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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So just out of curiosity how much do you enjoy kissing on a meet ? Are you one who doesn't like it ?
Asking as a couple that I meet have certain stipulations, condoms ( thats a given anyway ) no anal ( not that into it so okay ) and finally you can't kiss her ! I enjoy playing with them but have found it a little more detached than with others I have played with. And yes I know I will probably get asked " how can it be detached if you've got your cock in her ? " well I don't know, I just love kissing on a meet, looking into someone's eyes as you play and kissing them just feels so much better. I know some people say it as they find it too intimate. So just wondering does anyone else find it changes the dynamic and if so for the better or worse ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general, I don’t like kissing. Way too intimate, plus I also think about hygiene and stuff. Saying that, I’ve had plenty of bareback sex in my lifetime so it’s quite contradictory really.
Also, my current play partner(s) don’t kiss me - I don’t know if that’s because I’m a shit kisser or they know I don’t like kissing, or they just don’t like kissing. Meh. |
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"So just out of curiosity how much do you enjoy kissing on a meet ? Are you one who doesn't like it ?
Asking as a couple that I meet have certain stipulations, condoms ( thats a given anyway ) no anal ( not that into it so okay ) and finally you can't kiss her ! I enjoy playing with them but have found it a little more detached than with others I have played with. And yes I know I will probably get asked " how can it be detached if you've got your cock in her ? " well I don't know, I just love kissing on a meet, looking into someone's eyes as you play and kissing them just feels so much better. I know some people say it as they find it too intimate. So just wondering does anyone else find it changes the dynamic and if so for the better or worse ?"
I always use condoms and never kiss at clubs/gang bangs or meets. |
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"I absolutely love kissing. I find it such a turn on. Never understood the "no kissing" rule some have.
mines not a rule... but I rarely kiss and it can make me feel very uncomfortable "
That's totally understandable. I meant when its put in the same category as no pain, pee or poo comments. |
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"I absolutely love kissing. I find it such a turn on. Never understood the "no kissing" rule some have.
mines not a rule... but I rarely kiss and it can make me feel very uncomfortable
That's totally understandable. I meant when its put in the same category as no pain, pee or poo comments. "
see for me it is the same
It's a sexual preference, same as those that dont like oral..or cum or anything.
However I've noticed kissing seems to be the one that people really dont get.... or seem to think makes it cold and clinical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously everyone is different and we all have our own preferences…
I love kissing, it adds a level of passion, however it’s not the be all end all. Some people simply don’t like it.
End of the day if you’re all having a good fun time within everyone’s personal boundaries, you’re doing it right  |
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We don't kiss our casual partners. It probably is a different dynamic to meets where everyone kisses but in a world where you can consensually meet in any legal way you want, dynamics will vary .
I think people are looking for different things from their meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing turns me on. Probably more than foreplay. If I can't kiss you and smile halfway through whilst I have naughty thoughts going through my mind I'm probably not going to be able to get into the zone. |
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Kissing is a huge turn on for me like going down on someone both get me very excited and I like to feel connected with the person even if it is just for that one of meet makes it much more intense if you don’t kiss it cheapens the act |
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"Kissing is a huge turn on for me like going down on someone both get me very excited and I like to feel connected with the person even if it is just for that one of meet makes it much more intense if you don’t kiss it cheapens the act "
In what way does it cheapen it? |
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"Kissing is a huge turn on for me like going down on someone both get me very excited and I like to feel connected with the person even if it is just for that one of meet makes it much more intense if you don’t kiss it cheapens the act
In what way does it cheapen it?"
I dont get the cheapen comment either I'm always told how passionate and sensual I am when its 121 yet rarely kiss. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
It’s a key component for me, I want the intimacy in meets, not just the mechanics, kissing is a huge turn on and even if some meets were just kissing and cuddling/touching, that would be better than sex without kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a key component for me, I want the intimacy in meets, not just the mechanics, kissing is a huge turn on and even if some meets were just kissing and cuddling/touching, that would be better than sex without kissing."
I'm with you on that one too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just out of curiosity how much do you enjoy kissing on a meet ? Are you one who doesn't like it ?
Asking as a couple that I meet have certain stipulations, condoms ( thats a given anyway ) no anal ( not that into it so okay ) and finally you can't kiss her ! I enjoy playing with them but have found it a little more detached than with others I have played with. And yes I know I will probably get asked " how can it be detached if you've got your cock in her ? " well I don't know, I just love kissing on a meet, looking into someone's eyes as you play and kissing them just feels so much better. I know some people say it as they find it too intimate. So just wondering does anyone else find it changes the dynamic and if so for the better or worse ?"
I must admit, I never really understand the "no kissing" stipulation, but each to their own, I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It started with a kiss.
Kissing is felt deeply, what the eyes cannot sometimes see..
In the Tune by Baby D , let me be your fantasy , she sings let me release the Colours in your mind!
I have experienced with only a very small handful of women kissing that actually made me want to kiss kiss and keep kissing for hour's on end. Intensely, deeper,hotter passionately,harder longer, then that turns me on more and more. And makes my Cock very hard with dripping pre- cum, and the balls very hard full and they ache so full with hot hot horny cum... |
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Have met couples where the wife doesn’t kiss, and met couples where the wife insisted I kiss her.
All great meets just slightly different, personal choice is kissing the wife as I slip my hand into her knickers with hubby watching |
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"It’s a key component for me, I want the intimacy in meets, not just the mechanics, kissing is a huge turn on and even if some meets were just kissing and cuddling/touching, that would be better than sex without kissing."
Yes, exactly this ^^
It’s like eating a roast dinner without any gravy  |
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By *hirjayCouple
over a year ago
Stafford |
Took time to go through all posts here, was interested as it was about kissing. There are so many people who keep the kissing as personal, and I think that may be due to many reasons, understanding in a couple, hygiene and many more...so it is actually personal preference and we all have to respect that. If it comes to us, we love kissing and that makes us feel close to them, energise our passion, enhance the sex and definitely tuns us on than anything else. Recently we kissed in a group everybody into everybody, it was in no time we realised whom we really wanted to have more and who really wanting us...so yes we love it xxx |
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Kissing is definitely something we love to do on a meet, I couldn’t imagine meeting a lady and not kiss her! I love seeing mr kiss another lady too, massive turn on and certainly sets the mood! Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Took time to go through all posts here, was interested as it was about kissing. There are so many people who keep the kissing as personal, and I think that may be due to many reasons, understanding in a couple, hygiene and many more...so it is actually personal preference and we all have to respect that. If it comes to us, we love kissing and that makes us feel close to them, energise our passion, enhance the sex and definitely tuns us on than anything else. Recently we kissed in a group everybody into everybody, it was in no time we realised whom we really wanted to have more and who really wanting us...so yes we love it xxx"
Totally agree |
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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago
NOTTINGHAM |
It depends who it’s with, we have played with guys on pre-arranged meets and as things have happened in clubs with no kissing. If there’s a real attraction there then the kissing has happened naturally |
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Kissing on the face or neck with someone else is a no-no with us. Its just that we need something that is exclusive to just our loving relationship.
Every where else is fine as that is just sexual fun.
G&A |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"When I meet on a swinging date i do like to kiss the lady as that immediately tells us both how good things will be. Without kissing things seem a bit clinical"
If you think that's bad - wait until she pulls out a clipboard.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing and giving oral , for me that's almost as big a part as the actual intercourse. (also used to be told I was pretty damn good kisser but now doubting it)
But it's a Personal Preference for all People and you have to respect that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It certainly enhances things in a good way. But I must have a good chemistry and connection going with the person that can only develop over time as we get to know each other better. Without it I'd rather wouldn't kiss. |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
Alton |
My first threesome was with a couple who didn't want to kiss. I found it really difficult adapting to and thought it was the norm for swinging. Kinda put me off.
Lucky I then met a couple who were interested in kissing.
I can understand why with making things less intimate and infections thou.
Guess if rather meet people interested in regular meets than one offs
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I was at an orgy in Cupid’s club years ago
I was licking an oriental girls pussy while she sucked my cock
Afterwards I cam up for a kiss on her mouth and she said “no kiss
So weird."
Not weird - a choice. There are probably lots of things you would choose not to do.
I don't like kissing guys I play with because I associate kissing with romance and I swing for pure sex not romance. On the other hand I love kissing other women but that isn't associated with romance because although I'm definitely bisexual I wouldn't have a romantic relationship with a woman.
Interestingly in all the time we have been swinging I can't think of a single guy who has even tried to kiss me, let alone been disappointed because I didn't kiss him. |
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Kissing is deal a breaker for me. I absolutely love it as part of foreplay. It’s a great starter for steamy passionate sex that gets the juices flowing.
I understand that it can be too intimate for some however no kissing/snogging, no intercourse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intimacy is a major component for us ,or else feels like detached and machine . No fun in fucking .
Kissing also makes you feel you own that moment ,it's all yours .
If it's just fucking then we have each other anyway . |
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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Intimacy is a major component for us ,or else feels like detached and machine . No fun in fucking .
Kissing also makes you feel you own that moment ,it's all yours .
If it's just fucking then we have each other anyway ."
Quite right. Just how I feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me sex without kissing is like driving with the handbrake on, you are still going to get to your destination, but something doesn't quite feel right!!!
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And after a while, it starts to smell like burning |
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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
We both said that we wouldn't.
That went out the window very quickly.
But we respect others who don't.
In my profession I used to kiss women all the time ( on the cheek) and shake mens hands. Just have to make sure that I don't get it wrong. Lol |
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"For me sex without kissing is like driving with the handbrake on, you are still going to get to your destination, but something doesn't quite feel right!!!
And after a while, it starts to smell like burning "
ROFL that me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my partner are new to actually wanting to share eachother but strangly sex with others we see as "fun" and to the point of what we are wanting. Kissing however we see more intimate, passionate, love, all of which we have with eachother and dont want to cross the boundary with my partner with another man that theirs intimacy or passionate sex as its just fulfilling our fantasy ratger than having an intimate relationship |
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"Me and my partner are new to actually wanting to share eachother but strangly sex with others we see as "fun" and to the point of what we are wanting. Kissing however we see more intimate, passionate, love, all of which we have with eachother and dont want to cross the boundary with my partner with another man that theirs intimacy or passionate sex as its just fulfilling our fantasy ratger than having an intimate relationship "
You don't have to justify the way you do things. People will insist that kissing is vital and that they won't meet those of us who don't kiss and that it ther right. By the same token it's your right to say you don't want to kiss and won't meet people who do. |
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"Why oh why is kissing not on ones interests list on here ???
This thread shows its popularity for couples fems and guys.
Fabguys does include it though"
We note on our profile that we don't kiss. It does rather depend on people reading it though  |
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"Kissing is such a turn on for me, it's part of sex just like oral or any other kind of foreplay "
it is part of sex but it is also a part of sex that isnt always required. Not everyone wants foreplay or kissing
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I couldn't not kiss, I could just spend ages in bed just kissing with the right person."
See this is it exactly, I could also just lay there, kissing. Someone with their head on my chest and legs entwined as I hold them close. Especially after playing, those moments afterwards are amazing. |
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