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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
Explain?...sure
It's their fking business what personal preferences they write on a profile.
OR
They don't have to tick the TV/TS box and you'd never know what they're really looking for on this site.....
Which would you prefer OP?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
Probably exactly the same as you selecting straight and then in your Bio saying you do play with women maybe?
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
I get a lot of ‘Straight’ guys fab and message me a lot of compliments about my cock which I always thank them, then they say how much they want to suck it lol I just say you’re Straight and the normal reply is that if they put Bi on they won’t meet women!! I just say look at my verifications it hasn’t hindered me!!
The other Straight guys who fuck TVs I’m not sure what is going on there. |
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
I get a lot of ‘Straight’ guys fab and message me a lot of compliments about my cock which I always thank them, then they say how much they want to suck it lol I just say you’re Straight and the normal reply is that if they put Bi on they won’t meet women!! I just say look at my verifications it hasn’t hindered me!!
The other Straight guys who fuck TVs I’m not sure what is going on there."
Denial and delusion is a whole lot of what’s going on there lol. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
Explain?...sure
It's their fking business what personal preferences they write on a profile.
OR
They don't have to tick the TV/TS box and you'd never know what they're really looking for on this site.....
Which would you prefer OP?
Enjoy fab!"
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"Self-denial....
OR
Experimental....
Which is what swinging is all about....
Unless my mindset is in a minority way of thinking."
Mindset is never fixed but Experimental is 2/3 even 5 but looking to meet is something else the important thing is to be true to yourself and denying yourself is a long lonely road ..
This is a guess but may guys how looking for meet put straight trying to keep there opposition as large as possible as many couples not meet Bi guys out of preference so opening cover there sexualty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who cares what anyone puts? Unless of course you plan on discriminating against anyone that’s bi "
They might not want to meet a bi person. People who can choose who they do - or don't - fuck.
It's not discrimination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who cares what anyone puts? Unless of course you plan on discriminating against anyone that’s bi
They might not want to meet a bi person. People who can choose who they do - or don't - fuck.
It's not discrimination. "
100% this! |
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Because there isn't a drop down option that says
*I'm straight 90% of the time, but I've got an itch I want to scratch, or I'm exploring my sexuality, or maybe I might be bi, but I'm not ready to admit that to others (or possibly even myself) because toxic arseholes seem to believe sexuality is a fixed thing and judge others for not living in easily categorisable boxes that aren't there for my benefit*?
Unless they're persistently hitting on you, what's the problem? And even if they were, it takes seconds to block them and set your filters to stop single men even seeing your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Self-denial....
OR
Experimental....
Which is what swinging is all about....
Unless my mindset is in a minority way of thinking.
Mindset is never fixed but Experimental is 2/3 even 5 but looking to meet is something else the important thing is to be true to yourself and denying yourself is a long lonely road ..
This is a guess but may guys how looking for meet put straight trying to keep there opposition as large as possible as many couples not meet Bi guys out of preference so opening cover there sexualty."
Yes they do tick the straight box, just so they aren't left out of the search loop.
My god it's hard enough for guys on here, who genuinely want to meet.
How are they denying anything if they talk in private to TV/TS and/or show they would like to meet them.
The issue lies with those who aren't 'into' Bi men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even ignoring fab straight, having TV/TS as one category isnt helpful imo.
And wanting to meet doesnt mean wanting to play.
I'm open to meeting anyone for a drink but tend to not have men in my "wanting to meet" as it just attracts a load more messages ... |
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The other Straight guys who fuck TVs I’m not sure what is going on there.
If their profile says 'straight' their message goes straight in the bin  "
This  it’s actually on my profile only Bi guys who are actively interested in TV’s.
I’m not someone’s experiment or next best thing to a woman.
The sexuality issue is their issue, I know what I am. |
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"Self-denial....
OR
Experimental....
Which is what swinging is all about....
Unless my mindset is in a minority way of thinking.
Mindset is never fixed but Experimental is 2/3 even 5 but looking to meet is something else the important thing is to be true to yourself and denying yourself is a long lonely road ..
This is a guess but may guys how looking for meet put straight trying to keep there opposition as large as possible as many couples not meet Bi guys out of preference so opening cover there sexualty.
Yes they do tick the straight box, just so they aren't left out of the search loop.
My god it's hard enough for guys on here, who genuinely want to meet.
How are they denying anything if they talk in private to TV/TS and/or show they would like to meet them.
The issue lies with those who aren't 'into' Bi men.
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Lol we do not meet Bi men or straight guy who would play with TV..
Not sure it's a real problem plenty people will some won't like us but it is only save awkward moment in play so see nothing wrong with our choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Self-denial....
OR
Experimental....
Which is what swinging is all about....
Unless my mindset is in a minority way of thinking.
Mindset is never fixed but Experimental is 2/3 even 5 but looking to meet is something else the important thing is to be true to yourself and denying yourself is a long lonely road ..
This is a guess but may guys how looking for meet put straight trying to keep there opposition as large as possible as many couples not meet Bi guys out of preference so opening cover there sexualty.
Yes they do tick the straight box, just so they aren't left out of the search loop.
My god it's hard enough for guys on here, who genuinely want to meet.
How are they denying anything if they talk in private to TV/TS and/or show they would like to meet them.
The issue lies with those who aren't 'into' Bi men.
Lol we do not meet Bi men or straight guy who would play with TV..
Not sure it's a real problem plenty people will some won't like us but it is only save awkward moment in play so see nothing wrong with our choices. "
Good luck with those who you have considered as straight.
Everybody has something sexual to hide - just to achieve what they want.
Saying straight on any profile is no guarantee they are ....
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
Precisely my point aswell.
But, I get lambasted for pointing this out aswell in the past on (fab). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can be curious having not done anything about it because if you put curious your inbox is overflowing with disgusting suggestions before you have even chatted |
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
They're not as "straight" as the think?
Fab "straight" does my head in. Just be honest....makes it easier for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
They're not as "straight" as the think?
Fab "straight" does my head in. Just be honest....makes it easier for everyone."
Why????
Still I get no answer to a one word question.
It's nobodies business how they want to advertise their sexuality. Either on fab or in the outside world.....
Get real you'll never know 100% if the next guy is straight or not.
Pointless asking or for it to even bother you!
That's if you meet guys.... |
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"Desperation after not being successful. On a serious note a person wishes to explore which is their own choice and shouldn't be judged by this"
Which is a strange note given the judgement that seems to be dripping from your first sentence... |
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Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
They're not as "straight" as the think?
Fab "straight" does my head in. Just be honest....makes it easier for everyone.
Why????
Still I get no answer to a one word question.
It's nobodies business how they want to advertise their sexuality. Either on fab or in the outside world.....
Get real you'll never know 100% if the next guy is straight or not.
Pointless asking or for it to even bother you!
That's if you meet guys...."
I think the sexuality tick box should be binned. 'Looking for' covers it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight and have no interest in sucking cock or taking anal from one.
Since I joined fab I've discovered that enjoy anal play with a few toys and I like the taste of my own cum.
Oh and I've also thought to myself a few times about some TV/TS that I'd be tempted to slip them a length (excuse the terminology )
I am definitely straight though |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I'm straight and have no interest in sucking cock or taking anal from one.
Since I joined fab I've discovered that enjoy anal play with a few toys and I like the taste of my own cum.
Oh and I've also thought to myself a few times about some TV/TS that I'd be tempted to slip them a length (excuse the terminology )
I am definitely straight though "
I know |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
Sheffield |
This used to really wind me up. I hated it when 'straight' men used to message me for meets. However, you've got to realise that most men are fairly simple and above all they are visual creatures. If it looks like a woman, acts like a woman and presents like a woman then it's a woman to most men. There's even a name for it; Gynosexuality. It's an attraction to femininity. These days I cut straight men a bit of slack. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Desperation after not being successful. On a serious note a person wishes to explore which is their own choice and shouldn't be judged by this
Which is a strange note given the judgement that seems to be dripping from your first sentence... "
But on a more serious note people should focus more on themselves rather than what anyone else is doing this is the main problem those who question are themselves labelled like do you and let everyone else do whatever most are starting to sound like Boris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
Well as TV/TS identify as females that makes the guy straight, okay?
If they seek hairy cds and men then that makes the guys gay. Simples.  |
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"Desperation after not being successful. On a serious note a person wishes to explore which is their own choice and shouldn't be judged by this
Which is a strange note given the judgement that seems to be dripping from your first sentence...
But on a more serious note people should focus more on themselves rather than what anyone else is doing this is the main problem those who question are themselves labelled like do you and let everyone else do whatever most are starting to sound like Boris "
Did I misread your post?
Did you not bundle up 'straight' men who want to play with TV/TS as being because they couldn't get in on with anyone else?
That struck me as being pretty judgemental and insulting to all concerned. If you meant it as a joke, I apologise. It didn't come across that way. |
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
Well as TV/TS identify as females that makes the guy straight, okay?
If they seek hairy cds and men then that makes the guys gay. Simples. "
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Desperation after not being successful. On a serious note a person wishes to explore which is their own choice and shouldn't be judged by this
Which is a strange note given the judgement that seems to be dripping from your first sentence...
But on a more serious note people should focus more on themselves rather than what anyone else is doing this is the main problem those who question are themselves labelled like do you and let everyone else do whatever most are starting to sound like Boris
Did I misread your post?
Did you not bundle up 'straight' men who want to play with TV/TS as being because they couldn't get in on with anyone else?
That struck me as being pretty judgemental and insulting to all concerned. If you meant it as a joke, I apologise. It didn't come across that way. "
No need to apologise it's like I've said people need to focus on themselves not others this is how society gets split I was born in a era less people made judgement was more togetherness and still now judgement first part was a joke hence why I put on a serious note I never judge |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"U one of them dummy look at
Your profile says u are straight but then on your bio it says u play with women too
The irony "
yeah didnt think this one thru I was a little d*unk tho and I kinda answered my own question lol however at least I'm being honest but yeah I hold my hands up to my fuckup |
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain "
You’re asking folks to justify how they identify themselves with your passive aggressive request. Why do you feel an explanation is required? No one owes you one. |
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Perhaps if the say bi they'll just get bombarded with requests, alternatively perhaps they like a woman's form shape attitude etc and that can possibly be found with TVs etc - someone mentioned experimental |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there isn't a drop down option that says
*I'm straight 90% of the time, but I've got an itch I want to scratch, or I'm exploring my sexuality, or maybe I might be bi, but I'm not ready to admit that to others (or possibly even myself) because toxic arseholes seem to believe sexuality is a fixed thing and judge others for not living in easily categorisable boxes that aren't there for my benefit*?
Unless they're persistently hitting on you, what's the problem? And even if they were, it takes seconds to block them and set your filters to stop single men even seeing your profile. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only explanation for this is that the straight persons desires are straight to them as they don’t have labels 
I am straight in the sense that I enjoy the opposite sex but not all humans are the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
You’re asking folks to justify how they identify themselves with your passive aggressive request. Why do you feel an explanation is required? No one owes you one. "
passive aggressive??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See loads of updates and profiles from 'straight' men looking for women or ts/tv girls someone please explain
Well as TV/TS identify as females that makes the guy straight, okay?
If they seek hairy cds and men then that makes the guys gay. Simples. "
ah never thought of it that way.i actually didnt think at all when I posted which I've already apologised for |
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By *zlakMan
over a year ago
Norwich |
"Self-denial....
OR
Experimental....
Which is what swinging is all about....
Unless my mindset is in a minority way of thinking.
Mindset is never fixed but Experimental is 2/3 even 5 but looking to meet is something else the important thing is to be true to yourself and denying yourself is a long lonely road ..
This is a guess but may guys how looking for meet put straight trying to keep there opposition as large as possible as many couples not meet Bi guys out of preference so opening cover there sexualty.
Yes they do tick the straight box, just so they aren't left out of the search loop.
My god it's hard enough for guys on here, who genuinely want to meet.
How are they denying anything if they talk in private to TV/TS and/or show they would like to meet them.
The issue lies with those who aren't 'into' Bi men.
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Exactly this |
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I always loathe when people ask for my “label.”
“Pansexual, but not pan-romantic” is a mouthful, and especially annoying when all I really seek is a mouthful
I’m not romantically interested in men, but I’m aroused by performing oral on anyone, particularly if they are domineering or assertive - which tends to be a more common trait in men. So I normally end up just saying “bi” and subsequently saying “bye” to the few ladies who decline people of that orientation.
No big deal in the grand scheme of things, but labels can be a pain. |
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"Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely "
Well you'd think not... But as there are at least one of these angry threads a week about those who might fancy Chinese tonight and they want to run their profile their way... Or perhaps their profile hasn't been updated recently? Then we get the just be "honest" ... Honest about age? Or location perhaps? Or smoking? Or body shape? Or height? Or partnered up? Or haven't got clubs on their preferences, or can't travel or accommodate? Nothing to see here... Next up... Why do men cheat? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely
Well you'd think not... But as there are at least one of these angry threads a week about those who might fancy Chinese tonight and they want to run their profile their way... Or perhaps their profile hasn't been updated recently? Then we get the just be "honest" ... Honest about age? Or location perhaps? Or smoking? Or body shape? Or height? Or partnered up? Or haven't got clubs on their preferences, or can't travel or accommodate? Nothing to see here... Next up... Why do men cheat? "
I've apologised for my post I was pissed and not thinking ,I had a fb for over a year and recently found out he loves cock and TVs but wont ever admit to the cock bit and I know he doesn't use protection |
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"Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely
Well you'd think not... But as there are at least one of these angry threads a week about those who might fancy Chinese tonight and they want to run their profile their way... Or perhaps their profile hasn't been updated recently? Then we get the just be "honest" ... Honest about age? Or location perhaps? Or smoking? Or body shape? Or height? Or partnered up? Or haven't got clubs on their preferences, or can't travel or accommodate? Nothing to see here... Next up... Why do men cheat?
I've apologised for my post I was pissed and not thinking ,I had a fb for over a year and recently found out he loves cock and TVs but wont ever admit to the cock bit and I know he doesn't use protection "
Gosh that's a lot to process. Hope you're feeling better now. Luckily as it's an fb it's easier to move on? It's not necessarily the op but the responses which for a community of tolerant, friendly open minded people I find odd.
Can you imagine if a man posted... "fuck me, imagine my horror when I met a lady off fabs, her profile said she was straight but when I got to hers she said did I mind if her girlfriend joined us?... I left immediately in disgust and blocked her" |
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"Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely
Well you'd think not... But as there are at least one of these angry threads a week about those who might fancy Chinese tonight and they want to run their profile their way... Or perhaps their profile hasn't been updated recently? Then we get the just be "honest" ... Honest about age? Or location perhaps? Or smoking? Or body shape? Or height? Or partnered up? Or haven't got clubs on their preferences, or can't travel or accommodate? Nothing to see here... Next up... Why do men cheat?
I've apologised for my post I was pissed and not thinking ,I had a fb for over a year and recently found out he loves cock and TVs but wont ever admit to the cock bit and I know he doesn't use protection "
Phew, that’s rough |
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"Does it matter, if they identified as a penguin, would it matter
Especially on a place like Fab people experiment, what you thought were your boundaries evolve over time, this is a good thing surely "
Personally if they identified as a penguin I wouldn't meet them, that's a hard limit for me. I have mental images of them hogging the bath and crying out for sardines |
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The delusion of these allegedly 'straight' men on here is just BEYOND.
Unlike some here, I actually mean EXACTLY what I state in my profile and I will never be in the habit of changing my sexual orientation in order to meet up with someone.
These straight men (and anyone else on here, for that matter) that initiate contact _ased on YOUR truth, yet want you to look beyond their lie?
Ha!
BYE.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could be how prople define sexuality.
For instance the op may consider herself straight because she wouldnt have a relationship with a woman, But having sex with them is ok.
Is she bisexual if she wouldnt consider dating someone of the same sex?
If so soes that mean anyone using sextoys become onjetophilliacs? In which case we need another sexuality added to fab lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're not straight or any hole will do lol
My vagina is much tighter than many cis women’s. I guess that’s attractive. 
How do you know this "
Sexual experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The delusion of these allegedly 'straight' men on here is just BEYOND.
Unlike some here, I actually mean EXACTLY what I state in my profile and I will never be in the habit of changing my sexual orientation in order to meet up with someone.
These straight men (and anyone else on here, for that matter) that initiate contact _ased on YOUR truth, yet want you to look beyond their lie?
Ha!
BYE.
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