room and let him get straight into her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far too many case's of people not being totally genuine and we value our safety.
We don't have anything to hide so more than happy to meet for a pre drink
New people we like to get to know them a little and also like to have the ability to call it off should we be getting red flags.
Saying that people who we have met we could jump straight to it |
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