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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago
Uxbridge |
So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago
Uxbridge |
"I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.
I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough. "
I certainly don't disbelive you, I've had previous who last for similar - and you're right, too long isn't always great x |
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"I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.
I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough.
I certainly don't disbelive you, I've had previous who last for similar - and you're right, too long isn't always great x"
I just love edging and have the ability to be able to do it as much as I like ….
So how long is to long. Lol |
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over a year ago
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For me it's around 5 to 15 mins on average.
Also depends on what positions too as I cum quicker in missionary but with cowgirl I could go for around 10/15 mins
Could say gravity might play its part haha |
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I vary quite a bit. 5 to 20 minutes, upto an hour.
Depends on a few things,
Time of day (I struggle to come in the mornings when I first wake up sometimes, for some reason, although I can perform otherwise),
When was the last time I came, Excitement of the encounter (threesome etc),
Level of foreplay etc
Mr
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"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
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Anything below 30 seconds is not long enough…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With my GF I usually wait as long as we need for her to finish (or get bored  ) then I’ll finish. Could be 15 mins or an hour depending what kind of sex we’re having.
With others I have to guess when they’re finished or bored which is harder |
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5 1/2 to 15mins? Ohh... I thought it would have been much longer.
I actually suffer from delayed ejaculation, which means I'm usually over an hour.
That sounds great (and in some ways it is), but it also comes with the issue that a lot of the time I actually struggle to cum at all and give up.
For me a good day is when I can get it under 30mins.
Annoyingly some women think it's because of them and think all men just cum like machines. So now I have to pre-warn people, and then they think I'm bragging 
... and before anyone says it's due to wanking too much, that's not true, as I genuinely do that less than once a month. |
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"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
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Being diplomatic here; it depends on the friction...... |
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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago
Uxbridge |
"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
Being diplomatic here; it depends on the friction......"
Kop out lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This for me depends on if im wearing a condom or not . With a condom I’d say about 20 minutes to 30 minutes first time .
Without can be 10 to 20 mins first time . The second time is a lottery depending how turned on and horny the sex is .
Also depends on of i have made the lady cum which i always want first , then if she has its my turn and i dont have to hold back  |
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My experience varies depending on the situation and circumstance.
I can quite easily last 45 minutes and well past an hour with women im accustom to and in an environment like my bedroom or theirs.
On the flipside to that, ive blown my load in under a couple minutes whilst dogging with a stranger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not clear if the question is how long in each event of penetration or how long over a session. At my age I can only climax once, so make it last as long as I can. My sessions with the couple I meet regularly last about an hour, and I would expect to fuck in three or four different positions with some careful edging before before cumming at the end. |
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From start to finish, including foreplay? Or just penetration?
It really varies, I been with guys who've gone from the first kiss to end game in 15/20 minutes. Definitely not long enough!
Then there's the ones that can go for like an hour and a half, take a break, then go again... That's much preferred! |
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I personally love it when we finish together. I'm only going to finish if I'm turned on. If I'm turned on it won't take me long so I don't need a man to last too long, just know what he's doing to make it feel good  |
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"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
Being diplomatic here; it depends on the friction......
Kop out lol
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Do men last longer in your pussy or your ass? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just weighing in here, my meet this morning was 30mins before I came but there have been times just like most everyone else where its been 10mins to over an hour, its never the same  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Depending on my mood and how the bottom half wants to act and whom I'm with several hours I understand some of you will be thinking it's impossible but people I've met even before fab would say what I have ya either got it or haven't  |
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Depends on the situation. If it's a gb or gg night, short few mins is best, as NEXT please. If theres a que of men, they go off the boil if they wait too long. And gb in our book is more than 3 men. Double figurs at least!
3somes upto an hour, including forplay and me interacting with both men.
Us as a couple, we go with the flow. That's private info. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
Anything below 30 seconds is not long enough…. "
That's ok, I can last long enou....... oh, sorry, doesn't usually happen |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
This really depends on my feelings, mood . If I really like a lady , there is real chemistry I'll cum a lot quicker, say 4 mins I guess ,if it's more casual i take a lot lot longer to cum.....half an hour at least
Generally i get hard again reasonably quickly...and the second time i take longer ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm brutally honest 5-10 minutes depending on many things ie how regular our love making is, if I'm exhausted I tend to run out of steam before I can cum. Hence with us it's plenty of foreplay first so the wife is totally satisfied. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes me some time to cum and like to vary my speed to make sure the woman has orgasmed first (this is a more important part of sex to me). After that I help myself along so she doesn't get bored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.
Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.
Jake |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.
Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.
Jake "
Dont you run out of puff , or get a stitch I get physically worn out ...I'm no spring chicken but I'm fit .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.
I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough. "
Fine work |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.
Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.
Jake
Dont you run out of puff , or get a stitch I get physically worn out ...I'm no spring chicken but I'm fit .."
Do you wear your underpants outside your trousers ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.
Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.
Jake "
Good man Jake, I reckon I’d last 2minutes with your Becky,,,,, WOW |
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It depends on a number of factors, how much sex I’m getting at the time. If I’m not getting much I’ll be more excitable;-)
If I’m in practice then I can basically cum when I want. I normally try to make sure my partner at the time has had enough. Or I might try and time it so that we finish together.
There are things that can be done if I’m feeling too sensitive, stopping to go down on her for a little while is a good one that lets the sensitivity die down a little bit but helps keep her on the boil |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Men of Fab are robotic, not only do they have 8"+ cocks, they fuck for hours without getting sore!! Personally, over half an hour and I'm getting my cross stitch "
There all bullshitters you mean. Not even pro pornstars are as good as john from fab...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
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I've had multiple partners at the same time, still never cum ....
(that should quieten my inbox now) lol |
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"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
I've had multiple partners at the same time, still never cum ....
(that should quieten my inbox now) lol"
Do you cum with just one partner?
Can you cum on your own, not every woman has loads and loads of climaxes. And that’s perfectly normal for them. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.
Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.
So:
Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)
Ladies: how long is not enough
I've had multiple partners at the same time, still never cum ....
(that should quieten my inbox now) lol"
I know some ladies struggle to cum after using a doxy a lot...guess it desensitises thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so honest answer and you can believe it or not.
If I just fuck with the intention of climaxing then I will be done in just a few minutes,
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I don't fuck with the intention of just climaxing I want everyone to have as much fun as possible so I will hold back until it's under control again and then go again. This way I can get to the point where I almost can't climax but don't have any issues staying hard so can play for hours or until physically too exhausted to continue in which case I like to be ridden. |
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"Ok so honest answer and you can believe it or not.
If I just fuck with the intention of climaxing then I will be done in just a few minutes,
but
I don't fuck with the intention of just climaxing I want everyone to have as much fun as possible so I will hold back until it's under control again and then go again. This way I can get to the point where I almost can't climax but don't have any issues staying hard so can play for hours or until physically too exhausted to continue in which case I like to be ridden."
Gotta agree with you bro.. 5 mins I’d feel I’ve cheated my meets.. so I’m the same.. ease off maybe go back to oral for a bit back on the fuckimg certainly don’t climax until I know my meet is truly satisfied and begging me to cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how horny I've got leading up to it. If I'm wearing a condom then often I can last a while longer but I seem to get really really turned on when I hear or feel the woman being turned on herself. I can literally bring myself to climax at the same time or within a minute before or after my partner.
Without a condom.....you've seen American Pie with Russian lady scene right |
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I have never had any trouble controlling him. I put it down to being circumcised and less sensitive. After an hour or so it becomes quite hard to cum. It takes quite an effort really. But the aim is primarily the lady's pleasure so that is not an problem. |
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I’m not really interested in sessions that are less than 2 hours. I can control myself for upto 3 hours but that isn’t constant fucking it’s mixing it all up over a good period of time. I like to make sure the lady is spent before I cum |
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I usually last until my partner says they've had enough and they want me to finish.
I'm so insensitive that I can go for literally hours. I can't remember the last time a partner outlasted me.
Yes, I know blokes lie about this all the time, but it's a mystery as to why. It's not a good thing. Partners can get frustrated and uncomfortable, and sometimes my knees give out before I'm done. |
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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I usually last until my partner says they've had enough and they want me to finish.
I'm so insensitive that I can go for literally hours. I can't remember the last time a partner outlasted me.
Yes, I know blokes lie about this all the time, but it's a mystery as to why. It's not a good thing. Partners can get frustrated and uncomfortable, and sometimes my knees give out before I'm done. "
Personally, I'd get frustrated |
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"I usually last until my partner says they've had enough and they want me to finish.
I'm so insensitive that I can go for literally hours. I can't remember the last time a partner outlasted me.
Yes, I know blokes lie about this all the time, but it's a mystery as to why. It's not a good thing. Partners can get frustrated and uncomfortable, and sometimes my knees give out before I'm done.
Personally, I'd get frustrated "
That's entirely understandable.
Fortunately, my partners all know what I'm like, and we have various ways of managing it. The most usual one is that they enjoy me for as long as they want, and then tell me when they want me to finish up ("I want you to cum now", or similar).
Another is that they tell me in advance how long they want me to go for, either precisely ("Be done in forty minutes") or roughly ("Go as fast and as hard as you can and don't hold back").
As always when it comes to sex and intimacy, clear communication is absolutely key. |
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By *2spikeMan
over a year ago
Southsea |
It depends on what your up to. Waking up on a morning to a lady by your side and having raw hard sex it's minutes.
Yet having a lady tied to your spanking bench want to fuck several times before finishing.
A quick meet in a public place also sometime required a faster finish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can last up to 20 mins, perhaps more. However, if she has been having fun with her lover and Im allowed in, a minute if Im lucky. She looks so wanton and beautiful I can barely control myself. |
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"I find the stop watch ticking at the side of her head quite off putting at times "
Conversely, in the right circumstances, it can also be highly motivating. "Cum in [n] minutes or you don't get an orgasm." |
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I found learning to edge has been the biggest help to me having self control especially now at my age when I need an hour before I can repeat again. The positive aspect is when I do cum it’s explosive and much more intense for me . |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"I found learning to edge has been the biggest help to me having self control especially now at my age when I need an hour before I can repeat again. The positive aspect is when I do cum it’s explosive and much more intense for me . "
How did you learn to edge may I ask
Thx |
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"I found learning to edge has been the biggest help to me having self control especially now at my age when I need an hour before I can repeat again. The positive aspect is when I do cum it’s explosive and much more intense for me .
How did you learn to edge may I ask
Thx "
Also interested in how you learn this. Myself it can vary, again it ranges from a couple of mins to around 10 - 15 mins. Depends on the level of arousement and mood, how I try to control it. I'd like to be consistent each time at about 15 mins minimum. That doesn't include foreplay. |
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