Know several couples, it takes ton of honesty.
Basically swinging but with attachment and requires no jealousy.
Seen alot crumble due to being dishonest, or where the guy told several of them they were primary |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
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The idea sounds fantastic being about to have strong connection physically and emotionally with more than one person.
However I'm quite a private person when it comes to my sex life.
Not sure how I'd introduce my partner's to other people? |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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There are a couple of really good books about dealing with the dynamics and emotions of polyamory.
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, which I’ve read and can very much recommend.
More than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, which I haven’t read yet but which is also supposed to be very good. |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
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"There are a couple of really good books about dealing with the dynamics and emotions of polyamory.
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, which I’ve read and can very much recommend.
More than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, which I haven’t read yet but which is also supposed to be very good. "
Thank you might have to check them out. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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I think it’s likely to be more difficult to introduce this into existing non poly relationships than it is to start new relationships on a poly basis, but the extent that people want to be poly can vary greatly, it’s not a single type of situation. I have a good description of the types in an image format that I’m happy to send over to anyone interested |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
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"I think it’s likely to be more difficult to introduce this into existing non poly relationships than it is to start new relationships on a poly basis, but the extent that people want to be poly can vary greatly, it’s not a single type of situation. I have a good description of the types in an image format that I’m happy to send over to anyone interested "
Definitely be interested to see that.
Imagine that's very true your proposing a radical change to your relationship and changing the dynamics to why you got together.
As apose to bring open from the get go.
I struggle with the latter as I said I'm relatively private about my sex life and screaming I'm looking for a poly relationship would definably get back to work and family |
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By *ack688Man
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"I think it’s likely to be more difficult to introduce this into existing non poly relationships than it is to start new relationships on a poly basis, but the extent that people want to be poly can vary greatly, it’s not a single type of situation. I have a good description of the types in an image format that I’m happy to send over to anyone interested
Definitely be interested to see that.
Imagine that's very true your proposing a radical change to your relationship and changing the dynamics to why you got together.
As apose to bring open from the get go.
I struggle with the latter as I said I'm relatively private about my sex life and screaming I'm looking for a poly relationship would definably get back to work and family"
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
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Thanks for the info
Imagine hierarchy polyamory is most common. Meeting someone like minded and opening up your relationship to over partner's. However correct me if I'm wrong I imagine not being the primary is very emotionally taxing and could easily lead to feeling isolated.
Imagine the is a higher "turn over" in none primarys.
Polyfidelity sounds dreamy especially if it was as a quad |
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Put simply, because each to their own and things are different for different people, but people change right? That’s the nature of life.
So when you have three individual personalities that change, that’s immediately more complex than 2. It becomes difficult to accommodate the wants and needs of more people. |
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