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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..  "
Yes i think that's it - it suggests to me that we're not on the same level in terms of sexual maturity. And by that I'm not dissing anyone who has had limited physical sexual experiences, but there are other ways to explore what you're into. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wait till they meet a someone into cannibalism who wants them to dine on their own penis.
Then they'll change their minds. "
That's me being more careful who I chat too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
yep 100% agree totally turn off for us to the point that we will block if on there profile ...will do anything will do anybody is just so desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
yep 100% agree totally turn off for us to the point that we will block if on there profile ...will do anything will do anybody is just so desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.
I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?
It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.
I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help. "
I'll bring my drill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
Yes it’s a big turn off for me too. Why would a person even want to be “up for anything” ? I don’t get it, and it instantly makes me question their sexual health and standards. |
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"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..
Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy. "
What? At the same time?
I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet. |
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
my opinion exactly  |
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"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..
Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.
What? At the same time?
I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet. "
On the other hand, maybe they’re just of the mindset of “don’t knock it until you’ve tried it”?
I’m certainly up for *most* things, possibly including things I’ve not even thought of before! |
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"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..
Yes i think that's it - it suggests to me that we're not on the same level in terms of sexual maturity. And by that I'm not dissing anyone who has had limited physical sexual experiences, but there are other ways to explore what you're into. "
Just as i see it. I find it mostly on the younger profiles. It tends to mean they dont know what they want, yet. I just prefer they say that and open to new experiences then maybe mention 1 or 2 things. But ill try anything just seems to come across as more "i just wanna get my end away" |
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"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..
Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.
What? At the same time?
I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet.
On the other hand, maybe they’re just of the mindset of “don’t knock it until you’ve tried it”?
I’m certainly up for *most* things, possibly including things I’ve not even thought of before! "
Of course! Ive knocked a few "Im never doing that" tings off my list and tried new things id never even thought about before. But i do know i wont try anything once. Like i will never be your human toilet. So for someone to say they have no limits is, well, bollocks. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..
Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.
What? At the same time?
I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet. "
Bless their little cotton socks.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?
It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.
I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help.
I'll bring my drill. "
Hope you have a good 12" bit |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?
It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.
I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help.
I'll bring my drill.
Hope you have a good 12" bit "
Hammer time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting one this OP . I think when asked this i dont want to say to much incase it puts the other person off and they arent into what i am into . Dont want to scare them off lol |
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Everyone has limits, some will stretch them and try things once then never again!
CBT is usally where most guys will draw the line, but not all! I know some mistresses that nail things to boards, ouch!!
I dont like recieving any pain, giving it out is fine but only with the willing and with permission etc. |
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"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
Whys it a take what you can get attitude? If you want something spesific, ask for it. If you're open to suggestions then your up for anything.
Not an issue in my eyes but that's me.
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