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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found this too...way older than my preferences mailing & when I tell them they're not in my preferred ages range some don't take it too well & others try to convince to get into older. Older is just not my thing. I never found men my age or older attractive...it's always & ever been younger for me |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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You can set filters so people cannot message you outside your age preferences. And if you find messages are bothering you that much you can actually stop men from messaging you and search for profiles that do interest you .Moaning about getting messages you don't like it pointless it won't change the site gives you the tools that you can use to help yourself.It does however mean you have to make the first move yourself and a lot seem to prefer to not do that on here it seems. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"It also doesn't work when one half of the couple is your preference and the other is hugely over that "
Then stop all from messaging and search for yourselves and message first if you find it that upsetting.I keep my filters very tight if a couple message and one is way outside my preferences I just say no thanks if they get rude I delete the message and move on. Why would I let anyone who I don't know upset me on here it just shows they aren't worth meeting anyhow. |
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Fab is an "illicit" sex site so you get a lot of people, ok single blokes chancing it. I've respected you preferences but boy that latest photo is hot  good luck finding sexy people in your age range  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is an "illicit" sex site so you get a lot of people, ok single blokes chancing it. I've respected you preferences but boy that latest photo is hot good luck finding sexy people in your age range "
Why is fab an "illicit" sex site?
Last time I looked swinging wasn't against the law.
There's also a world of difference a swinging site and a sex site.
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"It also doesn't work when one half of the couple is your preference and the other is hugely over that "
I've had this in the past when the woman was in her 20s and extremely pushy so when she ignored my reply about not meeting anyone of her age under any circumstances I blocked them. It's a glitch in the system but easy to block. |
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"It also doesn't work when one half of the couple is your preference and the other is hugely over that
Then stop all from messaging and search for yourselves and message first if you find it that upsetting.I keep my filters very tight if a couple message and one is way outside my preferences I just say no thanks if they get rude I delete the message and move on. Why would I let anyone who I don't know upset me on here it just shows they aren't worth meeting anyhow. "
I think for women or couples this makes sense  . I think as a single guy if you’re not prepared to make the first approach as in the outside world you could miss out on some great people. Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does no one read profiles anymore no one seems to respect age preferences or what your looking for anymore it's just chancing it and then being told your rude when you say your not interested"
No |
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"It also doesn't work when one half of the couple is your preference and the other is hugely over that
Then stop all from messaging and search for yourselves and message first if you find it that upsetting.I keep my filters very tight if a couple message and one is way outside my preferences I just say no thanks if they get rude I delete the message and move on. Why would I let anyone who I don't know upset me on here it just shows they aren't worth meeting anyhow.
I think for women or couples this makes sense . I think as a single guy if you’re not prepared to make the first approach as in the outside world you could miss out on some great people. Good luck OP"
I don't make the first move and haven't done since the beginning of last year. I allow my personality to show through forum interaction and a consistent and appealing profile and every conversation is initiated by women who like what they see and get in touch.
That suits my level of expectation but may not be for everyone. |
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