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So many cock pics on profile pic's - why?

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By *uckslut and M OP   Couple  over a year ago

Poole

Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or when you messages asking to meet up now and there is a blank profile other than just cock pictures

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By *uckslut and M OP   Couple  over a year ago

Poole


"Or when you messages asking to meet up now and there is a blank profile other than just cock pictures "
, yep, just as bad.

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

People can put whatever pictures they want, some like them, some don't.

If they don't appeal, just block them and they won't bother you anymore. It's what we do, as moaning about it won't actually change anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe it's the most attractive part of them

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By *ose and her beastCouple  over a year ago

Watford

Because those people only have that to offer bit of a giveaway to a lazy profile Hur but my dick's big? Yup but your face is clapped xD

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Hahaha i just snorted my coffee by laughing so hard at "crime watch line up".

Just like typical 'masculine' attractiveness standards are actually attractive to other men rather than being what women like, I think this falls in the same category.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Thurrock

They are proud of them, it's their profile so I guess they post what they like

Strangely you never get seem to get guys complaining if women post topless pics

Live & let live & ignore the updates section while eating your breakfast if it puts you off

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

OP you want to try looking at single women and couples profiles . Photo after photo of labias looking like a butchers window. One tit and two tit close ups. It’s just as lazy and pathetic and unappealing. Crap profiles are not gender exclusive on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to use face pictures until I found out they were being used by somebody else to comment and abuse women on the site. Plus I’m sure I work with some people on here who I don’t trust completely. Ya get the dick now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

I agree

And loads will do x

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By *r SxxMan  over a year ago

Kent


"Maybe it's the most attractive part of them "

You got me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hahaha i just snorted my coffee by laughing so hard at "crime watch line up".

Just like typical 'masculine' attractiveness standards are actually attractive to other men rather than being what women like, I think this falls in the same category. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you want to try looking at single women and couples profiles . Photo after photo of labias looking like a butchers window. One tit and two tit close ups. It’s just as lazy and pathetic and unappealing. Crap profiles are not gender exclusive on here "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Up to whoever's profile it is how many they have! Same as how many fanny pics I have on mine personal choice really x

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

40% of today’s Page 1 top fabbed women’s photo normally posted by the fab elite are pussy pics. Ladies get your act together before you start criticising guys. However I feel having a go at men is a favourite pastime for some of you isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a great filter. I spot them and block them so they can't message

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"40% of today’s Page 1 top fabbed women’s photo normally posted by the fab elite are pussy pics. Ladies get your act together before you start criticising guys. However I feel having a go at men is a favourite pastime for some of you isn’t it "

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman  over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes"

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

Why?, why not?. People can put whatever they want on their profiles. A penis is just a body part the same as a leg or boob. So many prudish folk on this site that have a heart attack when they see a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you want to try looking at single women and couples profiles . Photo after photo of labias looking like a butchers window. One tit and two tit close ups. It’s just as lazy and pathetic and unappealing. Crap profiles are not gender exclusive on here "

well said that man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree?

Why?, why not?. People can put whatever they want on their profiles. A penis is just a body part the same as a leg or boob. So many prudish folk on this site that have a heart attack when they see a cock."

agreed

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By *isAdventure69Woman  over a year ago

Hampshire


"OP you want to try looking at single women and couples profiles . Photo after photo of labias looking like a butchers window. One tit and two tit close ups. It’s just as lazy and pathetic and unappealing. Crap profiles are not gender exclusive on here

well said that man "

I was just thinking that exact thing , plenty of women and couples profiles displaying less than tasteful pics in my opinion .

The fact remain … their profile , their choice ! We are all free to run our profile the way we see fit.

We also have different tastes, for every person that doesn’t like a dick pic or oyster shot, there’s plenty that do.

Perhaps we should be more tolerant, mind our own and worry less about what others are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I perv the cock pics. I just don't want them messaged to men without my consent. I find a cock avatar quite aggressive to talk to. So I don't. We all have preferences. The photos that people include help us decide whether to talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

Could you imagine a Crimewatch cock line up.

Police: "So tell me miss, which one of these .... erm.. phalluses offended you? Was it the long slim one with the floppy foreskin that looks like an anteaters nose? Or maybe the button mushroom with balls the size of grapefruits, or possibly the one that looks like a stamped on sausage?"

Miss: "Well .... erm ... none of them really, but can I take the big black one that looks like a black pudding home?"

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman  over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!! "

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?"

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical. "

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unbelievable

If you don't like a way a profile is displayed,ignore it,move on to another,that person or persons is not for you,it's not your business how they conduct their profile,just as how you conduct yours is no one's business but your own

Moaning about someone's profile content says more about you,than it does them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny you woman moan but look at most of you with tits pics as profile pic you lot moan so much on here for dick but then moan when u see it ??

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x"

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unbelievable

If you don't like a way a profile is displayed,ignore it,move on to another,that person or persons is not for you,it's not your business how they conduct their profile,just as how you conduct yours is no one's business but your own

Moaning about someone's profile content says more about you,than it does them"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!! "

Tbh it shouldn't have been any of those things! Shouldn't have been said at all? We are all free to put what we like within the rules on our profiles men and women without being judged tbh! I do for sure vag boobs ass and face! X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Funny you woman moan but look at most of you with tits pics as profile pic you lot moan so much on here for dick but then moan when u see it ??"

I've had jeans and a hoody on - only a few fabs....

Private parts on ladies seem to be popular with MOST guys.

If you didn't want to see those in your mail, you could ask them to send other types of pics - that's what I do with guys OR I ignore those dick only profiles.

I'm just wondering why guys have the pics though if they want to attract more of a crowd???.....

Maybe the OP is only looking for guys atm and keeps coming across cock pictures only.......

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

The tone of the thread is not new in fact there are hundreds of them. It’s almost become a form of profile shaming verging on gender bullying in some instances.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So true

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Only thing I can suggest if it bothers you then block it's why the filters are there each person is entitled to put what they like on their profile within reason but remember it also helps if it's their and not for your liking the opportunity to filter your search...

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By *rhugesMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

So it's perfectly acceptable for women to show their tits and clits but not for guys to show their cocks???

Do you very get men complaining about that. I think not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People should feel free to post whatever pictures they choose on their own profiles.

If a man has 20 different cock pics, that's his choice, his profile, maybe he enjoys showing it off?

I post loads of boob pics, because I like to, it's my profile.

If a profile and the pictures on it aren't for you, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Then guys should be happy enough if all they have on their profiles is cock pics.

We shouldn't see any more posts asking what they are doing wrong then ....

Everyone's a winner!!!

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't like them, so keep mine in private.

Occasionally they have a period in my friends section, but never public.

I'm shy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So it's perfectly acceptable for women to show their tits and clits but not for guys to show their cocks???

Do you very get men complaining about that. I think not"

If you want tits and clits then yes...

But those struggling to meet (men) are wondering what women like to see on their profiles SOME maybe MOST rate a variation of body/clothed or not pictures!

Did you not know that about women - wanting different to men????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

. Question has to be - why do you keep looking ????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***"

Especially ***

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t see why people have an issue with it, this site is designed to let people talk about their kinks. arrange meets with other folk to have good times so I’m amazed that a picture of someone’s genitalia shocks anyone.

I have one public pic of my cock on my profile and that was only made public from advice from comments on another thread as there were a number of ladies there who said they do quite like to see what a guys got if they are engaging with them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve cock photos on my profile because each time I hide them I get a message from someone asking why I hid them.

Unfortunately I can’t please everyone

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

Definitely don't agree.

It's their profile. They can post whatever pictures they like as long as they comply with Fab rules. It's for them to decide, not you or anyone else.

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

would rather see a guys pe full of cock pics than a female profile full of the same pout from different angles

s

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do people moan as much when they're at a club, dogging or on a meet and men stand there with their cocks out?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole."

This ^^^^ x100 and same goes for unsolicited pics.

All the rest is freedom of choice no matter the gender.

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester

I don't think there is anything wrong with a cock pic or two on a blokes profile, after all, most women will be curious about what you have to offer. However, 10+ pics on the profile of your cock, and nothing but your cock, is excessive.

The same applies to women with excessive tit or fanny pics. Yes, "It's their profile they can do want they want with it, blah blah blah" but in the case of the men, it doesn't take a genius to work out why they can't get any meets. In the case of the women, it matters not because blokes will shag anything, luckily for some.

Oh, as for "if you don't like it don't look at them", you don't know what you're looking at until you look (shrug)

Frank

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"I don't think there is anything wrong with a cock pic or two on a blokes profile, after all, most women will be curious about what you have to offer. However, 10+ pics on the profile of your cock, and nothing but your cock, is excessive.

The same applies to women with excessive tit or fanny pics. Yes, "It's their profile they can do want they want with it, blah blah blah" but in the case of the men, it doesn't take a genius to work out why they can't get any meets. In the case of the women, it matters not because blokes will shag anything, luckily for some.

Oh, as for "if you don't like it don't look at them", you don't know what you're looking at until you look (shrug)

Frank"

“Blokes will shag anything “ !!!!!! Maybe that applies to you mate

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By *uckslut and M OP   Couple  over a year ago

Poole


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole."

Exactly this! I think thats what I was getting at. We're not prude as someone said, far from it. But when you have no choice and its shoved in your face. Thats why I said hide it on private. On a profile pic, you have no choice to look if it's on local updates ect.

We as a couple have only page 3 stuff on profile. Always have and always will. Right place and time, yeah.

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!! "

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk."

OMG if we post a dick pic we are all sex pests and rapists now are we. This attitude just highlights what I’ve been saying

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk."

Are you saying that people with lots of cock pics on their profile could be a sex offender?

R

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just posted one lol. Just the one

It’s a sex site. Let people see / judge from the off.

Happy to share plenty more face etc if and when we get chatting. No issue.

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By *lixir of lifeMan  over a year ago

knob Creek


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk."

Good god !!

I can’t believe someone seriously thinks this ..

Couples on here never cease to amaze

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

Good god !!

I can’t believe someone seriously thinks this ..

Couples on here never cease to amaze "

I actually think it's one of the most shocking things I've ever read on here

R

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people moan as much when they're at a club, dogging or on a meet and men stand there with their cocks out? "

Depends if it's warranted in that particular moment.

I'd prefer a drink at the bar, without a cock stirring my drink thank you!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They're not for me, so I just click off their profile.

Its when I get them sent in a message that I get annoyed, like first message 3 cock shots attached but no face pic.

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

OMG if we post a dick pic we are all sex pests and rapists now are we. This attitude just highlights what I’ve been saying "

I certainly didn't say all - are you manipulating my words to suit your agenda?

I merely said there is a proven and well-documented correlation between flashers and sex crime - I guess it's a mild form of forcing people to see something they don't want to see - a disregard for people's choices.

The logic seems clear to me, but as you've often proven, logic is not your strong point

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't think there is anything wrong with a cock pic or two on a blokes profile, after all, most women will be curious about what you have to offer. However, 10+ pics on the profile of your cock, and nothing but your cock, is excessive.

The same applies to women with excessive tit or fanny pics. Yes, "It's their profile they can do want they want with it, blah blah blah" but in the case of the men, it doesn't take a genius to work out why they can't get any meets. In the case of the women, it matters not because blokes will shag anything, luckily for some.

Oh, as for "if you don't like it don't look at them", you don't know what you're looking at until you look (shrug)

Frank

“Blokes will shag anything “ !!!!!! Maybe that applies to you mate "

Point taken. I should have said "...most blokes..".

Frank

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

Are you saying that people with lots of cock pics on their profile could be a sex offender?

R"

You have to make your own mind up as to what sort of person is behind the cock pics, but I'm not taking any risks, it's not worth it - we want our experience to be fun and exciting, we don't need or want to introduce risk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I merely said there is a proven and well-documented correlation between flashers and sex crime - I guess it's a mild form of forcing people to see something they don't want to see - a disregard for people's choices"

Would that really be the case on a hardcore sex site though?

It’s clear to see what it’s like the minute you enter. With all due respect it’s a lot a book reading club lol

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By *entlemanrogueMan  over a year ago

Motherwell


"Many many, ok maybe just once or twice has the subject been raised about cock pics on profile. I think the answer has mostly been, no not keen. Why oh why, are our local updates full of what seems like a crime watch line up of cock pics?

Profile after profile of erect cocks. Please, it's breakfast time! Why can't you hide them in private, so people wanting can ask. Anyone esle agree? "

this is so you can seperate the classy men from the trashy men. simple

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

Are you saying that people with lots of cock pics on their profile could be a sex offender?

R"

Of course there is a possibility and a risk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk."

So who took the photos of the female posing outside?

Is he a sex offender coercing a woman to outrage public decency against her will?

Will it make him turn into a sex crazed lunatic that forces himself on women?

Does that mean everyone on here, nobody excluded is a potential sex case? Yourselves included.

This is a site for people to display themselves without being judged, or at least it is supposed to be.

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By *ungBlackTopMan  over a year ago

salford

Well apparently taking pictures of your cock in varying angles gives the impression it's a different cock, same goes for assholes and piss flaps....weird I know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***"

. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman  over a year ago

Wolverhampton


" I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option. "

You're missing the point. It's not about censorship, it's about consent.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. It's not about censorship, it's about consent."

Then ask consent to see their pics before looking

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By *ithintemptationsCouple  over a year ago

plymouth

who cares ? , its a swinging site not mumsnet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. It's not about censorship, it's about consent."

. Ok so, consent for what ?

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By *entlemanrogueMan  over a year ago

Motherwell


" I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. It's not about censorship, it's about consent."

go.to account and hide all site images.

if you dont, you are by default, consenting to see any and every image on here.

why should i?

you may ask, cos thats how fab works.

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By *udistcpl1Couple  over a year ago

Wirral

It has been raised so many times before but I would imagine that it is very easy to solve i.e., a maximum number per profile and the profile gets blocked if the only pictures are of the guys cock.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option. "

You're missing the point. I can choose to look at dicks in a public gallery. I don't consent to a man sending me a dick pic in a message or having one as an avatar. Therefore I choose to block them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. It's not about censorship, it's about consent.

Then ask consent to see their pics before looking "

Not how consent works. By uploading a photograph to a gallery, that is implied consent for others to view them.

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By *entlemanrogueMan  over a year ago

Motherwell


"It has been raised so many times before but I would imagine that it is very easy to solve i.e., a maximum number per profile and the profile gets blocked if the only pictures are of the guys cock."

doea that work all ways?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"who cares ? , its a swinging site not mumsnet "

Exactly ffs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has been raised so many times before but I would imagine that it is very easy to solve i.e., a maximum number per profile and the profile gets blocked if the only pictures are of the guys cock."

I think that would be wrong. I disagree that the site should be monitoring that. But it would be nice to have the option to filter messages.

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By *iren4uWoman  over a year ago

jersey channel islands


"I used to use face pictures until I found out they were being used by somebody else to comment and abuse women on the site. Plus I’m sure I work with some people on here who I don’t trust completely. Ya get the dick now"

Your dick isn't the only thing about you though surely. A nice body pic maybe better not saying you have to show face

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. I can choose to look at dicks in a public gallery. I don't consent to a man sending me a dick pic in a message or having one as an avatar. Therefore I choose to block them "

. You don’t get to choose which pictures people use as an avatar. It’s nothing to do with you. Same as most other things going on in life. People don’t need your consent. Grow up. The world isn’t about you.

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By *iren4uWoman  over a year ago

jersey channel islands


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. I can choose to look at dicks in a public gallery. I don't consent to a man sending me a dick pic in a message or having one as an avatar. Therefore I choose to block them . You don’t get to choose which pictures people use as an avatar. It’s nothing to do with you. Same as most other things going on in life. People don’t need your consent. Grow up. The world isn’t about you. "

Yes I do think that sending me an unsolicited dick pic is something to do with me. Because then I get the dick pic AND the avatar in my messages. Many times as many guys do it. That's not a gendered opposition either. I don't women should do it to others either. Do fuck off now.

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By *isAdventure69Woman  over a year ago

Hampshire

I’m on another site where you can opt to block explicit pics … needless to say when choosing that option practically every profile has a blank avatar

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

Are you saying that people with lots of cock pics on their profile could be a sex offender?

R

You have to make your own mind up as to what sort of person is behind the cock pics, but I'm not taking any risks, it's not worth it - we want our experience to be fun and exciting, we don't need or want to introduce risk.

"

There you go again, the thousands of guys that post a dick pic pose a risk to you do they !!! You really are prejudiced stereotyping person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. I can choose to look at dicks in a public gallery. I don't consent to a man sending me a dick pic in a message or having one as an avatar. Therefore I choose to block them . You don’t get to choose which pictures people use as an avatar. It’s nothing to do with you. Same as most other things going on in life. People don’t need your consent. Grow up. The world isn’t about you.

Yes I do think that sending me an unsolicited dick pic is something to do with me. Because then I get the dick pic AND the avatar in my messages. Many times as many guys do it. That's not a gendered opposition either. I don't women should do it to others either. Do fuck off now."

. Ah, there you go again. Telling me to fuck off now. You don’t learn anything do you. You can’t tell people what to do !!!!!! It’s nothing to do with you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. I can choose to look at dicks in a public gallery. I don't consent to a man sending me a dick pic in a message or having one as an avatar. Therefore I choose to block them . You don’t get to choose which pictures people use as an avatar. It’s nothing to do with you. Same as most other things going on in life. People don’t need your consent. Grow up. The world isn’t about you.

Yes I do think that sending me an unsolicited dick pic is something to do with me. Because then I get the dick pic AND the avatar in my messages. Many times as many guys do it. That's not a gendered opposition either. I don't women should do it to others either. Do fuck off now.. Ah, there you go again. Telling me to fuck off now. You don’t learn anything do you. You can’t tell people what to do !!!!!! It’s nothing to do with you. "

"You can't tell people what to do!!!!!!" But it was ok for you to tell me to grow up? Huh.

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By *G CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Newton Stewart

Anyone can post whatever they want on their profile, but if all I can see is a gallery of cock pictures then I am not interested. Shallow, perhaps, but there has to be a certain initial physical attraction to get my attention and a disembodied cock doesn't do it. They might just as well post pictures of their thumbs as their cock...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

These things never go well

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By *wistedTooCouple  over a year ago

Frimley

I find them kinda gross… I’d not want to post a pussy pic as my profile either. They literally offer nothing unique or interesting to get your attention.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seems to be some confusion here about the profile picture, and pictures in the public gallery.

If I choose to look at a public gallery on this site, I expect a high chance of seeing genitals. The difference is I've CHOSEN to look. Having it zoomed in super close up as your profile picture means I have *no choice* but to see it.

***Quite scary how many people can't see the difference, makes me concerned about their views on consent as a whole.***

Especially ***. I would politely suggest that if peoples choice of profile pictures on a site like this is likely to upset you then maybe reconsider if this is really a site for you. Having pictures censored to suit your sensibilities really isn’t an option.

You're missing the point. I can choose to look at dicks in a public gallery. I don't consent to a man sending me a dick pic in a message or having one as an avatar. Therefore I choose to block them . You don’t get to choose which pictures people use as an avatar. It’s nothing to do with you. Same as most other things going on in life. People don’t need your consent. Grow up. The world isn’t about you.

Yes I do think that sending me an unsolicited dick pic is something to do with me. Because then I get the dick pic AND the avatar in my messages. Many times as many guys do it. That's not a gendered opposition either. I don't women should do it to others either. Do fuck off now.. Ah, there you go again. Telling me to fuck off now. You don’t learn anything do you. You can’t tell people what to do !!!!!! It’s nothing to do with you.

"You can't tell people what to do!!!!!!" But it was ok for you to tell me to grow up? Huh. "

. Well intentioned advice. Somewhat different

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds

This is a swinging site where people look to satisfy their sexual fantasies. Is there anyone who has a fantasy of fucking, sucking or wanking what they consider to be an ugly cock? If not what's the problem of seeing cock pics on a profile? Much rather that than unzip a guy and recoil.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 22/09/21 13:22:46]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to use face pictures until I found out they were being used by somebody else to comment and abuse women on the site. Plus I’m sure I work with some people on here who I don’t trust completely. Ya get the dick now"

You only have a face and a dick... That must be hard to live with?!

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I used to use face pictures until I found out they were being used by somebody else to comment and abuse women on the site. Plus I’m sure I work with some people on here who I don’t trust completely. Ya get the dick now

You only have a face and a dick... That must be hard to live with?! "

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Everyone is different in their opinion of what they want to see or don’t see.

We wouldn’t look at a profile where it’s just a cock pic so we’d bypass them. And we click off profiles where it’s just action shots too.

If we get messages showing the same we just delete.

Whilst this is a sex site, we like to build a rapport/connection with people before deciding whether we want to see more.

We don’t find genitalia (cock or pussy) sexy at all from someone we have no attraction with.

But we just bypass or delete so it doesn’t affect us in any way

K

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm surprised there's all this much fuss over cock pics when most couples and single women pretend they don't view single male profiles.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman  over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"This is a swinging site where people look to satisfy their sexual fantasies. Is there anyone who has a fantasy of fucking, sucking or wanking what they consider to be an ugly cock? If not what's the problem of seeing cock pics on a profile? Much rather that than unzip a guy and recoil. "

Nobody is saying there shouldn't be cock pics. What we are saying is that dumped in our inboxes, or used as a profile picture, ignores consent. I don't want to see it like that. If I want to see it, I will ask for it or look in the *public gallery*. I prefer to choose when to see someone's genitals, not have them forced upon me. Having them as the profile pic gives me no choice but to see it.

Why is this so difficult for people to grasp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk."

Bs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t have any on my profile.

Unless we click I won’t see you naked, you won’t see me.

Plus apart from late teens/early 20’s rugby tour you wouldn’t be naked in a bar. Why offer it here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

None on display on my public profile. Only 2 in my friends only, not like I need to take 50 shots of my dick to hopefully get his good side. It is what it is, multiple angles won't change that

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

Maybe that's all that they have to offer?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe that's all that they have to offer?"

Bless them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is a swinging site where people look to satisfy their sexual fantasies. Is there anyone who has a fantasy of fucking, sucking or wanking what they consider to be an ugly cock? If not what's the problem of seeing cock pics on a profile? Much rather that than unzip a guy and recoil.

Nobody is saying there shouldn't be cock pics. What we are saying is that dumped in our inboxes, or used as a profile picture, ignores consent. I don't want to see it like that. If I want to see it, I will ask for it or look in the *public gallery*. I prefer to choose when to see someone's genitals, not have them forced upon me. Having them as the profile pic gives me no choice but to see it.

Why is this so difficult for people to grasp "

Reminds me of men and women who grope strangers at swinging clubs before determining consent.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

That's the end of todger Thursday then if 1 inch avatar pics warrant a block.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Think some people on this thread are on the wrong site if they think a cock pic shouldn't b used as their profile pic! Maybe join a dating site? Cant belive some of the posts here!! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"That's the end of todger Thursday then if 1 inch avatar pics warrant a block. "
. It’s actually worth putting a picture up so as to get blocked

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"One is enough...but I just counted 37 on a local profile...nothing else but his cock at slightly different angles...no body, just a cock...it speaks volumes

50% of your photos are of your tits !!!!

...and the other 50% isnt and shows my body shape...and of the 43 photos of in my private gallery only two show my vagina and the rest are face or full body shots.

Ive chosen a few pics for public consumption based on my perception of what would attract the opposite sex.

Its well researched that men have much higher tendancies towards visual sexual stimuli than women and that our brains operate in significantly different ways. Many men on Fab dont understand that concept.

You have some great pics on your profile, and i wouldnt class yours as one of "those" profiles so why are you taking it so personally?

Because I’m sick and tired of the constant men bashing threads in the forums which a lot of the time are so hypocritical.

This thread was started by a couple not a woman? And some of us have never man bashed? Well not in the way u saying x

Clearly written by a woman. What it should have been is “ why do so many men and women folk there profiles with close up genitalia photos’ . But no, it’s the exclusive prevail of just us guys isn’t it !!!!

No. There's a proven and well documented correlation between male flashers and sex crime. There is no correlation between female flashers and sex crime.

Anyone with a cock avatar is blocked because we want to avoid certain scenarios and reduce risk.

OMG if we post a dick pic we are all sex pests and rapists now are we. This attitude just highlights what I’ve been saying

I certainly didn't say all - are you manipulating my words to suit your agenda?

I merely said there is a proven and well-documented correlation between flashers and sex crime - I guess it's a mild form of forcing people to see something they don't want to see - a disregard for people's choices.

The logic seems clear to me, but as you've often proven, logic is not your strong point "

Ohh my goodness ! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"That's the end of todger Thursday then if 1 inch avatar pics warrant a block. . It’s actually worth putting a picture up so as to get blocked"

I blocked you despite one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Think some people on this thread are on the wrong site if they think a cock pic shouldn't b used as their profile pic! Maybe join a dating site? Cant belive some of the posts here!! x"

So true. No one is forced to look at people's photos, if you don't like cock pics then as most guys will have them don't bloody look at them.

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"This is a swinging site where people look to satisfy their sexual fantasies. Is there anyone who has a fantasy of fucking, sucking or wanking what they consider to be an ugly cock? If not what's the problem of seeing cock pics on a profile? Much rather that than unzip a guy and recoil.

Nobody is saying there shouldn't be cock pics. What we are saying is that dumped in our inboxes, or used as a profile picture, ignores consent. I don't want to see it like that. If I want to see it, I will ask for it or look in the *public gallery*. I prefer to choose when to see someone's genitals, not have them forced upon me. Having them as the profile pic gives me no choice but to see it.

Why is this so difficult for people to grasp

Reminds me of men and women who grope strangers at swinging clubs before determining consent. "

Really? Guys who post cock pics on a swingers' site remind you of people who are guilty of sexual assault? Seems a bit harsh.

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By *ondonbwcMan  over a year ago

London

Haha I can’t even put my cock as my profile pic.. unnecessary attention from a crowd I’m not after

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