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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a lot of things do, DDLG is a lifestyle/kink that can get a lot of flack and the people involved in it can get a lot of abuse and judgement. I've experienced this myself in the past as I know a few others have.
This is a safe space to say hi and chat.
No kink shaming please and if you haven't got anything nice to say then please don't say anything
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Hi sparkle
I'm In a MD/lb dynamic with my sub
I find once people actually find out about the different layers of this lifestyle then they become more intrigued about the roles rather than just rebuke at the label |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi sparkle
I'm In a MD/lb dynamic with my sub
I find once people actually find out about the different layers of this lifestyle then they become more intrigued about the roles rather than just rebuke at the label "
Definitely can relate to this. Open, honest conversation can make a huge difference. A lot of the time people judge because they don't understand xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally understand why it’s too close to the mark for some.
I was chatting with a much younger lady on here a while back as she turned the conversation into a Mother/daughter role play.
It was first time exploring that for me and as fun as it was to start off with it just ended up being too weird for me so I stopped it. Actually being a parent as well, it all started feeling a bit too close too home.
I wonder for those that do play successfully like this, how do you separate out the two ? |
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"I totally understand why it’s too close to the mark for some.
I was chatting with a much younger lady on here a while back as she turned the conversation into a Mother/daughter role play.
It was first time exploring that for me and as fun as it was to start off with it just ended up being too weird for me so I stopped it. Actually being a parent as well, it all started feeling a bit too close too home.
I wonder for those that do play successfully like this, how do you separate out the two ? "
Thats the interesting part of this lifestyle Jaime, mine is non sexual. It's a caregiving nurture dynamic of protection and stability for him, he is an adult in need of me. The MD/lb part is just a label which is not Age Play, that is a different kink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a dynamic I knew nothing about when I joined fab, and initially I wasn’t interested, and didn’t think it was for me.
The more I found out about it, the more interested I was.
I’m in a Ddlg relationship, and it’s a beautiful, supportive and loving dynamic.
He guides me, supports and teaches me, he makes me feel safe for the first time in my life, and had brought about a huge amount of healing for me.
He gets a lot from it too, but I’ll let him comment if he chooses.
He knows me better than anyone ever has, and allows me to be vulnerable, because I trust him implicitly.
He also throws me round, and uses and abuses me when I need it   . Win win! |
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I'm a middle who is in a DD/lg dynamic.
Happily was before joining fab. We both fell into it by accident after being in a typical D/s dynamic that just developed into it. After noticing that nuturing was a big part of what we did.
Happily answer questions on here if anyone has any questions
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking "
I was in a long-term DDLg relationship. I enjoyed being a mentor for an alpha little. I have done variations of this over the year. the age play element of it does little for me (may be I just haven’t met the right person yet).
I like the way it brings the control, intimacy and power transfer elements in a single construct |
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"I've done Mommy/son Aunty/nephew role play dynamics with younger men. I find i do need to have that age gap for it to work with me. "
Funny how it all works, my caregiver is 9 years younger than I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for your explanations. I think this was where my experience went wrong, the person I was talking to definitely took into what you are describing as age play and it definitely got weird for me.
Glad you’re all finding something that works for you |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Hey sparkle,
This is something I’ve gotten much more into since joining fab. I guess it’s an extension of my preference for submissives, LG”s / BG’s allow my nurturing and caring side to develop while still enjoying obedience, compliance and making decisions for others. When I’m DDLG mode I do struggle a bit giving punishment and physical domination, impact play etc , I’m interested to know if / how others flow between two styles of domination, or if they keep them separate
Kink shaming often comes out of lack of understanding and invalid assumptions. I have no issue understanding some guys will enjoy cleaning another guys come from their loved one , even though I couldn’t comprehend ever doing that myself, I would never judge, it’s just a kink. |
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"Hey sparkle,
This is something I’ve gotten much more into since joining fab. I guess it’s an extension of my preference for submissives, LG”s / BG’s allow my nurturing and caring side to develop while still enjoying obedience, compliance and making decisions for others. When I’m DDLG mode I do struggle a bit giving punishment and physical domination, impact play etc , I’m interested to know if / how others flow between two styles of domination, or if they keep them separate
Kink shaming often comes out of lack of understanding and invalid assumptions. I have no issue understanding some guys will enjoy cleaning another guys come from their loved one , even though I couldn’t comprehend ever doing that myself, I would never judge, it’s just a kink."
It very much depends on the scene, sometimes we're very much in D/s mode. Others it's a blended version of D/s and DDlg. But I do enjoy pain a lot so it works for us. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I seem to end up being in the group of people on the shame end of the stick as I very much combine age play and sex / BDSM with my DDlg stuff.
I have a submissive little.
I have an alpha middle.
I have a dominant middle too... |
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"I totally understand why it’s too close to the mark for some.
I was chatting with a much younger lady on here a while back as she turned the conversation into a Mother/daughter role play.
It was first time exploring that for me and as fun as it was to start off with it just ended up being too weird for me so I stopped it. Actually being a parent as well, it all started feeling a bit too close too home.
I wonder for those that do play successfully like this, how do you separate out the two ? "
I don't actually call my DD daddy. Not because I disagree with its usage. It was too strange as I use the word to describe M in real life. I wanted a word that was separate to my real life.
Glad you stopped it if it doesn't feel right then you certainly should say and stop. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I totally understand why it’s too close to the mark for some.
I was chatting with a much younger lady on here a while back as she turned the conversation into a Mother/daughter role play.
It was first time exploring that for me and as fun as it was to start off with it just ended up being too weird for me so I stopped it. Actually being a parent as well, it all started feeling a bit too close too home.
I wonder for those that do play successfully like this, how do you separate out the two ?
Thats the interesting part of this lifestyle Jaime, mine is non sexual. It's a caregiving nurture dynamic of protection and stability for him, he is an adult in need of me. The MD/lb part is just a label which is not Age Play, that is a different kink"
Mine doesn't incorporate age play either. I don't even really class myself as a little. For me it's more about knowing I'm totally safe when at my most vulnerable and having the opportunity to explore that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking "
I should of read your comments before I replied I'm pretty good at having a sulk when I want to too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey sparkle,
This is something I’ve gotten much more into since joining fab. I guess it’s an extension of my preference for submissives, LG”s / BG’s allow my nurturing and caring side to develop while still enjoying obedience, compliance and making decisions for others. When I’m DDLG mode I do struggle a bit giving punishment and physical domination, impact play etc , I’m interested to know if / how others flow between two styles of domination, or if they keep them separate
Kink shaming often comes out of lack of understanding and invalid assumptions. I have no issue understanding some guys will enjoy cleaning another guys come from their loved one , even though I couldn’t comprehend ever doing that myself, I would never judge, it’s just a kink."
Ours tends to flow organically based on our needs at the time. I wouldn't say we ever really separate the two though because he's naturally very nurturing so it's at the forefront of everything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seem to end up being in the group of people on the shame end of the stick as I very much combine age play and sex / BDSM with my DDlg stuff.
I have a submissive little.
I have an alpha middle.
I have a dominant middle too..."
Unfortunately, I'm not sure if we'll ever be able to stop the kink shaming. As said above, people judge what they don't understand so I think one of the few ways to help that is to make it more of a natural conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
I should of read your comments before I replied I'm pretty good at having a sulk when I want to too. "
I’ll always pout I think, even when I’m 90, it’s quite fun |
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"I seem to end up being in the group of people on the shame end of the stick as I very much combine age play and sex / BDSM with my DDlg stuff.
I have a submissive little.
I have an alpha middle.
I have a dominant middle too...
Unfortunately, I'm not sure if we'll ever be able to stop the kink shaming. As said above, people judge what they don't understand so I think one of the few ways to help that is to make it more of a natural conversation. "
Pretty sure people can absolutely understand the dynamic of dd/lg and still judge and think it’s problematic.
Way too many people like to use the “no kink shaming” mantra to get away from critically reflecting on certain kinks and whether they’re problematic or not— or rooted in something pathological. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I seem to end up being in the group of people on the shame end of the stick as I very much combine age play and sex / BDSM with my DDlg stuff.
I have a submissive little.
I have an alpha middle.
I have a dominant middle too...
Unfortunately, I'm not sure if we'll ever be able to stop the kink shaming. As said above, people judge what they don't understand so I think one of the few ways to help that is to make it more of a natural conversation.
Pretty sure people can absolutely understand the dynamic of dd/lg and still judge and think it’s problematic.
Way too many people like to use the “no kink shaming” mantra to get away from critically reflecting on certain kinks and whether they’re problematic or not— or rooted in something pathological. "
You’re probably right, but for the most part, it seems to be people that don’t understand the dynamic that are the most critical. Most, but not all. |
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"Hey sparkle,
This is something I’ve gotten much more into since joining fab. I guess it’s an extension of my preference for submissives, LG”s / BG’s allow my nurturing and caring side to develop while still enjoying obedience, compliance and making decisions for others. When I’m DDLG mode I do struggle a bit giving punishment and physical domination, impact play etc , I’m interested to know if / how others flow between two styles of domination, or if they keep them separate"
I am not in a MD/lb headspace when he is receiving, I am in a different headspace that wants to push his boundaries to the edge, once play is over we naturally fall back into our MD/lb dynamic |
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Hello sparkle,
Being the age I am, I get a few younger ladies on here asking for this with me. I LOVE it. It works for us both in the way of sexual enjoyment, and with telephone chat, I've achieved some very strong orgasms! |
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By *rian4uMan
over a year ago
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"Hi sparkle
I'm In a MD/lb dynamic with my sub
I find once people actually find out about the different layers of this lifestyle then they become more intrigued about the roles rather than just rebuke at the label "
Hi, i cant pm you so I am asking here . Could you please let me know what are the different layers of a MD/lb lifestyle? Intrigued to know more, thank you. |
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By *rian4uMan
over a year ago
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"I seem to end up being in the group of people on the shame end of the stick as I very much combine age play and sex / BDSM with my DDlg stuff.
I have a submissive little.
I have an alpha middle.
I have a dominant middle too..."
I cant pm you . Can you explain what is an alpha and dominant middle please? |
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"I seem to end up being in the group of people on the shame end of the stick as I very much combine age play and sex / BDSM with my DDlg stuff.
I have a submissive little.
I have an alpha middle.
I have a dominant middle too...
Unfortunately, I'm not sure if we'll ever be able to stop the kink shaming. As said above, people judge what they don't understand so I think one of the few ways to help that is to make it more of a natural conversation.
Pretty sure people can absolutely understand the dynamic of dd/lg and still judge and think it’s problematic.
Way too many people like to use the “no kink shaming” mantra to get away from critically reflecting on certain kinks and whether they’re problematic or not— or rooted in something pathological. "
There isn't a need to shame, question something and reflection yes. Are you suggesting DDlg is problematic or is rooted in something pathological? Sorry I'm just a bit confused. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Way too many people like to use the “no kink shaming” mantra to get away from critically reflecting on certain kinks and whether they’re problematic or not— or rooted in something pathological.
There isn't a need to shame, question something and reflection yes. Are you suggesting DDlg is problematic or is rooted in something pathological? Sorry I'm just a bit confused."
And way too many people don't think that those of us involved in such play haven't spent time understanding our motivations and the psychological impact of our play.
Believe me that is not true. |
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"Hi sparkle
I'm In a MD/lb dynamic with my sub
I find once people actually find out about the different layers of this lifestyle then they become more intrigued about the roles rather than just rebuke at the label "
From one MD/lb relationship to another *waves* |
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By *rab74Man
over a year ago
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"And way too many people don't think that those of us involved in such play haven't spent time understanding our motivations and the psychological impact of our play.
Believe me that is not true. "
Very much so!
One of the most basic forms of kink is rough sex. Without consent of the other person, that's sexual assault. The next most basic element of kink is spanking. That's assault. The next most basic element is tying them up. That's unlawful imprisonment.
If you've enjoyed doing any of them, ask why you or your partner shouldn't be in jail. When you've worked out that it's something which two consenting people have done together which isn't hurting anyone else, then that's the same reason why DD/lg and the like are not pathological.
I'm a feminist and I'm profoundly opposed to all forms of abuse. I also get off on spanking girls, amongst other things, and my D/s relationships have involved significant elements of handing over control including DD/lg. Consent is what makes those things line up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the misconceptions come from the label itself.
Many people like the dynamic of DDLG but not in the age play sense and more in the caring and nurturing sense which some have mentioned, maybe there needs to be another label other than DDLG to differentiate from the age play aspect of this.
I have dabbled here and there and I like the dynamic however I had a terrible experience with someone abusive who simply wanted a naive submissive to take advantage of and play out some of his questionable fantasies.
Many different types of kink are open to abuse from undesirables but I personally have come across far too many who “enjoy” the DDLG dynamic than I have of any other fetish I’m into. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its aka CG/l if you don’t like DDMD/lglb"
Yeah I’ve heard of CG/L but I think some people gave opinions on the “Little” part also.
I can’t think of anything else to describe it though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in a DD/lg dynamic, with someone I met on here actually! I couldn't be happier, I have learnt so much about myself already. Those traits that get described by people as being 'childish''sulky''over sensitive'are totally understood by my Dom and he deals with it accordingly! For some people this sort of lifestyle is a need, it is for me anyway! |
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I was in a relationship years ago with an older women who was Domme who told me to address her as Mummy and the thing she enjoyed the most was having my head in her lap as I suckled on her breasts. I used to address her as Mummy in public but not in front of friends, she wanted me to but that was a step too far for me. It was a normal D/s relationship other than that.
I loved the dynamic and would relish being in a similar relationship again although it wasn’t something I’d ever considered before I met her. |
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"I'm in a DD/lg dynamic, with someone I met on here actually! I couldn't be happier, I have learnt so much about myself already. Those traits that get described by people as being 'childish''sulky''over sensitive'are totally understood by my Dom and he deals with it accordingly! For some people this sort of lifestyle is a need, it is for me anyway!"
It's exactly that, it's someone who can deal with the needy high maintenance me. Something that would normally put people off or I desperately try and hide. It's just a dynamic where that is understood and dealt with. |
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Recently me and a Miss have been acting out a naughty teacher role play and it's the funnest thing iv done in ages
Its nice to switch things up now and again. Used to being the more dominant one in the relationship |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I think the misconceptions come from the label itself.
Many people like the dynamic of DDLG but not in the age play sense and more in the caring and nurturing sense which some have mentioned, maybe there needs to be another label other than DDLG to differentiate from the age play aspect of this.
I have dabbled here and there and I like the dynamic however I had a terrible experience with someone abusive who simply wanted a naive submissive to take advantage of and play out some of his questionable fantasies.
Many different types of kink are open to abuse from undesirables but I personally have come across far too many who “enjoy” the DDLG dynamic than I have of any other fetish I’m into. "
Your experience isn’t nice but tbh it doesn’t surprise me, both D and DD, will attract power hungry insecure men and bully’s who don’t understand what a Sub or LG actually needs and can’t provide it.
My experience , LG’s can be challenging, attention needy, sulky, impatient, and can be consuming so you need to think very carefully before agreeing to be DD |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the misconceptions come from the label itself.
Many people like the dynamic of DDLG but not in the age play sense and more in the caring and nurturing sense which some have mentioned, maybe there needs to be another label other than DDLG to differentiate from the age play aspect of this.
I have dabbled here and there and I like the dynamic however I had a terrible experience with someone abusive who simply wanted a naive submissive to take advantage of and play out some of his questionable fantasies.
Many different types of kink are open to abuse from undesirables but I personally have come across far too many who “enjoy” the DDLG dynamic than I have of any other fetish I’m into.
Your experience isn’t nice but tbh it doesn’t surprise me, both D and DD, will attract power hungry insecure men and bully’s who don’t understand what a Sub or LG actually needs and can’t provide it.
My experience , LG’s can be challenging, attention needy, sulky, impatient, and can be consuming so you need to think very carefully before agreeing to be DD"
They can also be rarely challenging/occasionally needy and extremely loving, and make it a very rewarding dynamic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what annoys me.. If you don't like something or disagree why comment.. it was an appreciation forum not moaning
Oh this is very tame compared to most DDlg threads"
Yeah by now usually everyone involved has been branded sick/pedo/mentally ill or a criminal or threatened with the police so this is a friendly one for a change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say normal you say pathalogical, lets call the whole thing off.
So much of life is about lines in the sand and sex is so often about getting close to those lines and when you close you most certainly become intoxicated by the mix of emotional play and raw sex (Rowland Rivron’s band!) that grows slowly or erupts depending on your cuppa tea.
I love Vixen and Stag stuff and in the end I suspect it triggers the same parts of the brain as all sexual kinks where erotic and phycological play are combined in whatever ratio and timescale to heighten both parts into what is often an intoxicating outcome - followed by a nice lie down and some quiet time. Pathological, only if you cross the lines of legality or becomes an addiction? As we all say if it is between consenting adults and no laws are broken then… etc etc
That said, you are all undoubtedly perverts. Takes one to know one!
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"You know what annoys me.. If you don't like something or disagree why comment.. it was an appreciation forum not moaning
Oh this is very tame compared to most DDlg threads"
Yeah I can Imagine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
Same lol "
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
Same lol
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Hahaha now what would you be sulking about huh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
Same lol
Hahaha now what would you be sulking about huh? "
Nothing right now, but things can change |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
Same lol
Hahaha now what would you be sulking about huh?
Nothing right now, but things can change "
I'm sure they can you girls always have something to sulk about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
Same lol
Hahaha now what would you be sulking about huh?
Nothing right now, but things can change
I'm sure they can you girls always have something to sulk about "
It’s a skill you know |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"It’s also doesn’t necessarily include age play, which is a common misconception. I don’t behave like a little girl, except when I’m pouting and sulking
Same lol
Hahaha now what would you be sulking about huh?
Nothing right now, but things can change
I'm sure they can you girls always have something to sulk about
It’s a skill you know "
Oh I know what you mean.. you can switch it on just like that around the right man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what annoys me.. If you don't like something or disagree why comment.. it was an appreciation forum not moaning
Oh this is very tame compared to most DDlg threads"
Wow isn't it? |
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Being a switch on the D/S spectrum I’ve always had a caregiving nature as part of my dominant side. MD/LB is a dynamic I’m keen to explore to tap into my submissive side… finding the right MD is a challenge in itself though. Not come across many into this dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx"
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic. |
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"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic. "
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x |
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over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x"
I think someone referred to it above - Mommy Domme Little Boy MDLB. Or little for short. |
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"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x
I think someone referred to it above - Mommy Domme Little Boy MDLB. Or little for short. "
Would it be a dynamic that You would enjoy? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x
I think someone referred to it above - Mommy Domme Little Boy MDLB. Or little for short.
Would it be a dynamic that You would enjoy? X"
I'm a submissive, sorry. Not my thing. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x"
Wowwww no I think your very wrong there.. a lot of lads have fantasies about mature women or milf or stepmom kind of thing.. that can't be compared to men wanting to wear nappies and shit themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x
Wowwww no I think your very wrong there.. a lot of lads have fantasies about mature women or milf or stepmom kind of thing.. that can't be compared to men wanting to wear nappies and shit themselves "
It's the other end of the spectrum of caregiver/little role play so yes I think he's correct. Personally I don't want to age play - pretend to be a little - I like the caregiving side that's all.
Having fantasies about older women isn't anything to do with DDlg? |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x
Wowwww no I think your very wrong there.. a lot of lads have fantasies about mature women or milf or stepmom kind of thing.. that can't be compared to men wanting to wear nappies and shit themselves
It's the other end of the spectrum of caregiver/little role play so yes I think he's correct. Personally I don't want to age play - pretend to be a little - I like the caregiving side that's all.
Having fantasies about older women isn't anything to do with DDlg? "
Yeah he just wanted ro see if anyone was up for it instead of starting his own forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a dynamic I knew nothing about when I joined fab, and initially I wasn’t interested, and didn’t think it was for me.
The more I found out about it, the more interested I was.
I’m in a Ddlg relationship, and it’s a beautiful, supportive and loving dynamic.
He guides me, supports and teaches me, he makes me feel safe for the first time in my life, and had brought about a huge amount of healing for me.
He gets a lot from it too, but I’ll let him comment if he chooses.
He knows me better than anyone ever has, and allows me to be vulnerable, because I trust him implicitly.
He also throws me round, and uses and abuses me when I need it . Win win!"
I’d love to find this dynamic currently! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a dynamic I knew nothing about when I joined fab, and initially I wasn’t interested, and didn’t think it was for me.
The more I found out about it, the more interested I was.
I’m in a Ddlg relationship, and it’s a beautiful, supportive and loving dynamic.
He guides me, supports and teaches me, he makes me feel safe for the first time in my life, and had brought about a huge amount of healing for me.
He gets a lot from it too, but I’ll let him comment if he chooses.
He knows me better than anyone ever has, and allows me to be vulnerable, because I trust him implicitly.
He also throws me round, and uses and abuses me when I need it . Win win!
I’d love to find this dynamic currently! "
I hope you find one, it’s very special. I’ve grown and healed so much in mine  |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"It’s a dynamic I knew nothing about when I joined fab, and initially I wasn’t interested, and didn’t think it was for me.
The more I found out about it, the more interested I was.
I’m in a Ddlg relationship, and it’s a beautiful, supportive and loving dynamic.
He guides me, supports and teaches me, he makes me feel safe for the first time in my life, and had brought about a huge amount of healing for me.
He gets a lot from it too, but I’ll let him comment if he chooses.
He knows me better than anyone ever has, and allows me to be vulnerable, because I trust him implicitly.
He also throws me round, and uses and abuses me when I need it . Win win!
I’d love to find this dynamic currently!
I hope you find one, it’s very special. I’ve grown and healed so much in mine "
It really can be fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a dynamic I knew nothing about when I joined fab, and initially I wasn’t interested, and didn’t think it was for me.
The more I found out about it, the more interested I was.
I’m in a Ddlg relationship, and it’s a beautiful, supportive and loving dynamic.
He guides me, supports and teaches me, he makes me feel safe for the first time in my life, and had brought about a huge amount of healing for me.
He gets a lot from it too, but I’ll let him comment if he chooses.
He knows me better than anyone ever has, and allows me to be vulnerable, because I trust him implicitly.
He also throws me round, and uses and abuses me when I need it . Win win!
I’d love to find this dynamic currently! "
Same |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
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Do plenty of your own reading/research, don't believe what you're told by someone who claims to know what they're talking about. Both lg/bg CAN be age regressive but by the same token, they won't always be. There is no dividing line, as with pretty much all things kink related. |
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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
I have to admit id never come across dd/lg until we got together. I have never considered myself dom, but after lots of discussion, research i came around to the idea.
It as totaly transformed our relationship, theres a new found openness that allows us to explore in ways we havnt before.
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Is there such a thing as DMLB
Domme Mummy little boy.
Not something that I have given much thought in the past but it could be very hot xx
It's not called DMLB I don't think but yes I've come across people in this dynamic.
Thank You for correcting me.
The closest thing I can think of when comparing is the adult baby kink x"
While adult baby can come into this it's not exclusively that at all... There are as many people into MDlb as DDlg (in my experience)
Hell one of my ways of playing has been dLG (submissive daddy, dominant girl). |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Do plenty of your own reading/research, don't believe what you're told by someone who claims to know what they're talking about. Both lg/bg CAN be age regressive but by the same token, they won't always be. There is no dividing line, as with pretty much all things kink related. "
This is why labels are so unhelpful, they are meant to help understanding, but often loaded with assumptions and do the complete opposite |
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