At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? |
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over a year ago
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? "
when the fun stops....stop. |
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"And honestly dude I would just give up.
The ladies on here prefer meeting men who don’t complain, and remember they have their inboxes full of messages from other blokes"
I wasn’t complaining I was asking for advice |
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? "
Have a proper location for a start. We instantly dismiss any messages when the profile says "just ask, Just around the corner, Near the chippy" etc. Have a location that makes sense so that couples can find you on an area search. Otherwise you might as well be on the dark side of the moon.
Also, open up your age groups. You have gone 13 years younger but only 8 years older. If you want a fuck, open your mind to older couples and females.
If you have played bi in a 3some, then alter your profile to bi or bi curious, that will open up a whole new group of people who are looking for a bi or bi curious guy.
Your photos are okay but you have 2 virtually identical. It's nice to see that you don't have 500 pics of your cock lol but one cock pic may help, Milf likes to see what may be getting inside her on a profile and I'm sure that others may feel the same.
Other than that, don't give up. There's hundreds of single guys looking for a meet, so change your profile a bit, inject a bit of humour in to it and add a few more pics. Read it few a few times and put yourself in the place of a couple, would it attract you if you were looking for a single guy.
Basically sell yourself to others.
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in?
Have a proper location for a start. We instantly dismiss any messages when the profile says "just ask, Just around the corner, Near the chippy" etc. Have a location that makes sense so that couples can find you on an area search. Otherwise you might as well be on the dark side of the moon.
Also, open up your age groups. You have gone 13 years younger but only 8 years older. If you want a fuck, open your mind to older couples and females.
If you have played bi in a 3some, then alter your profile to bi or bi curious, that will open up a whole new group of people who are looking for a bi or bi curious guy.
Your photos are okay but you have 2 virtually identical. It's nice to see that you don't have 500 pics of your cock lol but one cock pic may help, Milf likes to see what may be getting inside her on a profile and I'm sure that others may feel the same.
Other than that, don't give up. There's hundreds of single guys looking for a meet, so change your profile a bit, inject a bit of humour in to it and add a few more pics. Read it few a few times and put yourself in the place of a couple, would it attract you if you were looking for a single guy.
Basically sell yourself to others.
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? "
Like CV's send out plentiful and await replys.
I have a rule. Give time to people whom value yours, the one's who dont, discard them. |
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? "
Erm whenever fun stops stop...... |
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Same poor me thread we see every day from blokes that feel hard done by cause they don’t get reply’s !
Do yourself a favor if you have the confidence to put your fab account on blast and make a thread you obviously have the confidence to hit the threads and chat rooms and get social !
Stop moaning and dwelling on what you feel you deserve from this site and just have the laugh ! You’ll find meeting people far easier
This isn’t a dig it’s honest advice mate
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over a year ago
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"Well I don’t think I was anyway  "
Sometimes people get stuck in a mindset that they believe it’s easier, and safer, to not try a new approach and they almost self-sabotage themselves.
A small change in thinking won’t guarantee success, but you will, at least, give yourself a chance of success, and even a 1% chance of success is always going to beat 0% - it’s simple maths!
And you might even find that a different approach was actually fun!
Remember when your on your deathbed the only things you regret will be the things you never did! |
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"Well I don’t think I was anyway
Sometimes people get stuck in a mindset that they believe it’s easier, and safer, to not try a new approach and they almost self-sabotage themselves.
A small change in thinking won’t guarantee success, but you will, at least, give yourself a chance of success, and even a 1% chance of success is always going to beat 0% - it’s simple maths!
And you might even find that a different approach was actually fun!
Remember when your on your deathbed the only things you regret will be the things you never did! "
Copy and paste that !
Cause I’m sure in 5 mins time some other lad is going to be asking the same shit !
Great advice |
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? "
Not much of a consolation because you might not like what we do and you are too far away. However, if you were close to us, we would meet because you have clear body pictures and you accommodate. We find that both those points are rare on here from single men |
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Op honestly I been where you are and applying all the same logic you do. I took a month away to focus on myself and be happy with myself as a person. It hasn’t changed my results but changed my outlook. I took myself to a club which was really out of my comfort zone and although I didn’t play it made me more confident about myself. Fab is hard a single male but you have to use the tools available to make yourself come across as the best version of you. |
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"At what point do you give up?
I don’t think I am bad looking. Got some decent verifications. Have an average size cock.
I send face pics with my messages and when asked. Send decent length messages but can’t seem to have any luck on here. I know ladies and couples get hundreds of messages.
But at what point do you throw the towel in? "
I think you have to ask is this adding anything to my life? Am I enjoying it? Is my energy better spent else where?
I dont think you can change the game so maybe you have to ask is there a better game I could be playing or do I hang in here. And you can also focus your energy elsewhere and come back.
If your looking to swing and engage with the wider scene then this is the place. If your just looking for causal sex in my experience your far better off on a few of the popular dating apps that support/know for people seeking NSA sex as long as your honest with your intent. Although remember the ratios are simular and women are still picky and specific (and rightly so). And in my experience although it's NSA the your character, nature and personality is massively important.
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"Op honestly I been where you are and applying all the same logic you do. I took a month away to focus on myself and be happy with myself as a person. It hasn’t changed my results but changed my outlook. I took myself to a club which was really out of my comfort zone and although I didn’t play it made me more confident about myself. Fab is hard a single male but you have to use the tools available to make yourself come across as the best version of you. "
Very true in my experience as a single guy. I still count my first club visit back when I was a single guy as a massive mile stone in the path of my own person development. |
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