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Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us!  |
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over a year ago
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I feel your pain. Hotel/club sex brings so much more freedom & enjoyment. Silent home sex takes something away for me personally, my mind can't completely relax
Claire |
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "
Well not so much silence, but yes we try to keep it down.
When they were younger they would just sleep. But now we can be heading to bed before they have started sleeping which makes it more awkward.
We try to find times when they are out playing with friends.
But trying to get in the mood can be a bit tricky especially knowing they could be back in a few minutes having forgotten something.
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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When our daughter was about 14, she asked mum if she had bought some new clothes. Puzzled, Mrs R asked her what made her think that. She replied that after she had gone to bed, she heard mum struggling to get into some tight jeans!
We were puzzled at first and then we twigged! We had a very passionate bout that night  My next job a few weeks later was to build a toy cupboard between the two rooms and insulate it for sound and we told her that is was just to stop her being disturbed if we needed something from the cupboard..
She still jokes about it now as she has realised what the noise actually was!  |
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"I feel your pain. Hotel/club sex brings so much more freedom & enjoyment. Silent home sex takes something away for me personally, my mind can't completely relax
Claire "
We try and not be too loud in a hotel, they may not want to hear it next door  |
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us!
Well not so much silence, but yes we try to keep it down.
When they were younger they would just sleep. But now we can be heading to bed before they have started sleeping which makes it more awkward.
We try to find times when they are out playing with friends.
But trying to get in the mood can be a bit tricky especially knowing they could be back in a few minutes having forgotten something.
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Oh how we relate to this! |
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"When our daughter was about 14, she asked mum if she had bought some new clothes. Puzzled, Mrs R asked her what made her think that. She replied that after she had gone to bed, she heard mum struggling to get into some tight jeans!
We were puzzled at first and then we twigged! We had a very passionate bout that night My next job a few weeks later was to build a toy cupboard between the two rooms and insulate it for sound and we told her that is was just to stop her being disturbed if we needed something from the cupboard..
She still jokes about it now as she has realised what the noise actually was! "
Love this story  |
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"Yes so if you are ever in a swinging club thinking
"God they are fucking noisy."
Just remember this might be there only chance for a few weeks/months to be free of any constraints. "
I like listening to the noise, or at least having it as a backdrop, it's nice to know so many people are having so much fun |
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "
Every parent everywhere knows this one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With an 11 month old baby the issue isn't so much noise atm but time.
We have mastered been able to make each other cum in just a minute or 2 via hands and oral.
KJ |
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With an 11 month old baby the issue isn't so much noise atm but time.
We have mastered been able to make each other cum in just a minute or 2 via hands and oral.
KJ "
That does the trick  .
Also you find you eat your meals much quicker  |
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"When our daughter was about 14, she asked mum if she had bought some new clothes. Puzzled, Mrs R asked her what made her think that. She replied that after she had gone to bed, she heard mum struggling to get into some tight jeans!
We were puzzled at first and then we twigged! We had a very passionate bout that night My next job a few weeks later was to build a toy cupboard between the two rooms and insulate it for sound and we told her that is was just to stop her being disturbed if we needed something from the cupboard..
She still jokes about it now as she has realised what the noise actually was! "
Our daughter said to us few days ago she heard the bed creaking for ages the other night and said what was you doing we both said I was moving it she replied smirking where too that took a while she knew what was going on obviously |
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Should also say, one time the kids came up and asked if mum was OK as they heard her make an odd noise. We said she got cramp and it hurt lol.
Also, bet a lot of the parents on here have tricks. Like prepping breakfast, fav TV show ready, or letting them on youtube which means you know you have 10 to 20 min window lol. |
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On the subject of loud sex at a club- great to hear people are enjoying themselves, but on the other hand, it can be very distracting. Particularly when it sounds very exaggerated and porn-like. Devil gets the giggles instantly and finds it difficult to concentrate on her own pleasure. |
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"I feel your pain. Hotel/club sex brings so much more freedom & enjoyment. Silent home sex takes something away for me personally, my mind can't completely relax
Claire "
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By *ocusMan
over a year ago
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I have to keep one eye on the door as our nipper is quite stealthy if he wakes up at night.
We’ve rearranged our lounge and have a drape we can pull over the glass in the door (also lockable) so we have what we call a Fuck Parlour downstairs. Nice big Persian rug and a thick duvet in front of the huge tv so we can have some porn on while we fuck uninterrupted downstairs. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"On the subject of loud sex at a club- great to hear people are enjoying themselves, but on the other hand, it can be very distracting. Particularly when it sounds very exaggerated and porn-like. Devil gets the giggles instantly and finds it difficult to concentrate on her own pleasure. "
I always giggle at that too. I moan a lot but not too loudly and defo not like a porn star trying to make out by loud moans and talking..... Talking what's that about??? Proper puts me off |
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By *ocusMan
over a year ago
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"Yes so if you are ever in a swinging club thinking
"God they are fucking noisy."
Just remember this might be there only chance for a few weeks/months to be free of any constraints.
I like listening to the noise, or at least having it as a backdrop, it's nice to know so many people are having so much fun "
I’m with you there. I love hearing people fuck. |
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By *ocusMan
over a year ago
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"We make as much noise as we want to. It's our house, we paid for it. We have to listen to the neighbours TV booming all day, till 11.00 pm, so feck em hubbs says "
Yeah we keep it down for the sake of the nipper but when he’s at childcare during the weekdays we let rip! |
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The walls between our houses are paper thin so the neighbours can hear everything. And we can hear them 
They went away on holiday for two weeks so we turned the volume up and had some very loud sessions. That stopped after some teens outside started mimicking our noises 
Hotel stays and club visits are where we let it all out now. |
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Yes yes yes.
Tried to play last night and waited until gone 10pm but about 10 minutes later heard our eldest's bedroom door open and had to stop. Complete mood killer 
Fridays have become our 'adult day' as Deb doesn't work and Charlie works from home but one of the kids will be home this week so will have to wait, again.
Roll on a hotel stay in December! |
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "
Yes!
It was how my wife & I started having sex outdoors.
"We're just going shopping" we'd say at night, find somewhere quiet, have a bit of fun, then off shopping and home.
I don't like having sex while anyone is in the house, so clubs are a fantastic place to go and explore and have fun at.
It works for us |
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yes I've known times when a hand over the mouth was required to shut me up in case the ankle biters heard, especially when away on holiday camping in a tent lol (and the rest of the campers for that matter)
once had a pair of socks used on me as a gag too, to stop parents-in-law hearing lol
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "
Simply yes to the above for the same reasons. |
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With two sons in 20s still living at home finding time to ourselves few and far between. They never seem to go out at the same time. Need a hotel night away again soon!!!! Silent sex all the time lol |
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We used to synchronise our lovemaking with the neighbours, our bedrooms separated by a party wall. It wasn't long before we fantasised about swapping partners. We could hear them and they could hear us. Sadly my wife wouldn't swap for real but as solace the chap next door and I would have fun after our wives went to work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we lived with my parents after getting married I learned not to make a noise when having sex and now I still dont. Some guys assume I'm not enjoying it because I'm not vocal but its not the case. |
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "
I call it ‘married sex’ and did it for the first time in 10 years on Sunday morning with an Fb who stayed over (we’ve known each other for 3 years and my kids know who he is!). The kids were probably comatose as it was 7.30am - but just in case I kept it quiet.
It was ok as a one off but it’s not something I’d want to repeat often. I generally like to show my appreciation! |
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"With two sons in 20s still living at home finding time to ourselves few and far between. They never seem to go out at the same time. Need a hotel night away again soon!!!! Silent sex all the time lol"
Oh once they are 20 I think the volume will need to go up.
Embarrassment is a great motivation to get a small flat. |
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"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "
It never happens at home can’t do it cause folk are listening |
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over a year ago
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Like others I live in a Top Floor flat .. but since the People living underneath me must be deaf as their TV is at about 100Decibels all day long I don't really care about them .. My ex was never quiet in the Family Home..
Although my Friend did possibly wake up the street one night here at the flat as she had a little orgasm or 9 and screamed .. only after did we notice the Window was wide open!! |
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hmmm I guess we’ll never know…. 